Guys, Is it wrong to be with someone more then 20 years older then me?

[Angel_Bloom]

what is your opinion on an 18 year old dating a 50 year old?

[Whatever2929292]

As long as one is not underage I don't think that it matters. Now this depends on the reason they are together as well.

Now, I say that it is none of my concern who people choose to date. It is their relationship not mine. I don't think there is anything wrong with dating someone 20 years older or 20 years younger for that matter. As long as one person is not underage.

As far as a 18 year old dating someone whose 50. That really depends on the reason why they are together speaking morally and ethically but legally it would be fine.

[ohshee]

I can't tell you if its wrong or right only you can do this . And if the guy really loves you he will be honest with and tell you. There will become a moment in time when your going to say he's to old and when that day comes he needs to give you blessing and let you go there us a reason for everything we do in life but he should never hold you back from being who your meant to be

[Fireguy17]

Great for him, not much of a future in it for you.
You probably will never have kids, or a higher education, things like that.
You probably don't have much in common, other than where he takes you, things that he may be providing you, and booking each other.
You might end up missing out on a lot of things with your friends as well.

[Eugene_JKR]

Yes, because you do not value yourself from the prospective of the age, and he is just looking at you as at a new cloth, or a thing. Youth is something that nobody get's back and you are becoming a symbol of this for him. (I am 42, by the way., but that just gives me better understanding of certain things)

[DavidRaul]

Not wrong at all. If you feel safe and been given the respect that you should receive, then there's nothing wrong about it

[ChiTown33]

Statistically the odds for a successful relationship aren't in your favor longer term with that large of an age gap. But there's nothing "wrong" with it. If you're both happy that's what matters.
Good luck.

[Avicenna]

No, it's legal. All that matters is whether you're compatible, but that's also true if you're the same age.

[vald9inches]

You are both adults so there is absolutely nothing wrong with it despite all the hate you might get. If it makes you happy beautiful I say do it! That's all that matters 😊

[Sparkie460]

Nobody can tell you if it's right or wrong. You should do what is right for you. You are of legal age and you can make your own decisions. If you both love each other then be with him.

[B4852]

Really depends on the relationship and if both feel comfortable I suppose.

[Lucious22]

Wrong no, weird in the public eyes definitely

i don’t understand why the huge age difference, but in my opinion the older you get the more acceptable the public views the age difference

[Loser94]

Yes that is very wrong like ee honey who touched you as a kid damn that some serious messed up shit you got going on in your head

[Angel_Bloom]

Oh just My step dad and his mates. But I'm okay. Thanks for asking

[one1wild00]

Since both of you are over 18 as long as you both are happy then it's all good.

[maximumpower]

google for "gold digger" and "daddy issues."
chances are that at least one applies.

[jasco]

I mean I find it a bit much but go ahead and do you

[shortster]

It is stretching things. But if you love each other; who am I to look down at that?

[Slim57]

Nah if you're both adults, the people who dislike it are just jealous that they have limited options I suppose

[clemdenim]

if you are enjoying the relationship, have fun, not our business, let no one judge you

[Iron_Man]

No problem your legal

[Berethor]

It means dating someone that can be your dad.

[HighValue]

Does he have kids within 15 years of your age?

[Wise4myage]

No, because your 18 and legal.

[LordOfThePines]

Date who you want. You are both adults.

[MrTaboo]

Why not? Are you having fun? Do you like him?

[jjj101010]

You are both adults