When should we make it official?

[Shegoemoo]

I’ve been talking to this guy for almost 2 months and we’re hitting it off super well—I really like being around him, he makes me feel beautiful and I can be myself. I recently stopped talking to other “potentials” and I’ve asked if he was talking to anyone he says no. Thing is, he has an asked me to be his girlfriend. We do almost everything a couple does but without the title. I don’t want to pressure him into being with me because he said he was still hurt from his ex killing herself. I know we can be together as a couple, I literally can see it—but why hasn’t he asked me? When is he suppose to ask me?

[SteveSmith1985]

No. It's a conversation you need to have together, but it is by no means his job to bring it up. You need to ask him AFTER TELLING HIM that you want to be exclusive. Read that last sentence again please. You missed it.

But if you do that, and he feels the same way; he'll say so.

I'm like about to head to bed, or you would have gotten a much longer, much better answer. I even have my own term for the conversation I talk about it on here so often: It's an "Exclusivity conversation" you need.

Be open, honest, put all your cards on the table FIRST.

Oh and as for when? You're already late. Get on that. Or you're gonna end up hurt.