Why are women so critical of men, when men tend to be less critical of them?

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It seems to me that women tend to be more critical of men then the other way around. True men generally expect a woman to look good and to be of a healthy weight. But it seems most things with a guy can be deal breaker. There to short, to tall, to nice, to mean, boring, do they have any skills, the list go's on. I think it's partly because of woke culture. Where women can do no wrong. And men are almost always wrong. Talking from my own experience I'm not too picky about the girls I talk to. The biggest deal is if there attractive. Everything else matters much less. Any thoughts?

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

The biggest deal is "If they're attractive. Everything else matters much less."

Well, to women attractive might be a tighter term. I certainly want a man who takes care of himself, isn't boring, is nice and has skills. That's what I find attractive. I don't know what lists other women have, but mine isn't too long.

I'd like to have interests in common. That's about it. Maybe you've chatted up the wrong women, or meet them randomly instead of through friends and family. Review all the chicks you've met in the past two years. How did you? Where did you?

Study your likes and differences. You've got to mesh on a host of different levels to ultimately get along. All of this takes time, too. You don't really know someone until you've known them a year or so and spent lots of time with them in different situations. Friendship. dating is an investment plan. Some investments pan out, others fail. The reasons are broad and many. But study your choices. Make changes where you need to and good luck going forward.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

If you ask me, I think being confident and charming is way easier than exercising for 60 minutes a day to stay in shape. I’m confident and charming but have no advantages cause guys don’t care about that.

Wsx2wsx2ws · Accepted Answer

I certainly have experienced, not only the trivial rejection but out right attacks, slander and viciousness that SOME women can have. On more than one occasion.
I have also heard first hand many of my friends analyzing females to an extream. So some people on both sides can be that way.
And while I don't want to get another , what ever those women where, I am just looking for a warm hearted, forgiving, kind, supportive, understanding woman like me. I find my heart open to many women I meet when I see those traits.

Kaamraj · Accepted Answer

The answer is simple, the average woman simply has much more options than the average man. And when you have options you can afford to have preferences.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

That's actually a really mixed bag, man. The women who are critical of men are usually ciritcal because they've had a lifetime of bad experiences that led to a huge amount of resentment that they take out on the men around them. However, the majority of women absolutely adore men and many will even give us the benefit of their doubt to the point of naivety.

Any time people have seething resentment, there's always a huge amount of baggage, hurt and frustration that have led them to that point.

PrettyPriya · Answer

Where to begin…. the irony that you say women are critical of men and then go one about the standards you have for the way a woman looks and her attractiveness required.

I don’t know what country you are from but generally speaking, I don’t see that where I live. Typically, it is quite the opposite, though that has changed a lot.

Perhaps you are meeting the wrong women or looking in the wrong places. It is also odd you place a high value on looks and mention nothing of personality.

That is the most important thing I look for. You seem to have different values. Again, the irony of “The biggest deal is if there attractive. ” and then saying men aren’t critical.

exitseven · Answer

I really don't understand it either. Maybe guys don't care about too many details. Somebody can leave the toilet seat down and when they have to take a leak they just raise the seat and pee. Girls have to make a federal case out of it.

Avicenna · Answer

Women are usuallly socialized to be very demanding if men (many are not, though)

NathanDavis · Answer

a douchebag like you does not count as a man though...

especially when you're too dumb and won't even make sense with what you're claiming

so you're certainly not a true man, just another mitch blue anon that is probably and constantly making new accounts all the time

Guy13 · Answer

They think they rule the world…

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can afford to be.

Agape93 · Answer

Totenkopf, more like dummkopf

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