Yes you should! He's shy so he wants YOU to initiate it and the chance of rejection is pretty low. Give it a go.
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Just message him, if he is a shy guy and he rejects you, then he’ll feel really bad about it too. He probably would be more embarrassed to reject you than you being rejected
Yes! Do it. Shy guys love it when you make the first move. You don't have to ask him out right away, just say hi and start talking and see what happens.
Yep if you see no Reason to be shy then you won’t be. Same goes for Anxiety. I never worry about anything because it doesn’t make any damn sense to worry about shit. I’ve Created my life in my image everything I Have now is what I thought it to be.
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Checking in on him and starting a convo with him would be super safe. I’d say go for it. It’s definitely a start.
Yes you should! He's shy so he wants YOU to initiate it and the chance of rejection is pretty low. Give it a go.
Just message him, if he is a shy guy and he rejects you, then he’ll feel really bad about it too. He probably would be more embarrassed to reject you than you being rejected
And maybe he’s just so hoping you’ll contact him
You can try. He may have moved on… but you’ll never know if you don’t try. It’s also Little risk, big reward.
Sure - go for it, Alyssa.
You miss 100% of the opportunities you never take!
Just be "almost" as shy as he is: you do not want to scare him off.
Yes! Do it. Shy guys love it when you make the first move. You don't have to ask him out right away, just say hi and start talking and see what happens.
yes, but if it's a shy guy, plan on rejection and confusion.
I think that if you fee like texting him that you should
Sure, go ahead and text him. See how the interaction goes before worrying about whether there is any potential relationship with him.
Ah, fuck it. Just make the first move, unless you want to regret it for the rest of your life. That regret is worse than any rejection.
Regret is not a feeling asshole. It’s just the recognition of something.
@EarthRealm Ok. By the way, nice username.
I am Edenian race
If he is genuinely shy then he will make a move. You need to do it.
@serious You mean "will not."
@Jamie05rhs
Yes I meant to say he will not make a move. Thanks for correcting.
If you have feelings for him and you have his number might as well try and see what happens
Go ahead and text him, what's the worst that could happen? him saying buzz off? But I'm pretty sure if he is shy that won't be the case.
Yes, go for let get some coffee talk about the--------
He's too good for you. You should date within your range. If he wasn't too good for you. You wouldn't ask this question.
if you dont do it then you will be like me in the future asking yourself what if.. so do it
What if you Stopped asking yourself What if and just Put that out of your mind for good.
(Rhetoric question)
Don't worry. Go ahead and talk to him. Be friendly. Over time his shyness will vanish.
Only because he will believe There is no Reason to be Shy.
@EarthRealm I am a shy person too. I am spontaneous when I feel comfortable with someone.
Yep if you see no Reason to be shy then you won’t be.
Same goes for Anxiety.
I never worry about anything because it doesn’t make any damn sense to worry about shit.
I’ve Created my life in my image everything I Have now is what I thought it to be.
Text him I’m a shy guy it’s such a help when the woman makes the first move
Sure. You can always fall back on "just wondering what you were up to".
Send him a sexy picture (NOT NUDE) and ask him if he is interested in meeting up for (insert what you want here).