Would a guy really cheat on a girl he loves?

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Melvinb6521 · Accepted Answer

The truth is sometimes things happen. Accidents happen once.
Habits happen twice.

Life is big and complicated. I’d be lying if I said it’s easy to be faithful. It’s a practice. Meaning you are supposed to get better with time.

If you have a good man, that got caught up, hold him accountable. You don’t have to leave him. But make him address it and your feelings.

A lot of times good or decent men cheat because they get caught up. Girls don’t hardly compliment us. And all our life we’ve been trying to learn how to get girls to like us back.

So when it comes (another girl flirting with your man), he may be so taken back that it progresses way faster than expected. An erection clouds judgement. (Hint: tell your boyfriend when he’s thinking about cheating to go jack off... it sounds weird, but after he finishes, he will no longer have the urge to cheat sexually. Trust me. This saves marriages)

But if the cheating is consistent, then the love in inconsistent. Don’t stay with a consistent cheater.

SunnySri · Accepted Answer

I don't think I would mam, if I love someone she means a lot to me, I can't do such a thing to break her heart.

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

Regardless of how other people define love, I don't think anyone who really loves would cheat on their partner. For me love requires respect. If you respect your SO you'd tell this person you like someone else and breakup before any cheating can happen. Or you'd be able to control temptation and sacrifice other possible relationships for the well sake of the current one. Or you'd propose an open relationship and see if your partner is on the same page. But no cheating.

About the pic, I never believed a woman or man can take someone else's woman or man. That type of quotes make it sound like the person "taken" was a sort of object that lacks of responsibility on the cheating. TBH In a cheating situation it would hurt me more the cheater than the third person, because I don't expect respect from a stranger but I would from my partner. Also, more than making me a favor, I'd say I would pity that woman, because if a man cheated on me, there are chances he could cheat on other women too.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

A girl he "claims" to love-yes A girl he "really loves"-NO NEVER Love isn't just words to say, it's actions shown, and having sex with someone else is never the actions of real love

ragequeen · Answer

God I love this photo😂 If a guy claims to love the girl he cheated on, he can love her from a distance and see how it feels.

Jjpayne · Answer

I think it sometimes just happens... You spend part of your life where any single girl can be your partner then you are made to focus on just one. It should be second nature but sometimes you forget yourself and get entraced by another... It does takes one day of her at home in rollers with worries to seeing a welcoming supportive girl in a bar with a sexy dress.

Slip ups happen, even to good people.
Usually you can push through them but cheating is not something that just terrible people do, it's something that is a temptation to both Genders

I think to me the difference, if it was a moment of weakness or if it was done purposely.

And I think, like I said, it could just be something where they mess up and it is possible for that to happen but most catch that before it does happen too.

Like I said, it's the guys heart.

If he's a cheater than he's a cheater. But if he does not intend to cheat I think it should be something else. Like a night vs a committed cheating relationship but past that

It's so much better, to simply stop people and have boundaries in the first place.

But back to your question, specifically, it could be being caught in a bad moment with a lapse in judgement that only lasts a moment, but makes you feel terrible afterwards...

Cheating should not happen but unfortunately for some unintending guys it does... Where their passion overrides their mind.

The truth is that relationships are complicated and imperfect, every relationship has bad days, bad days that make a nice girl in the right place, make bad judgments happen...

I think it's bad moments and bad judgments, that can have nothing to do with the level of love but a mistake in the moment

But hopefully it never gets to that, with boundaries and awareness

Hopefully that makes sense...

lilkittyamy · Answer

Actually yes. Humans are naturally meant to be polygamous. Everything about a mans sex drive wants him to be with as many women as possible until he gets one pregnant. Then the sex drive slows down a lot, but when the kid turns about two years old, the males sex drive goes into overtime again and he starts looking for another mate, and if the current mate isn't good enough, then he naturally goes looking for a different one. It takes work and dedication to stay together through this time period.

Women aren't much better either, though its more passive than guys. Women are much more likely to get pregnant if there is more than one persons cum inside them, and the noises a woman makes during orgasm are meant to be heard and attract additional partners.

Nature wants us to have the strongest offspring we can, and we seek out the best partners we think will give us that.

centerline · Answer

yes... sex isn't about love. sex is about orgasms and when a guy sees an attractive girl who is willing to have sex, game on... then he will come home to the one he loves and have sex with you too...
not all guys look for the opportunity to cheat, but even then it can happen... but guys are gonna get their orgasms from wherever they can, even if it is only by jacking off, and the only way to prevent it is to keep your man well fucked... handjobs or BJ's are good too, and usually better, because it takes less effort on the guys part, which is the only reason we jack off rather than looking for a sex partner...

wallyworld12 · Answer

To the core.. it depends on their beliefs and experiance. Love is a drug. Most crave excitement and a feeling for fun and connection. With curiosity, experiance, and the knowledge that time does not last forever... One might find that there are different kinds of love. There are also different kinds of ice cream. People are different.. beliefs are different. Biologically it's easy to want more. Instincts and all that.. (different for different people) but yes, if he wants to not cheat and values the relationship enough then whoever can avoid the temptation if they feel like it.

DevilishDarling · Answer

Love is a prickly road to navigate, some confuse love with platonic love, some confuse friendship and love. Really though some even feel comfort and love but unmet needs.

I have been cheated on, but I was not upset. It meant we had things that weren't being met and it was time to either flesh them out or go our separate ways.

Some are not hardwired to love only one person.

Male, Female and every other spectrum do this, most men seek physical, most females seek emotional, I think conversation needs to happen before trust is broken but we never know the whole story leading up to the cheating...

Granted some people are just assholes 🤷🏽‍♀️

Torari · Answer

I wouldn't cheat. If she is opposed to the idea then I would not do it.

But i am both willing and have the desire to sleep with other women, even if I'm in a relationship and I love her.
Sex is just sex, and sometimes you just gotta scratch that itch for someone new and exciting. Having sex with new women frequently is good for the testosterone levels too so there's that.

I am however also a complete hypocrite and would not be open to her scratching her itch with someone else, outside the context of a threesome.

Anonymous · Answer

Having sex with another vagina would have nothing to do with how we feel about the person we love.
Unlike females, we do not get attached through sex. The oxytocin which makes girls bond during sex occurs during foreplay, sex, and orgasm. Estrogen enhances its effects... men get a tiny amount and testosterone nullify it.

So we have sex because we get dopamine bursts... it’s fun. Emotionally there is nothing. Yes if we care about a person, sex can be more pleasurable but it isn’t a requirement.

Searlas · Answer

There are different types of love, true love radiates from the heart it never does anything to hurt the other, conditional love depends and changes with circumstances (money, status, bodily features etc) when it comes to love there is a lot of confusion and we all have a different understanding of what love is all about. Only actions can prove whether love is conditional or true.

Magnums94 · Answer

It is possible to happen and vice versa. Love doesn't prevent people to make bad choices. Actually it's the opposite. Some of the most harsh and cruel choices have been made in the name of love. In this specific scenario it is possible that the woman was not returning the same feelings or her time as the guy had for her and therefore pushed him to make this decision. He could simply be wanting to fill this void with someone else who can be there for him at that moment.

laceyylove23 · Answer

of course not, for example, he can't sleep with a girl that's not his girlfriend then use the excuse "it was a mistake" "i love you" if he really loved her he wouldn't even think about going at it with another girl. if you love someone, you only want them.

it depends on how you define love.

Anonymous · Answer

Well it depends on what your definition is of "loves" and of "cheat" for that matter. If your definition includes "would never cheat on" then clearly no. But that's not terribly deep--it's just defining love in a very specific (and narrow) way. If by "loves" you mean is committed to and not intending to leave, and if by "cheat" you mean have sex with another girl, then absolutely. It's totally possible for a guy to be with a girl, have NO intention of ever leaving her and still have sex with another girl.

Adele_26 · Answer

In my opinion, no. What love is to me is showing it unconditionally. Loyalty also plays a big part. You can love someone, but still cheat (as I’ve been told from others and witnessed it). I think that’s bullshit. If you want to sleep with others, don’t date. When people cheat, they tend to think it’s one decision when it’s multiple. And alcohol/drugs are a poor excuse if brought up. Don’t know if that’s your situation, but I would leave them.

hahahmm · Answer

A guy can be loyal whether he loves or not. Think of it more like loyalty is one category and love is another. An issue in society today is that so many people can't be loyal at all which is required to really move from casual to serious relationships.

Without getting inside of another person's head you can't know for sure if he loves you or not. You can only go by actions and you have the right to judge his love as "low value" if he cheats on you.

weysally · Answer

I think there is a myth between love and cheating, I think that cheating is just sex, where as love is much more,
I have as I call it cheated on my husband didn't have to but I was feeling really sexy and there was this guy present, I have told my husband now,
my husband and I make love, others its just sex

Thatasianlove16 · Answer

It was a different type of love then. Being in love, infatuation and actually loving someone are completely different the English language only has one word for love, so if a guy cheats and still says he loves you he probably does but not the same love you were giving out. Probably one that’s more self centered, flimsy, and has less power to the meaning

Newhead · Answer

Just let him go be someone else's problem. The older you get the more you will understand the meme you posted. When a man shows that he is not to be trusted you'd been blessed. There are women living this lie for years and being robbed of her true happiness, because he pretends well, be glad when he slips up early.

Novacane · Answer

Depends on their character I think guys and girls in all the right circumstances would probably cheat not out of love but more out of lust. But of course, there are people who will remain faithful and not cheat no matter what, but men also have a higher chance of being easily persuaded.

DavidFox · Answer

Yes. People do horrible things to loved ones everyday. We have all lied to our parents, been mean to our siblings and been jealous of friends. Just because we love someone doesn’t mean as human being we don’t fall to temptation from time to time. Learning to have discipline and being mindful of our choices reduces the odds for bad behavior.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends how you define "love," I suppose.

For some it's skin deep, for others pocket deep. For some it's the fame, others it's the sex. some like the personality, some the loyalty and faith. etc etc.

There is never a simple equation to what is the "love".

slatyb · Answer

The lines in the image are true.

A girl he "loves"? The only way people feel love is from being treated with love. If a guy is cheating, then it doesn't matter whether he thinks he loves her or says he loves her. He's showing that he doesn't care.

Mroz75 · Answer

Ofcourse not, when a guy is in love he wouldn't give any kind of attention to another girl no matter what, and so he wouldn't cheat at all.

When a guy is in love, every other girl is dead in his eyes, but his girl.

If he did cheat, he wasn't in love. There's no argue with that.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

If you really loved someone, you wouldn’t want to do anything to hurt them and you wouldn’t have eyes for anyone else

RemoErdosain · Answer

No, no one would cheat on the person they love. No one would betray their trust like that, and drag their name on the ground for nothing but a moment of pleasure

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Girls do too.
There's too many reasons to list but the top few in my opinion is
1) most people don't know what genuine love is, only selfish/ingenuine love,
2) lack the courage to communicate, and/or
3) are too selfish for their own good, much less anyone elses good.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Agree with this quote 100%. If a girl can take your man she's just proved to you he isn't loyal, doesn't care about your feelings and is a sleaz bag who's not worth your time.

The_Inquisitor · Answer

the answer to your question is the answer to this question.  "Would a Women really cheat on a guy she loves?"

iFarted · Answer

Often times I don't believe a guy that cheats isn't still in love with his girl. I think it's more of he has no self-control and sometimes when they're unhappy in a relationship they'll stray. Definitely, it's a lack of self-control and cheating is never okay.

Anonymous · Answer

As a woman I would say no. Because even when I only like someone I can’t like another person too. So it my opinion I think love would be even more exclusive. But I do acknowledge the differences in men and women. So I don’t honestly know. However I know that for me personally I cannot get over someone cheating on me. That’s not something I can forgive so you might as well break up with me first.

Soporific-san · Answer

The moment they cheat is the moment the love went out the door. They can act like they do, but the love is gone.

thimmslicc · Answer

Yes. I've been hit on, harrased and sexually texted by Married men. ( I don't ever go along with the disgusting behavior.)
If marriage isn't about love and equivalent, honey, he dont love you. He loves to cheat on you. Huge difference.

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yeah. Some guys cheat even though they love their partner. But cheating says a lot about the person's character, so the decision to stay with them is subjective I guess.

SlutLuver · Answer

Yes, I truly love mine, but I need flavor and variety to keep this hot cock jamming. At a bar couples dance with others, no problem. So I fuck another, it was just a burger on the way home. So she got ahold of a bigger and wilder one than me. I cheer her on. Same with her

PersoncslledPierson · Answer

Yeah. If she doesn’t let him have sex with her,
He will look for other girl to have sex with even if he loves her and doesn’t wanna cheat... his needs are more important so he sneaks behind her back looking for pussy... then blames it on her for not putting out... it is kinda her fault

If she put out he wouldn’t need to cheat, would he?

Sakura-san · Answer

I don’t know some guys are scary and it’s very easy for them to cheat for stupid reasons such as lack of sex or out of boredom.

Gabboo · Answer

no, they would not. If they claim they love you and cheat, they're just lying sacks of crap, and it goes for either gender

OmNomaly · Answer

regardless of gender. If someone cheats on you, it shows that their intentions were sexual. If they cared about you they wouldn't put you through that experience, period.

Wowie101 · Answer

Oh yeah it’s hardwired into us. Both guys and girls. It’s just the way it works to spread your seEd just instinct... People who don’t cheat successfully fight that instinct

Screenwriter · Answer

People cheat on people they love all the time. Has nothing to do with the person "loved" and everything to do with the cheater. There are all sorts of reasons. They're all messed up, too.

Anonymous · Answer

No,. at least not me, Never cheated on any of my 3 wives. was cut if after 5 years with my 3rd wife and was without for 15 years- no pussy because if her illness but i stayed faithful. so you women out there if a guy really loves you he will not cheat and besides we all have to face our maker some day and i don;t want that baggage when i face him

abc3643 · Answer

No. When in real deep true love, a guy will not cheat and cannot imagine it.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

if he is a real man then he would never cheat on the woman he loves and vise / versa ! for real love conquers all ! thanks

RaveWorthy · Answer

I suppose you could justify at times... as the song goes "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

wittymilf · Answer

We don’t always think of the negative impact on those we love. It doesn’t mean we don’t love them it just means we’re not perfect at loving them.

Anonymous · Answer

My girlfriend cannot handle me , so I sleep with her best friends and she knows everything and yeah they are not bi , but I don't know this qualifies as cheating but yeah I love my girlfriend and not her friend but her friend loves me and my girlfriend also has a soft corner for her friend so we are in coexistence , I never slept with any other girl than these 2 princess.
I sometimes feel it is cheating but it is not because we know everything about each other.

Anonymous · Answer

I explain this to you kids constantly.

Women always choose men based on looks, not caring if they are rapists, pedophiles, etc.
These men know that they can get women at any time because of this.
Women don't think about how bad he treated his ex or if he cheated. They just get wet at the sight of a hot guy and don't care. Those women deserve everything that happens to them.

WesBrewer · Answer

I wouldn't, I'm not sure if he truly "loved" the girl if he cheats on her.

V4mp315 · Answer

Well imma say YES!!! No doubt! At least the ones I've had the misfortune to date back them days and this last one oh yeah they did.

SphynxUK · Answer

Yes, it happens.  It’s usually an opportunity that crops up, rather than him going out and looking for it.

eatuout6982 · Answer

There are many different fourms of love. Many people confuse love with lust, that is not the case. I could love my wife for her caring ability, kindness, and how well we connect. But during the day i might lust after a beautiful woman.

Trooper205 · Answer

No.  If the Love is true, it's impossible. If He cheats, it was never Love.

Skankhunt · Answer

Yes, even women do that. The reason why someone cheat on his/her significant other is not because he/she doesn't love him/her, but because he/she is insecure. Insecurity is a reason why someone cheat, even if you love your significant other.

Mickey9999 · Answer

Unfortunately, we don’t have the vocabulary for different levels or types of love. So yes. You can definitely love someone and cheat on them. Many do.

Fwb4u · Answer

Just my opinion but I think the answer is yes bc for one I just really don't think that monogamy is instilled very deeply in humanity for one and for two guys in general lack very much will power given the right chain of events and or circumstances

Somoneelse · Answer

If someone truly loves one other. He/she wouldn't even think about cheating...

FairEnough · Answer

If they really loved them then no, neither would a girl.

jadedNcorupt · Answer

Yes but I believe mistakes can happen and you live and learn. People can change contrary to popular belief!

gotc147 · Answer

No, when you're in love the thought never crosses your mind.

burlen · Answer

Having feelings for someone and cheating on them are not mutually exclusive.

JosyJosy · Answer

Is possible. But it also means the love on His part wasn't strong enough. Meme's right. It's deadweight

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