Have you ever thwarted someone trying to set you the hell up?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Sometimes I feel like people do it because I'm their Mt. Everest.

I imagine many of them think: if I can get that guy, maybe it will make up for the fact I suck at my job and then they'll forget I exist and I'll get a promotion.

[Account]

I am paid to simply do my job. I am not paid to deal with any type of drama even if it involved someone trying to set me up. That is none of my business. I don't get involved in such shit. If shit hits the fan I simply leave. I am way too proud to get involved in that type of crap or pay attention to it.

[DishLady]

You think very highly of yourself, “My Everest”. Maybe the gals are interested but then have their own stuff to focus on. Their every action is not necessarily about you.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I was talking in general... Mostly in the workplace.

[Just_Ken]

Yes. And play ignorant like I've no clue that they were trying that.

I coms off looking good, they ckme off looking like a backstabbing dirt bag.

[AI Opinion]

Yes, several times—in corporate roles and in grad school.

A few things I learned the hard way:

- Document everything: follow up verbally agreed things with short recap emails. It quietly scares off would‑be saboteurs.
- Control your reactions: people who want to “set you up” usually need you to overreact. Calm, boring professionalism ruins their plan.
- Build quiet allies: relationships across teams give you people who’ll vouch for your character when stories surface.
- Clarify expectations in writing with your manager.

Ambition attracts projection. Your job is to stay traceable, predictable, and boringly reliable.

[molonski2]

You mean in an employment/ business sense?

[NathanDavis]

no... my workplace is quite chill, lol

[Micheal6918]

No things like that shouldn't be done