Could a girl love you and cheat?

[onewhowalkspride]

so here's the thing i shower with i love yous and your so beautiful and i try to make her smile as much as i can we have great sex like i can get her off nearly every time [if her mind is calm] when we have sex i cater to her sexual needs iv tol her im down to do anything and i would not judge her in the least bit. the reason iv said this is to tell you that basicly most of her needs are met in that department and its all real i would never fake anything like that i think that would be cruel and evil. any ways why would she cheat and the people that she does this with do not compare looks and personality wise.[im very humble and have low self worth tho ] could she be doing it to get a reaction every time it comes up she ''thinks'' she swades me but i just go along with it because i love her do you think maby she's just needs me to step up and #HeTOO dat ass lol jk but step up and be dominate nicely and respectfuly of course

[jennifer_bloom]

You can’t build a marriage on sex, you need people to take care of the kids, drive them to their appointments, wash the dishes, care for the in laws, bring in money for food and detergent and clothes, kill insects, which is why attractive people constantly get cheated on and dumped after 5-25 years.

[PJH359]

Just remember one very important detail…Cheating is almost never about sex…it’s about needs and attention. Feeling desired, feeling special as if no one else matters but her. So while you may be satisfying her in the bedroom, there is something else missing. She has a void in her heart or mind that is not being filled at home so she’s looking for it somewhere else. Sounds like you guys really need to have a long heart to heart and do some major communicating before things get out of hand…. and it doesn’t take long. Take this from someone who’s been through it. I wouldn’t wish divorce on anyone.

[Chris_7565]

The question should be "Does she love you and value you enough not to cheat?"
unfortunately not I guess.
Some relationships can be a bit one-sided, and no matter how much you love the other person you won't get the same commitment and respect in return.
Sure, she may use you for attention, money, sex, someone to talk to etc. but her cheating is a huge red flag that she isn't as into you as you are her, and she isn't scared to lose you.
She may not even be a very loving person at all, but you can bet if she found Mr. Perfect with movie star looks she would probably be loyal.

[ChrisMike1919]

Most helpful opinion, I'm telling you.

[Chris_7565]

@ChrisMike1919
Thank you sir.

[ChrisMike1919]

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[AssholeNumberOne]

Hmm. Maybe she knows she made a mistake, maybe she's not interested anymore. Either way, she's shit for doing that

[kdarknesss]

Sometimes you can be doing to much for someone like when you say you shower then with love it could be overwhelming. You don't have to do everything for someone. Sometimes you just have to just be there for them and for some people showering could mean smothering so they go to someone else who gives the just the right amount of attention

[Anonymous]

I can't read her mind but it is for sure wrong and most of the time for me a DEALBREAKER.

If I am married and a woman cheated emotionally or romantically we might be able to work through things if she did not keep doing it.

But cheating sexually... We are done even if we been married 30 years. But I think I will find someone who would NEVER do that and me neither

[RavVid]

How do you know she cheats? I am inferring she tells you.
Quite clearly she doesn't respect you or value you enough not to cheat.

Does this seem a good relationship to you?

[ChooChooHaha]

Cheat but love?
Not true. Not a thing. You don't cheat if you love them.

[serious]

No, a woman who loves you will never cheat. That is if she actually loves you.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Can a man love her and stone her to death for adultery according to the bible?

[Sam_25]

Stop kissing her feet just bkoz you love her..
Be a man. It she cheated you than find someone.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No but she could love something about you, like, MONEY MOMEY MOMENY

[Anonymous]

Nope. Doesn't mean she won't lie and say she loves you though.

[Starlight007]

If she cheats then she does not love you!

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely!! I happened to me!!

[Berethor]

She is a ho.

[Anonymous]

No, and the same goes for guys.

[Ericblue35]

No no no