Why men shouldn't complain about women in general and vice versa?
**NOTE: This is concerning gender specific issues and not people specific issues
Because everything is "nurture".
Because if men were raised the way women were and if women were raised the way men were, we'd be having the same (but opposite) conversation concerning double standards, narratives and sexism, life experiences and thought patterns, advantages and disadvantages, etc.
Men and women come from separate backgrounds that affect thought patterns and behaviors.
If we continue to complain, what we are is a POTENTIAL hypocrite.
And in some cases we already are hypocrites because members of the opposite gender think/say/do similar things to the and about the other.
You MUST learn to be happy for members of the opposite gender regarding advantages they may harbor.
That could've been you.
Likewise, you MUST learn to empathize with members of the opposite gender concerning disadvantages they may harbor.
That could've been you.
This is called a RELATIONSHIP between men and women in general.
Complaining about "me only" is called a DISASSOCIATIONSHIP between men and women in general.
Maybe it actually is that men have more issues. Maybe it actually is that women do.
More or less aside, that is why it is recommended to be knowledgeable and aware. The more the better.
Anyway these are my thoughts and this is just a general explanation. I may not be completely accurate because "nature" is a factor. But I think almost all of it is "nurture".
😉
**NOTE: This is concerning gender specific issues and not people specific issues
Because everything is "nurture".
Because if men were raised the way women were and if women were raised the way men were, we'd be having the same (but opposite) conversation concerning double standards, narratives and sexism, life experiences and thought patterns, advantages and disadvantages, etc.
Men and women come from separate backgrounds that affect thought patterns and behaviors.
If we continue to complain, what we are is a POTENTIAL hypocrite.
And in some cases we already are hypocrites because members of the opposite gender think/say/do similar things to the and about the other.
You MUST learn to be happy for members of the opposite gender regarding advantages they may harbor.
That could've been you.
Likewise, you MUST learn to empathize with members of the opposite gender concerning disadvantages they may harbor.
That could've been you.
This is called a RELATIONSHIP between men and women in general.
Complaining about "me only" is called a DISASSOCIATIONSHIP between men and women in general.
Maybe it actually is that men have more issues. Maybe it actually is that women do.
More or less aside, that is why it is recommended to be knowledgeable and aware. The more the better.
Anyway these are my thoughts and this is just a general explanation. I may not be completely accurate because "nature" is a factor. But I think almost all of it is "nurture".
😉
