Why are women so critical of men, when men tend to be less critical of them?

[Totenkopf88]

It seems to me that women tend to be more critical of men then the other way around. True men generally expect a woman to look good and to be of a healthy weight. But it seems most things with a guy can be deal breaker. There to short, to tall, to nice, to mean, boring, do they have any skills, the list go's on. I think it's partly because of woke culture. Where women can do no wrong. And men are almost always wrong. Talking from my own experience I'm not too picky about the girls I talk to. The biggest deal is if there attractive. Everything else matters much less. Any thoughts?

[Screenwriter]

The biggest deal is "If they're attractive. Everything else matters much less."

Well, to women attractive might be a tighter term. I certainly want a man who takes care of himself, isn't boring, is nice and has skills. That's what I find attractive. I don't know what lists other women have, but mine isn't too long.

I'd like to have interests in common. That's about it. Maybe you've chatted up the wrong women, or meet them randomly instead of through friends and family. Review all the chicks you've met in the past two years. How did you? Where did you?

Study your likes and differences. You've got to mesh on a host of different levels to ultimately get along. All of this takes time, too. You don't really know someone until you've known them a year or so and spent lots of time with them in different situations. Friendship. dating is an investment plan. Some investments pan out, others fail. The reasons are broad and many. But study your choices. Make changes where you need to and good luck going forward.

[jennifer_bloom]

If you ask me, I think being confident and charming is way easier than exercising for 60 minutes a day to stay in shape. I’m confident and charming but have no advantages cause guys don’t care about that.

[Totenkopf88]

Nothing wrong with exercise though we all can benefit from it. Also yeah I'm not going to lie most men do care most about looks. But keep looking you will find someone who a good match

[Avicenna]

Being confident and charming IS a big advantage for a woman

[Totenkopf88]

@Avicenna that is true it is a upside

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

I certainly have experienced, not only the trivial rejection but out right attacks, slander and viciousness that SOME women can have. On more than one occasion.
I have also heard first hand many of my friends analyzing females to an extream. So some people on both sides can be that way.
And while I don't want to get another , what ever those women where, I am just looking for a warm hearted, forgiving, kind, supportive, understanding woman like me. I find my heart open to many women I meet when I see those traits.

[Totenkopf88]

Yes agree those are all important

[Kaamraj]

The answer is simple, the average woman simply has much more options than the average man. And when you have options you can afford to have preferences.

[Totenkopf88]

I would say this true unless your giga chad this is true. That why when a guy gets a girl they call it getting lucky. And when a girl gets a guy they call it Friday 😆

[FilmGuy93]

That's actually a really mixed bag, man. The women who are critical of men are usually ciritcal because they've had a lifetime of bad experiences that led to a huge amount of resentment that they take out on the men around them. However, the majority of women absolutely adore men and many will even give us the benefit of their doubt to the point of naivety.

Any time people have seething resentment, there's always a huge amount of baggage, hurt and frustration that have led them to that point.

[Totenkopf88]

I have seen this myself. But I must say I also see a lot of girls go after guys who just reek of being disloyal. So what you said is very true.

[PrettyPriya]

Where to begin…. the irony that you say women are critical of men and then go one about the standards you have for the way a woman looks and her attractiveness required.

I don’t know what country you are from but generally speaking, I don’t see that where I live. Typically, it is quite the opposite, though that has changed a lot.

Perhaps you are meeting the wrong women or looking in the wrong places. It is also odd you place a high value on looks and mention nothing of personality.

That is the most important thing I look for. You seem to have different values. Again, the irony of “The biggest deal is if there attractive. ” and then saying men aren’t critical.

[Totenkopf88]

No personality is great, you misunderstood. I'm just saying most of all the most important part for me is if she is physically attractive. But if her personality is awful of course that's a deal breaker

[Totenkopf88]

Also never said men aren't critical. Just not as much so in my opinion

[PrettyPriya]

Fair enough. Just choose your words more wisely next time considering you come off exactly as you are complaining women do.

[Totenkopf88]

My bad could have worded it better

[exitseven]

I really don't understand it either. Maybe guys don't care about too many details. Somebody can leave the toilet seat down and when they have to take a leak they just raise the seat and pee. Girls have to make a federal case out of it.

[Totenkopf88]

Yeah I know you get what I'm talking about 😆

[Avicenna]

Women are usuallly socialized to be very demanding if men (many are not, though)

[Totenkopf88]

Very true

[Totenkopf88]

Don't mind Davis he's clearly very insecure and suffer from tiny dick syndrome

[NathanDavis]

a douchebag like you does not count as a man though...

especially when you're too dumb and won't even make sense with what you're claiming

so you're certainly not a true man, just another mitch blue anon that is probably and constantly making new accounts all the time

[Totenkopf88]

Dude I literally just had a question that popped into my head and decided to ask it here

[NathanDavis]

and it was a stupid ass question that only a douchebag like you would ask... and I merely pointed that out as an answer

[Avicenna]

@NathanDavis, don’t be such a dickhead. You can disagree with him without being crazy about it.

[NathanDavis]

@Avicenna says the Qanon lunatic that is constantly spewing lunacy

don't you have a trial to go to Shaman?

[Avicenna]

Is that stupidity all you have? You embarrass yourself every time you post that BS. If the way you treat people here on GAG is any indication, I can only imagine how badly you treat your alleged employees and other people you encounter in your daily life. Still cheerleading for illegal invaders, traitor?

[NathanDavis]

@Avicenna see, here you go...

are you just bored tonight... or is he your new boyfriend or something

is it all of you douchebags sticking together?

funny thing is, you actually think that you're making any sense with your rabid conspiranoid mentality but hey... is not really my fault that you felt so inadequate and inept that one time alright?

you walked yourself into, and through your own pathetic BS inadequacy... you had plenty of chances to just leave it, but you lost your cool

and now here you are every single time, get over it... and stop pretending like there is an audience here to validate your insecurities, so go...

[Avicenna]

You’re so pathetic- when you get caught out for being a POS, you lash out and confirm what a douche YOU are.

Just admit that the illegals aren’t an economic boon to the country and that you lied about it. And I didn’t even mention remittances, which are money that leaves the country. Did you ever answer my question as to how you ensure you don’t hire people that are in the US illegally?

You’re a nasty piece of work that can’t handle being called out for BS.

[NathanDavis]

@Avicenna lmao... and you're still going on with that, are you really that butthurt?

are you this much of a clown, really?

don't bother really... I cannot even start to take you seriously

I just don''t go down to the level of rabid fanatics that are constantly getting riled up over imaginary conspiracy theories such as yourself

you're just a joke and not a funny one.. so go on little horned Shaman, go with your boyfriend, the smarter one of the two of you, and keep hugging each other for validation

[Avicenna]

You had the chance to be a man and admit you were wrong. But instead you’ll say anything to avoid the truth. You shouldn’t lie to people about such a crucial issue. And it was you who claimed you didn’t hire illegals, so I was curious how you were able to do that. It speaks volumes that you refuse to answer that question.

But keep lashing out, it shows everyone how pathetic you are and how desperate you are

[NathanDavis]

@Avicenna it's almost cute that you get so desperate and obsessed about my personal affairs when in fact you know absolutely nothing about it...

you just get all paranoid and throw all kinds of rabid conspiracy theories about slave masters, traitors to don't know which nation you are and... some crazy shit about overlords and other Qanon BS

almost cute... but it is really not

like I said to you that day... if an immigrant ever stole your wife, your girlfriend or your job... that is NOT my fault, it was not me, so quit it lmfao...

and don't you even try to claim that you have any valid claim on any discussion, you were the dumbass that came to me to claim I was in the wrong with absolutely NOTHING at all to claim any of your stupid claims whatsoever

so if you get all bitter, butthurt and riled up at the same time over your own failure, that is not not on me

so keep trying as much as you want, but it is just not going to happen

while I do respond to you every time you come to whine here like the Qanon rabid lunatic you, I do not actually have any interest to entertain such a clown like yourself

go ahead and stomp your horned head against the wall as much as you want

[Totenkopf88]

Dude you got real problems

[NathanDavis]

yes, real life... comes with real problems

try it some day, and get out of your mom's basement

though... stupidity and being a douchebag is not a problem I have, fortunately

[Guy13]

They think they rule the world…

[Guy13]

What they do not recognize is there are more women than men. And same-sex relationships are not natural and can not be fulfilling either in Purpose, Form, and/or Functioning. The outcome in the USA is the integration of Conservative and traditional lands from the world. Certainly, Asia as a whole and Russia, Ukrainian and Baltic States women.
—Why am I 40 and not married and bitter and still thinking you’re a good catch… HELLO…

[Totenkopf88]

I agree

[Anonymous]

Because they can afford to be.

[Totenkopf88]

True

[Agape93]

Totenkopf, more like dummkopf

[Totenkopf88]

No need to passive aggressive 😑

[Agape93]

I'm not, I'm being snarky