How long to wait before making things official?

[Dmaria507]

I have been talking to this guy for a few months now, he told me that he was not ready for a relationship right this instant but he would be open to it in the future.

We talk daily and see each other almost every day, but I am starting to feel like I’m going to be here forever, in limbo. How long would you wait before walking away?

[Anonymous]

Depends, is he saying that he still wants to date around or is he saying that he wants to take it slow with you (and only you)? If it’s the latter then I’d personally wait up to a year but if not then I’m instantly gone lol

[Avicenna]

Is he seeing other people? If so, I'd tell him he needs to commit to an exclusive relationship or you will move on.

[Dmaria507]

To my knowledge, he’s not seeing anyone else.

[Avicenna]

Then wait a month or two to bring up the subject again. Don't let him fob you off forever though.

[Whatever2929292]

When ever you feel ready to ask him about that. If you feel ready then go ahead and ask.

[Guy13]

That varies. 7 months in my book

[In_Trance]

As long as it takes