Has anyone ever tried to "set you up" or falsely accuse you either online or in real life?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

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These are links that covers laws regarding giving false online info on accounts as well as creating fake accounts of other people
www-wklaw-com.cdn.ampproject.org/.../
And online harassment

onlineharassmentfieldmanual.pen.org/.../

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I would also like to share an insert from an answer on a post about profiles now being made public for influencers and why her profile was set to private in the first place:
Yeah. There was a time that someone was making fake profiles of me and stalking all my questions. Taking my pictures and making questions about my appearance and GaG did nothing. So I'm really not ok with this.

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Be careful so it doesn't happen to you!

[NamerOfStars]

This isn't a story I like telling. But to show the damage, I will. I once went to visit a friend in college. While there, we attempted an obnoxiously difficult video game challenge, having woven up a rope from yarn and tying our wrists together, deciding we wouldn't untie it until we'd won. We even slept that way. On our back from our victory breakfast, he was taken by the campus police on the grounds that he'd raped a girl the night before. I explained that couldn't be true, showing our wrists, but they didn't care.

He had no idea how to defend himself and had become an instant pariah (even his parents refused to help), so I leapt in to the task myself, only to find that, because of new DOE policy, he wasn't allowed a lawyer, or the ability to call witnesses, or even present evidence in his own defense. I watched a good friend forced through a star chamber show trial that Kafka would've called excessive.

In the end (I'd only intended to stay the weekend, but it ended up being over a month), he was expelled. But before he could make it back to me with the news, he was jumped by a group of masked thugs and beaten so badly that the doctors only gave him a 50/50 chance of surviving the night. He did, but he never walked again.

The incident broke him. To see such a bright, strong person brought so low for no damned reason would chill your heart even if he wasn't your friend. His own family refused to believe his innocence, and his parents wound up paying him to stay away from them. I think I was the only person he talked to, and most of our visits consisted of him staring blankly at the walls. I did everything I could to keep him engaged, but it didn't matter. On the one year anniversary of his "arrest", I went to visit him, determined to focus his attention on something else, only to find he'd put a shotgun in his mouth. It took a long time to stop screaming long enough to call 911.

I don't think my feelings on false accusations are a mystery.

It may also interest you to know that the man behind the change in DOE policy that now requires due process violations was none other than Joe Biden. Betsy DeVos, Trump's secretary of education, pushed through a change in the rules, allowing schools the right to choose what standards to use when resolving these cases. This has been widely derided as "misogynistic", and Biden has vowed to overturn Devos's changes if elected. Regardless of your opinion on Trump, please bear that in mind the next time someone tells you that a bloviating blowhard saying stupid things on social media makes them a dictator.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Omg this story made me cry... Thank you so much for sharing this even though I know it must of been very hard to! It sickens me that people think nothing of Falsely accusing someone and not caring that their lies could literally destroy someone's life. How did we get to this state where people have become so cold, Callous, and uncaring about anyone but themselves. The way people talk to people on the internet, Bash one another, is bad enough... But this revenge lie false allegations crap is bullshit! People need to be held accountable they should go to prison for their fake accusations... Again, I'm truly sorry for what you and your friend went through! You were a great friend to him!💜💙🤗

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

none of what you said adds up in my mind. A university can lose it's funding if a student sues them for sexual discrimination, you're implying he had no defense and making the vice president seem like an angel. I think this story has some kind of political agenda. You dont like talking about but you just freely chose to do that on a public website.

[NamerOfStars]

Thank you.

[NamerOfStars]

@ChocoBrownieMonster Yes, I don't like talking about. But telling others may prevent something similar from happening to them, so I did. Taking precautions against something terrible happening to you isn't something that people do unless they think the danger is real. Thus, I told the story.

Under the terms of the then-new policy, a university *would* lose its federal funding if it granted students the full due process the law requires in every criminal inquiry. I didn't believe it at first either, but here's an archived copy of the DOE letter announcing the changes: (https://www2. ed. gov/about/offices/list/ocr/letters/colleague-201104. html). Yes, my friend could've sued the school. I urged him to; even if it didn't get him his life back, it could save someone else; but he was too traumatized by the experience and just wanted to put it behind him. He was one of the first to be accused under the new rules, at least at his specific school, and they went farther than the new laws required, presumably for fear of social backlash if they didn't. I've since read many other stories of accused students going through very similar things; the only truly unusual part is how quick it was (his was five and a half weeks, it usually takes a few months).

And you bet your ass I have a political agenda from this: full due process. Always. No exceptions.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

why do you think they sped up that process? if she was legitimately sexually assaulted and she had a lot of evidence, they would need to have him removed from the campus to avoid a repeat offense. I lived in a residence where a guilty guy was NOT removed and months later i observed him checking doors of the corridor at night to see if any were unlocked. He also didn't know which room i was at because i'd upgraded my room to the bigger one at the end of the corridor and guess what, he came into my room saw me turned quick and walked out. Also sexual harassment can occur anywhere, a bus, a park, a busy bar, a busy club. Your friend may have done so when he was super-drunk, who knows. When a guy gets so drunk he's lost his mind, it happens. He could even have had his drink spiked causing him to lose control. It's just he picked the wrong girl and she reported it knowing he lives where she lives. Very sad to hear what happened, but it goes to show how things can quickly change for someone at any one moment. Universities dont tell you the dangers of alcohol, but encourage the student nightlife, encourage corridor based mixed dorms. Hell even i was placed in a corridor of 25 girls with non-ensuite rooms and shared shower-rooms. I never thought about the implications of that.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@ChocoBrownieMonster once again you didn't read the whole reply did you here's the key part you MISSED:
"While there, we attempted an obnoxiously difficult video game challenge, having woven up a rope from yarn and tying our wrists together, deciding we wouldn't untie it until we'd won. We even slept that way. On our back from our victory breakfast, he was taken by the campus police on the grounds that he'd raped a girl the night before. I explained that couldn't be true, showing our wrists, but they didn't care."
So, how pray tell if he was with someone all night and next morning, wrists tied together could he have raped someone 🤔🤔

[NamerOfStars]

@ChocoBrownieMonster I know perfectly well that he didn't do ANYTHING sexual that night; we spent it with our wrists tied together. The rope was only about five feet long, in total. I slept on the floor next to the inward-opening door; he couldn't even have slipped it off and moved past me, unless he somehow removed the non-opening window, climbed five stories down the outside of the building, and somehow reversed the process afterwards. I'm not saying the girl didn't get raped, but if she did, she accused the wrong guy. And it was rape, specifically, not just harassment. That's not something you do casually, drunk or sober. For the record, I do know why they fast-tracked the process (and why it went so quickly afterwards), but I've been avoiding identifying details, and it would give it away.

Rape is viewed as a very serious crime, rightly so, and that's why when it happens to you, you don't go to the campus authorities, you go to the police- the people with the authority to actually DO something about it. But that authority comes with the price of requiring evidence.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

campus police are always the first to know because a girl will report it to them. How would they just choose to approach him if he didn't match the description. Having yourself tied by a rope? it can be untied very carefully, what's to say he didn't get up to slip out and go to the toilet and knowing you'd be an alibi in that moment he thought it was a great opportunity. You dont know because you were asleep. Perhaps he was reported previously. I'd like to ask who brought up the idea of tieing yourselves with a rope?

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

one more thing I've never experienced being tied up by a rope, it's a very unusual thing. If anything, it wouldve raised more suspicion he did it because it's trying to create the 'perfect' alibi.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@ChocoBrownieMonster Would you please just stop it... First no wonder he said it's difficult to talk about when people like you jump all over something you weren't there for... Any other time you gender aiming about Females but now because of politics you want to believe the female? And you never did anything crazy when you were younger,? Me and my sister handcuffed ourselves together when we were teenagers... College kids do goofy crap all the time.. He don't owe you any explanation... Have respect for someone who lost a good friend... If you keep being offensive on my posts, imma just block you... Bet rude elsewhere please... Have some respect for a deceased man you have no right to judge...

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

@Brainsbeforebeauty only he knows who thought of the idea to play an obnoxious tie up game. I will not say any more about his case but having lived on several different university campuses for 10yrs and gotten to know campus security i understand exactly how they know of even the tiniest details.

[NamerOfStars]

@ChocoBrownieMonster For pity's sake. He did not leave the room. I was asleep next to the door; it could not have been opened without waking me. The rope (it was originally a dog-soldier type moment; a commitment that we wouldn't untie ourselves until we met this difficult challenge) could EASILY have been untied, especially while I slept, but there was no way out of the room. We were not "tied up", we just our wrists fastened together.

More to the point, this was my friend. A person I knew. I do not appreciate having aspersions cast on the morals of an individual you've never even met like I didn't know the guy, in the name of investigating a trumped-up charge that I KNOW was false. Was he physically capable of raping her? Sure. He was also physically capable of breaking her neck. And I'd've had an easier time of believing he HAD done that, had I not been in the same room with him at the time. You can kill someone in self-defense, but you can't rape them that way.

The funny thing about this is that the campus police may have thought the same way, had they ever bothered to talk to me. But real cops know that the burden of proof rests with the accuser, not the other way around.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@ChocoBrownieMonster and you also know there's cases where innocent people have been falsely accused/convicted... And I'm not trying to censor people on my posts, I'm just saying have a little compassion for a man who's friend took his life... I just didn't get why you were so quick to assume the guy was lying when any other time I've seen you say women lie about being raped... But now you can't see as how that would happen... And if his friend had really done it he wouldn't of just been kicked out of college her would of went to prison... So obviously there wasn't enough evidence to convict him criminally...

[ColoradoKid]

I had an X girlfriend that tried that. She is the only woman that I have called a bitch and still do to this day. We were together for 3 years. I had moved to California with her and was going to start a new life so many people say. We had our ups and downs like most couples do. It was going to be Thanksgiving in a few days and she could see that I was not doing well at all. I was severely depressed because it was the first Thanksgiving that I couldn't be with my family. It was the first Thanksgiving that she was going to spend with her family in years. Thanksgiving came and she and her kids and mom were still getting ready. I was already done with preparing myself for the day and went to our room to try and get it together mentally. I cracked my first 24oz beer and was playing Grand Theft Auto. She comes in and starts ragging on me because I was depressed. I finished that beer in about 5 minutes and got another. She didn't realize that I was on my second one or else she would have really lost it. She comes back in and starts in on me again. She said " If you guck up my first Thanksgiving with my family in 10 years I will make your life hell." I looked her in the eyes and told her to just let me chill and get my head right and stop yelling and lecturing me and I will be better and I would deal with it and hold it together. Her son came in and we played a different game together until the rest were ready. We all got together at her uncle's house and had dinner and the night was better. I had some more to drink and it was a ok night. After we got home she didn't say much. I started texting my family to help me get back home to Colorado. I told them that I will be home before Christmas no matter what. I had asked my brother if he could help me. We had been friends since 6th grade and went through a lot so I still look at him as a brother. He drove from Arizona after working a double shift to get me and my stuff. I told him if I had to leave stuff there I was ok with it. He got on the road and said that he would be there in 6 hours. He drove all night and arrived at 10 am. I told my X that he was coming to get me a few nights before. I packed everything up and was getting yelled at by her the whole time. The day he was going to be there she took off and left me at home with her mom the kids were at school. Her mom and I had talked for a while. Her family wished that we could have worked it out but they knew how she was treating me and didn't blame me. We were half way done loading his suv up and she started texting me begging me not to go. She had so many chances to make things right but she chose to keep being a bitch. My brother asked me to see my phone so he could call his wife and my family. He said his was dead. He called them and said that we were on our way. He turned my phone off and kept it. I got home on December 13th. A while after I was home I had started dating again and my new girlfriend had family that was in law enforcement. She had found out that my X had tried to press charges on me for molesting her 14 year old daughter who is mentally challenged. I had done no such thing and I would never hurt a child. Her family stood up for me and the charges had been dropped. I had called the police in that city we lived in and spoke to them. That's how I found out how the changes were dropped and such. She then kept sending me messages on Facebook and such saying that she was coming back to Colorado and was going to bring some of her old gang friends with her. I knew that she had been in a gang because her mom told me. I saved up and bought a.45 for protection. I carried it for a few years just in case. About 4 years after all of that she had contacted me again. I don't know how but she did. She said that she moved back. I had found that she had. She and I talked once and she apologized for everything. That didn't make any difference to me.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wow... Glad you got away from that... And yeah no apology can make up for falsely accusing someone of rape or molestation... WTF... They really need to fine/jail people for that... Maybe it would make people take it more serious and THINK TWICE before trying to do that to someone... There is NEVER a good enough reason to try to destroy someone's life, save if someone ever brutally harmed one of my daughters or grandson but still wouldn't resort to fake accusations... Hopefully this post will help people realize and think twice before they think of doing that to someone

[ColoradoKid]

I can only hope that it will make people realize what false accusations of that will jack some one up. She is the only person that I have been afraid of. When we met and talked I had my gun tucked away from sight.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thank you for sharing your story... And yes I created this post because I both wanted people to realize how easy it would be for someone to falsely accuse it yet to set them up and hope maybe people who are guilty of this will think twice before trying to do it to someone else

[ColoradoKid]

I hope that the ones who have been falsely accused that get in trouble will get out of trouble. I would like to see a law that would punish the accusers with double the fines or jail time that the accused was sentenced with.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I agree 💯💯 something needs to be done to stop people from getting away with things like this

[Anonymous]

I am so triggered by this question. This story will remain part of what pisses me off for the rest of my life. Had a woman on my supervisor team who was endanger of being fired. I was literally the only one who when asked by HR in private if they should fire her, vouched for her because I didn't want someone who really needed their job to get fired. How was this kindness repaid...why with ultimate betrayal of course. A few months later, at an event, she f'd it up royally and our VIP's with the big bucks wanted heads to roll. I came in to work that day to find out, that meant me for some odd reason. I had a whole voicemail of angry messages from the big wigs asking why I didn't follow set-up protocols and why certain things were horribly mismanaged.

All this was strange because I did not even work that night. Apparently the co-worker had said I worked the event and it was my fault I didn't do set up right and that they were angry. I went to the assistant managers office to just explain, hey didn't work last night, don't really know why they are calling me, and the AM tells me that she knows this but since the other girl is her friend, she doesn't want her to get fired, so she's NOT going to tell them this very important fact. I. LOST. IT. I had a whole set of messages saying that I was probably going to be fired and my own AM refused to tell the truth. I turned it up to 11. I went red in the face. This verbal altercation goes out off the office, up and down the hall, everyone is peering in going what the hell is going on here. It was never physical but two people pulled me to the back to cool off because I was livid. What these idiots didn't realize is we had a bioscan time clock so how did I work if I had scanned out 2 hours ahead of the event. The girl was fired, and the AM and I never got along after that but karma for her was a b---- so life worked itself out.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sorry if my question triggered you 💜 Sorry you had to go through that, but at least that chick did get fired. But yeah people who think it's ok to throw someone else under the bus to save themselves they just fucked up people! I hope your job situation better now 💜💙💜

[Opinion Owner]

No need to apologize, this was like ten years ago and I definitely no longer work there, but it still makes me mad because I could have lost my job in an instant because of this girl after I'd tried to save her job for her. I would have put my own nail in my own coffin!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah I know... You sound like me when you help someone and they screw you over you blame yourself more because you feel you should of known better... But that's really on the shitty people who try to take advantage of someone's kindness... Glad you don't work there tho, cuz in my opinion that AM should of lost her job too if she knew it was a lie and didn't do something...

[meetkitty123]

Yep this has happened to me
Pure betrayal it happened by the people who were supposed to love me unconditionally

When I refuse to conform to strict religious ways and refuse to conform to a culture where women are meant to have babies and stay in the kitchen and men are seen as more important and the authoritarian I became the black sheep of my family and so I rebelled.

I never did anything that an American child would call naughty but apparently I was naughty for having an opinion for not wanting to wear dresses all the time for wanting to take woodshop class or mechanic shop instead of home ec.

Because I was once seen sitting on the curve talking to a bunch of girls and boys I was considered to be prostituting
Eventually this lie turned into prostitution and drug use. Hey apparently what else would make me so rebellious...

My family's relationship became so toxic that eventually my father was contacted in the United States and he was told those lies. He was told I was a delinquent who was prostituting and abusing drugs

He took me to America to straighten me out I was placed in delincuente classes and it took about a year and a half to clear my name

My father became extremely apologetic when the truth was finally revealed and he and I are closer than ever I don't care under what circumstances he took me to America I don't care that he had even believed the lies I am thankful that he stepped in and thankful that he cared enough to believe he had to help me and I'm also very thankful that he finally saw the truth

ALL I know is he saved my life my mind and my outgoing personality.

[meetkitty123]

@guardian45
Tag?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sorry. That's not right!!

[meetkitty123]

@Brainsbeforebeauty
thanks it wasn't

[Guardian45]

Wow! Incredible!

[meetkitty123]

@Guardian45
🤷 Family gotta love em
Believe I told you im closer to my dad

[Tstrbrainer]

That must have been tough.
It is a good thing that your dad rescued you

[meetkitty123]

@Tstrbrainer
Yes thank you

[meetkitty123]

Thank you for the mho

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I forgot to select but this time I agree with their selections 👍👍💜

[Blueeyes81]

When I was 18 a bunch of my friends and I went camping on the river in the next town over. It was a small podunk town. We ended up getting bored and headed to the park. A guy and girl (both around 14 or 15) walked by and we asked them where everyone was at. It was 11:00 on a Friday night. So we asked if there was a party going on anywhere if thats why we weren't seeing anybody out. They said no and left.

About an hour later 3 sheriffs rolled up with their lights flashing. They asked to search our vehicles and before we could even answer they were going through our cars. After they got done illegally searching our cars they told us we were going to be charged with assault and kidnapping. Completely confused I asked what was going on. They said they got a call about a group of teens in the park holding down another teen and threating to beat him up unless he told us were a party was. They even had a description that fit me to a tee. After taking our statements they said it was our word vs his and they believed him. Finally I told them to get the girls statement that was with him. After another hour of waiting and even more sherrifs showing up and again searching our cars they told us we were free to go. The girls story matched ours. So when confronted with her and our version he confessed to making it because he was late for his curfew and was trying to keep from getting grounded.

I said I wanted to press charges against him and they said I could not and that since a report had been made we could still be charged for up to a year. So if anything happened to him during the next year the charges would be filed against us. We were told to leave the town and not come back.

I still think of that night whenever I hear of any accusations. Seems like everyone is "guilty until proven innocent" anymore. He could have destroyed 6 lives all because he didn't want to get grounded. I found out years later he had committed suicide. Thank god he didn't do it during the year after or I'm sure they would have tried to pin his death on us as well.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thank you for sharing that... I'm sorry you dealt with that.. Thank God she told the truth!!! Why I'm so glad you shared this particular story is because of the 'why'her did it... There is never ANY valid reason to gallery accuse someone, but that someone would not care about if 6 other people got in trouble just so 'he" wouldn't be grounded is exactly the issues I'm trying to address/bring to light here... That some people will falsely accuse someone for any petty reason... And that people that do that are really sick people with severe issues... To do that to someone and not care of it has lasting or permanent damage to that person or the life are the actions of a truly fucked up person! And, while you can't slays press criminal charges, you can sometimes sue civilly. Although I think they need to start criminally charging people who do that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*he
"Falsely
Friggin phone 🙄 lol

[WindAtMyBack]

The closest thing is when I pled guilty to something I didn't do as part of a plea bargain.

While driving, I was pulled over for something I didn't do. Not sure what happened, but I suspect the cop got me mixed up with someone else and pulled over the wrong car. However my license was expired, which was a more serious offense. I agreed to plead guilty to what I didn't do, to have the other charged drop. I really hated doing it, even though it was the best thing for me.

What was worse was the scam lawyers. This was a small courthouse, and I was sitting in a room with the prosecutor and a few others. I tried to bargain with the prosecutor to plead guilty to A if they dropped B. He refused to do it.

After he left, another lawyer who was siting there asked if I wanted a lawyer he would represent me for $200 (adjusted for inflation would more than double that). I agreed to it. He left the room and came a few minutes later with exactly the same deal the prosecutor had turned down ten minutes earlier.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah there's scams everywhere

[WindAtMyBack]

That was what I call the good 'ol boy network.

Nothing wrong with helping friends and colleagues. But this went well beyond that.

I ran into something similar with an ex girlfriend. Actually it was a lot worse. There was a small town not too far from a tourist destination that largely attracted young people. I don't know if it meets the legal definition of entrapment, but that is basically what the local police were doing.

They'd entrap people with a drug charge. They'd arrest them and take them to a court. There would be a lawyer there to "represent" them. The lawyer would offer to enroll them in a "special drug program". If they entered this drug program, the charges would be dropped. The program would cost around 1200-1500 when adjusted for inflation.

Except that there was no program. They signed up for the "program", but it didn't do anything. Nothing at all. They didn't even meet anyone or talk to anyone. The "program" was literally nothing.

This was done with a lot of young people who would not have that kind of money. But their parents would wire the money to get their kids out of the charge. My girlfriend was with her friend and they both got arrested. Her friend's father paid the money. My girlfriend was let out on bail and was supposed to sign up for the program. She never paid them though and nothing happened. I don't think the original drug charge was even on her record. The whole thing was just a big scam. I suspect they did it to hundreds of young people, mostly students.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Oh man that's some messed up shit there

[WindAtMyBack]

Yup

The things is, it's the people on the streets that you really need to watch out for. Scammers and ripoffs are everywhere.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Gotta watch out for it everywhere... Online too... People pretend to be something they not, some people fall for it and take it to real life... And then either could get fucked over or worse.. At least IRL you have a better chance of seeing someone for what/who they are... Not always, but better odds than a stranger on the internet

[SjE78]

unfortunately yes a few times

my mother, tried to make out that i beat her when all i did was ask for my property back... she made out that i had beaten her to teh police... funny thing was my then girlfriend was witness to the fact she lied... but the police refused to accept her statement and instead attempted to threaten my girlfriend... so i told the copper that if he touched her he would immediately regret it, when he asked if i was threatening him i said "no, i am merely promising you how it will go down!"

my father, tried to have me arrested for various things, i stopped him raping a young woman and he didn't like that.. and i stopped him from having a guy killed, which pissed him off even more... after that he tried having be arrested for trumped up allegations even after he tried running me down with his car.
a couple or so years later he used the fact that my kids' uncle slept with an underage girl (apparently to prove he wasn't gay), and blackmailed their Nan into making a false statement to the police claiming i'd beaten his 2nd ex wife up... despite the fact that i never did, but instead was attacked by this crazy cow, while she was trying to get past me to attack my kids... their allegations despite no proof was only able to result in a charge of ABH cos of the fact of the false statement, the officer even stated that had it not been for the statement there would not be anything that could have even been enough to warrant an arrest let alone a charge.
he's been trying to get me done for years since... even ruin my life
and then he finally found where i moved to when i had married.. and got to my (now ex) wife who he managed to manipulate and use to try and get me set down, shot, beaten up, even try to stop me from being able to see my kids...

and even when i moved far away they still tried doing their crappy thing


family eh... and now they have done the same to my eldest

[Kaylaw01]

How do you cope? That's a lot of stress.

[DavidDong]

Bloody hell your life went places, keep strong

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Omg... I'm sorry to hear you've been through that... To go through any of that is bad enough, but at the hands of family especially your parents the people that are supposed to have your back the most in this world, that's just so fucked up... So they found where you live, so it's still going on?

[SjE78]

@Kaylaw01 i accept it, deal with it and refuse to give people the chance of victory by making me quit

@DavidDong yeah you could say that

@Brainsbeforebeauty thanks i have met people who have had bad parents and grew up in a bad household and they go off the rails and claim "it's cos i had a crappy childhood" yet i've done what i can by the right way... only time i've been arrested is when i've defended others or cos i been set up...
yep it still goes on, i moved far out the way so they couldn't find me and use my kids against me and they still do, the ex wife still to this day uses my youngest against me even though i stood by her through thick and thin cos i made a promise when we were married, hell before then... my father uses my youngest against me too even interrogates him after i've managed to see the kid
he did the same with my older two too... when he didn't know where i lived at the time he threatened them to get them to tell him... they simply told him they were kids, that they didn't know what the names of streets were...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Again, that's so messed up and I agree, people use make excuses... My childhood wasn't there greatest, my first marriage, my husband was very physically abusive, I've had other very hard times in life, but I still try to go on and rise above... Even if I'm not totally there, I try... I think you show you have tremendous strength!! 💙💙 That's what people don't get... Strength is more than mere physical strength or muscles...

[SjE78]

i couldn't agree with you more experience doesn't define us, our own actions do.. we can bow down and repeat the actions of those who came before us or who wronged us but ultimately due to everyone having the mind of their own... it isn't other's that are responsible for what we choose to do... but us...
i've always put it down to stubborness that has pushed me on, and spite cos i came close on so many times to just giving up, but then i remember what i took from a session with a psychologist...

which highlighted that those who try to bring us down want to see us fail, so deprive them of that win, make them lose their mind trying, and sit back and enjoy the show... cos those who want nothing more to see you lose, pool all their energy into that one goal, and when you dont fall, they go mad trying other more worse ways to do so...

eventually those people implode in their minds at their own failure or give up

[SjE78]

i hate when i hear others experience abuse at people's hands, or what people say... cos i know full well what they are going through being subjected to it all... I am so sorry you had to go through all that @Brainsbeforebeauty did he ever get punished for his actions? many people dont understand though that the type of damage things like this does, it's not as simple as moving on sometimes, as more often those in situations like what we've both experienced can scar for life and also not always are we allowed by our tormentors to actually get chance to move on, most the time we have to cut all ties to those we actually care about in order to protect them and get away from those who abuse us

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No I divorced him, left with nothing but the clothes on my back even though most of the possessions I paid for.. Why I'm sick of the men in here acting like all men are providers and all females gold diggers.. But I had a great man second hubby, two beautiful daughters and one precious grandson 🥰Oct.6th will mark 7 years since he died😓.. I will admit that's what I haven't handled like I should... And not making excuses, but lost my best friend of 20 years she passed away barely 3 years later... So even though I never let life beat down, this time I did... I know it, trying to do something about it, but sometimes I fear I'll never get ahead and The current Corona Virus situation isn't helping the situation I'm in...

[SjE78]

glad you got away, even if it was without anything other than the clothes on your back, in a way i was like that when i got away from my mother at 18, most of my things that were given to me by my grandparents was denied me and even destroyed out of spite by my mother.. my father did a similar thing when i managed to get away from him the first time after i gave him a 2nd chance after thinking he'd changed... then my ex wife well she still attempts to destroy me regardless of how much i steer clear of her... glad you met a good man, and had that chance to know not all are like your ex, so sorry he passed too... and thats understandable not being able to handle the loss as well cos it would feel like their life was robbed when the bad ones still are allowed to continue...
It irritates me a fair bit that there are a lot of closed minded over privileged people out there who assume that they are the centre of the universe, and they attempt to force their belief on others belief on how they see the world not allowing acceptance of people having the right to choose, and more often they get bent up about anyone who they pursue who should deny them or turn them down...

[SjE78]

it's never easy losing anyone, and it's worse when you have a truly real connection to them and when they are such a good part of our lives... i dont think anyone truly gets over something like that, but we all learn to adapt, it helped me when i lost my grandparents (mother's side) to live my life by how they taught me... and try to hold on to as many memories of them both as i could, even though i know my memory isn't as good these days... which can be extremely upsetting when that means i can't recall a face or a name...
but i try and remember an event and sometimes it helps... I dont see what you've been through or lossed as an excuse, we all have our limits and we may remain strong through a lot of crap, be bombarded by so much that so many people would be turned to dust... but it takes the wrong action, event or words to be just that tiny thing to break those walls and the strength someone has...
and yeah the current situation is not gonna be easy for a while, but accept it as a test of wills and if you need an ear... mine's always open :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thank you so much! For the kind words and the kind offer 💙💙🤗

[SjE78]

you are welcome and anytime :)

[TCredo]

That should not be allowed to happen... people will do BS like that but the app or platform should not make it easy let alone enable and permit it. Karma is real though and here's to those that did that to you will get their's :)

Nothing like that has happened to me but kinda/sorta as I was recently a victim of unemployment fraud. I haven't been unemployed since I was a kid lol but when all the COVID relief money came out, the system got overloaded and countless fraud has happened. Someone was collecting unemployment under my name... and finally got caught when they, get this, tried to file for an extension lol. It's really sad as I found out hundreds of thousands of people were also victims of this. Money to those in need - yes - to the fraudsters... karma will get you :)

I'll also add more to your experience I have a friend who is a pretty famous porn model and fake accounts of hers will pop up all the time and ask people for money... she can't stop it but she continuously reminds people she doesn't ask for $ in messages - but people fall for it.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah people always use a national disaster to perpetrate fraud... Oh and that insert wasn't me.. That was an answer on a thread I'm not an influencer... She was...

[TCredo]

Ah ok... got it now :) And yes, like the hurricane this week without a doubt relief $ will go to fraud pukes... hopefully if they go out to have a fancy meal with fraud gotten $ they will get a fraud-detecting food poisoning that changes their skin green so everyone knows lol :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That would be good 🙂

[Anonymous]

Many times, mostly in real life. I dated 2 psychos for about 2 weeks each. I found out how crazy each one was early on and left them. The first one took a picture of me before our 1st date (I did not date online and all my social media was set to private) without me knowing. When I broke up with her, she gave the police my picture and phone number and said I raped her (I'm a virgin to this day lol). Of course my chain of command (I was in the military at the time, but psycho did not know that) turned me over to the local police. I did not know why until I was at the county jail. Lucky for me the day she said I "raped" her I was at a command function with my unit. When we went to trial and I knew the date and time, I called my NCOs and they verified my whereabouts. She had done this to 3 other men before me. The 2nd girl tried to shoot me when I broke up with her. Before the gun was fully aimed I kicked her in the stomach and kicked her gun wrist (the gun was still in her hand) and broke it. That time what saved me was the fact I chose a starbucks for the breakup and made sure to get a seat close to the register so the cashier could see and hear everything.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Uh yeah you might wanna find better chicks to date yikes... So did you meet them online? See that's exactly why I don't do the whole online dating thing

[Anonymous]

I was.. almost... accused... of something illegal/crooked, through a volunteer position that I had had for years.

I happen to have background checks and minor security checks periodically through my real job, so I'd like to think I've proven I'm a good, solid dude. I can back things up better than most of the other volunteers. No one actually involved has ever accused me of anything related to what this woman thought I did. She was just a nut with a tiny amount of power, and she just assumed I did something, so she tried to make an issue.

The head staff chose to back HER up - I felt VERY betrayed. Luckily, I had my mom to back me up or be there for moral support. We had "mediation meetings" - this woman who assumed I did something was a no show every time. She chose to start an issue, but when it came to some discomfort of having to face the person she was trying to ruin... she couldn't bother to show, and the staff made excuses for her, and kept defending her, as if she was being reasonable.

I saw the signs - I quit. Years of volunteer work (and a position I loved), out the door. I will never put myself in a similar situation, and there are a lot of trust issues now, so I'm going to be paranoid probably for the rest of my life, even though I'd never have done these things anyway. There are a bunch of other crazy stuff the staff / she tried pulling with me even months after I left, but I don't want to make this post too long, or get into it much, but... a bunch of little "F* yous" they pulled after, trying to keep reopening the wound. They had done it years before, this place had ages of people pulling crap, but my family stuck with this group for a long time. We put up with it way longer than we should have, but that's another point for another day.

No good deed...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm so sorry you went through that.. People for whatever fucked up reason they think it's okay to try to ruin someone or their livelihood or their life are just truly sick fucked up individuals... Thank you for sharing your story 💜💙

[Anonymous]

Yup! So my ex went to Old Homes Days at our HS one year with his buddy and apparently got into a fight with a group of people; one of which was my "best friend". Needless to say, she got punched in the face. Not by my ex, but by his scum bag druggie friend. However, she thought my ex did it and got all her guy friends involved. Their way of "Making him pay" (for something he didn't even do) was by sending 3 guys to my home who busted in my back door and beat the fuck out of me.

Guess who called me not even 30 seconds after the whole thing went down? My "best friend", saying "Omg I heard what happened. Are you okay?" I hadn't even told anyone because it literally just happened. I flipped out and asked her how the fuck she knew if she wasn't involved and her immediate response was to call the cops on me and say I threatened her and her sons life and she feared for their safety. So needless to say, she set me the fuck up, then tried playing stupid and she played victim to police (her dad is a cop) who saw my face bloody and still took her side. I ended up having a restraining order put on me, as well as criminal threatening.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Omg wtf that's horrible... Sorry you went through that

[Opinion Owner]

Eh, you live and learn right? It was years ago now but boy does it still boil my blood.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don't blame you.. wounds can heal, time can fade.. But memories never do... Until you get older and senility hits you 🤣🤣 I'm at the put something down for one second, spend 10 minutes finding it age 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

I'm at that point too 🤣 can't tell if it's from having kids, working in Dementia or simply getting old lmao

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well kids can make you lose your mind
https://youtu.be/HjVeazhEug0
😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao I play this song all the time 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Could apply to some of the asshats on here too 🤣🤣🤣

[TacoBaco]

Did your parents file a police report of what happened? Hopefully, those involved got prosecuted. Anyone, who hangs out with "druggies" is an idiot. Anything could happen when a person is stoned and not thinking clearly.

[Opinion Owner]

@TacoBaco I tried filing a police report and it was thrown out due to "lack of evidence", even though my back door was clearly busted in and my face was totalled.

[TacoBaco]

Now that is fucked up.

[Opinion Owner]

@TacoBaco yup, but that's life for ya. Sometimes you just get given a shitty hand.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So true:
https://youtu.be/gDwCMxPwJ_4

[Opinion Owner]

Yup!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I sang that to my mom at the casino once when she was giving back her winnings on same machine... She didn't find it funny but everyone around us did 🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

I think it's funny 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe she didn't cuz she didn't listen and gave it all back 🤣🤣I must of been buzzed cuz I don't don't around people after my darling daughters once told me I sounded like that penguin from Happy Feet 🙄🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*sing not don't lol

[Opinion Owner]

Omg 🤣 can you at least dance like the penguin in happy feet? Lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣 probably not lolol my daughter a dancer tho she just graduated college as a dance major...

[Opinion Owner]

That's awesome!! Congrats to her!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks... Would of been nice if she could of had the graduation ceremony, but that don't take away her accomplishments...

[Opinion Owner]

I hear you there! This year was rough on everyone :(

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You can say that again!!

[TacoBaco]

Now this is a prime example of abuse of power by police. Hiding behind his uniform to protect his bitch of a daughter. You should have filed an ethics complaint. The father should have stepped aside from the case. He could be prosecuted for misconduct and tampering with evidence.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I was in an online swinger chat forum when a girl sent me a DM asking if I wanted to play. My profile was pretty complete, looking for a specific type of adult fun, etc..

This "girl" started the conversation normally, but got very sexual quickly, asking me about what I would do to her, etc.. Even on a sex site, I want to know about someone's personality and kept trying to steer the conversation back to normal. Then she's like "well tbh I'm only 14 but I want an older man who will take care of me sexually"...

I hit the brakes, and replied:
"Officer Friendly - I'm here for adult matchmaking, not to pickup kids, and you should be ashamed of yourself trying to entrap me when nothing about this conversation started with me looking for an underage hookup. My tax dollars are being wasted on your salary, so go find a real criminal to cornhole and stop trying to frame men my age!"

Then.. Lisa-xxx (or whatever her name was) left the chat.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Oh WOW yeah I've had people do that on here... Try to pm and they underage... I screenshot the convo where I started I don't pm privately on here but ESPECIALLY underage users.. But people are lying about their age on here so the time.. Nother reason keep everything public... You never know if someone trying to falsely set you up... I've had users tell me that's happened on here!! Now I screen shot everything sent to me and report anything untoward...

[meetkitty123]

Very smart move on your part it was very obvious that something was wrong in a trap from the get-go
Good job using your intuition

[ArrowheadSW]

In a sense, yes. Way back in college I had a lab partner in a hard core science class. She had some sort of disagreement with my lab work for some reason. The other lab partner always said it was OK, so I'm not sure what the issue was. I left them and finished the semester doing the lab work on my own without partners.

Anyway, being the sick person she was, I guess she felt that to justify it, she trashed me to all of her friends of the same major. I think that they thought it wasn't class related and maybe it was a failed romance that she was "really" mad about. Which is was NOT because she and I never had a romance.

What it lead to was a lot of the ladies in her circle of friends got the idea that I was some sort of "bad boy" and it put me on their radar. I noticed they tried to sit next to me in class a lot... LOL... I hope it made her mad... LOL

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Ha right probably burned her up

[ArrowheadSW]

I still cringe at how antisocial that lady was, when I think of that whole situation. But she trashing me to her friends, that was comical... It put me on the map!~ LOL!

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah during my 8th grade. I had a crush on this girl. Well i didn't know it but she had a crush on me too. Her friends didn't like me and started living notes and calls to her house saying it was me and that i was stalking her and shit like that. Her mother got involved and tried to get the police to arrest me. The police found the truth and it proved i didn't even have her number nor did i even call her. To make it worse the same kids were calling my parents house trying to convince them that I was gay. We never got to see if we could have had a thing together and it made me wary about girls.

[David92506]

My best friend had a similar experience to what described. His girlfriend friends kept saying horrible things about him. She eventually broke it off with him because of what her GFs were saying about him.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

The police should of charged them. Anyone falsely accusing someone if something they could actually gave criminal charges/go to jail for should have those consequences THEMSELVES!!! Sorry you went through that 💙💜🤗

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*face charges

[COMMODOREII]

It's such a long time ago. 😞

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Glad you were problem innocent tho 🤗🤗

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

"proven

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah it didn't make me feel better. I really liked her and to find out she liked me too, makes me wonder what it would have been like if we were able to be together. I could have had a girlfriend at that age. 😞

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But you can have one now 🙂🙂

[COMMODOREII]

Its not the same thing. I know now its easier. But back then i could have had a normal life growing up. I was always denied many things and even now i was denied with my ex. When will i ever truly be happy? 😞😢

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I wish I could answer that! But I can say I hope you find the happiness you deserve 💜💙🙂

[COMMODOREII]

Thank you *hugs* 💓💓

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hugs 💙💜 elephant man (was that a smile I see 👁️👁️) 🤣

[COMMODOREII]

Not really. I really do want my life back.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But you're getting there, right?

[COMMODOREII]

It is hard. I've lost more weight but i still have no job and i need to get out. Once i leave town i will be able to get back on track again.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Leave town? Why? Where you going? Oh sorry, not trying to be nosy.. just asking if you're okay?

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah im good. But this town has always been a doldrum. Nothing happens here and you get sucked into a life of just surviving never getting anywhere.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's whereabouts my life feels lately so I hear you there... But.. We got this 👍 life has tried to beat me down but I'm still hanging on, even if it's just by a thread 🤷🏼‍♀️

[meetkitty123]

That's really terrible that happened to you I'm glad that you managed to get out of that situation and you've moved on

[COMMODOREII]

@meetkitty123 thanks 😄💓💓

[COMMODOREII]

@Brainsbeforebeauty yep we have to push on lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You younger and I'm female so the weaker sex 🤣🤣 I've been pushing till my back busted shoulder busted hell I'm busted 🤷🏼‍♀️

[COMMODOREII]

Women surely are not the weaker sex. Don't think that way.

[FreyaRed]

Some bitch in the clinic I work placed used pulp extraction set into my tool table. This set is relatively expensive, she used it for her private customers and didn't want to pay for it. I had the option to sterilize it and use it again (this could work but is forbidden) or to report it to our professor. After investigation of camera records and bills she has been caught by making some "unofficial" jobs and there was much more stuff she "borrowed"
I'm not proud that she lost after 4 years study the opportunity to make practical training in this clinic. On the other hand I'm sure she wouldn't stop.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No you did the right thing! You didn't get her in trouble.. Her actions did... If you knew and didn't report and then it came out, why risk you getting in trouble... So that's on her not you 👍💜🙂

[Jaximus-Lion]

Yes! Online and real life. In real life it was back in 2013 or 14 a telemarketing selling company used my name and secure number to purchase garments and merchandise worth 3500 dollars. Of course! Called the police and the bank to shutdown my bank transfers ability and showing them that someone set me up and used me for my money. So i got my money back and the police never caught the person responsible.
The online! Few guys used my photos of me is some spam websites and dating sites posing half naked doing working out posture and showing some close-up bulge shots and so and a friend of me told me that he saw a photo of me on some sex pills spam add. That's why i never post anymore photos of my self full length, only head photos and filtered.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thank you for sharing that! That's why included or online... Enough people don't realize how easy the internet makes it for people to put false things out there or pretend to be you... Why I don't even use the internet other than GAG but it's also happened to users on here by other users... So this post is:
1-hoping people realize this could happen to anyone
2-Maybe make those people that are guilty of this kind of thing think twice before they do it to someone else!!

[Lliam]

I've never been the victim of lies or false allegations. I've had stupid people on Facebook accuse me of everything from being a libtard and commie to a Nazi Trump supporter, but those people aren't influencers and they never went on a campaign to slander me in public.
in one particular case, a guy on FB got pissed off by an article I posed on my page from a site called Holohoax. In his comments in the thread, he tried to encourage others to unfriend me, but his comments had no effect. He unfriended me and good riddance.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Some people are crazy, 🤷🏼‍♀️ and then people wonder why don't trust the internet and online relationships 🤷🏼‍♀️

[19magic]

I did once Back when I was 15, I wa dthe most curious of my friendship group and we were all still virgins which seemed unheard of at that time 🙄. But anyhow I was really curious what you would do with sex and figuring out my own sexuality so signed up to a forum said I was 19 and started chatting to a 20 Yr old. Never gave my name or where I lived, hell pretty sure the dude was from America anyhow. But tbh all that chat did was freak me out and I've never been on an actual sex forum again lol 🤣🤣

Have I actually catfished a guy nope, I did set up a tinder profile awhile ago to find a guy to date and whatnot but in the end was an ego boost if I'm being true to myself I was extremely insecure back then.

[19magic]

As for set up for a crime or misendeaver no I've always been pretty honest, I had a couple of ex friends who dissected every little thing I did and almost turned me into a miny them, and a complete and utter joke with no life or fight within me, and it took awhile but I feel as if I'm finally moving forward in my life.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Glad you're moving forward 👍👍

[ThongQueenFlirt]

I was reported by someone to the Dept. Of Social Services, (DSS). They came to my home one morning to remove me from my home, along with the police. The things were lies told to them, And they won't tell who reported me. I know it's someone I know. Right now I'm where I have not been wanting to be for 6 months! My daughter put everything in storage for me. So I've been what they call "under the state." No one really knows where I am because I'm in a different city. I'm free now! And now I'm looking for a house. So in the meantime, I'm staying with my daughter and her 2 pit bulls!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Glad things are getting better for you

[ThongQueenFlirt]

Thank you, thank you very much! <3

[ThiccBoai]

Yes. A couple years ago I was dating someome, but her best friend wanted to do the same, while mot having a chance. He decided to dedicate his life to destroy me. He wanted to take everything away from me and didn't mind hearing that I killed myself (I was in a depression at the time). He created an army of about 6-8 people and used everything against me. Every little thing he could use was usefull and everything else was a lie. It wasn't fun amd left a mark. But I survived. He won the battle, but I kept on going and won the war. Ever since that day I connected with people that disliked him for his nasty behavior.

It is however nice to know that I have an enemy that wanted me dead, created an army and still failed to get me down, even tho I was in a depression

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sorry you went through that 💙💜 But the truth eventually comes out... Too bad sometimes it happens after people's lives are destroyed.. Why more needs to be done both IRL and online to stop people from getting away with things like that.. Vicious rumor one thing and bad enough, but when people try to accuse people falsely of things that are actually a crime, that's the "real crime"...

[ThiccBoai]

Thankyou, very kind of you. It's fine tho. Nobody can get me down except for me. Something I also learned during that time.

Yeah I think that we shoul be way harder on people that spread misinformation like that. Irl and online. Like Keemstar (the dude that tried to destroy me was very simulair to keem) is a huge asshole on youtube and social media. Sending pictures of horses and witches to peoples wifes. Spreading lies pretending to be truth. Driving people to becoming suicidal. All those things are horrible and should be taken care of

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Oh I agree. This internet isn't real life mindset blows my mind cuz it's really still REAL PEOPLE you dealing with

[ThiccBoai]

Yeah indeed. Just because they don't know who you are and making it impossible to get to you does mot mean that you can be an asshole just because you feel like it.

We shoul burn internet accounts like how we burned witches back in the day

Don't worry it's a joke

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Aww damn it was just a joke.. Here I was getting out the weinies and marshmallows to roast... And just cuss it's the internet, IP addresses/a accounts can be hacked and people could find you IRL.. Another reason to be careful of internet and crazy people on internet

[ThiccBoai]

Hahaha okayy we'll burn 'm. The weenies sold me haha. I'll grab some marshmallows for dessert.

Yess the internet is a crazy and dangerous place indeedd

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But can we have smores too? 🙂🤣

[ThiccBoai]

Don't know what smores are. I'm not American haha

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Graham crackers, melted marshmallows and chocolate... We used to go camping as kids and had campfire roasted hot dogs and then smores

[ThiccBoai]

Aaaah so that are smores. I knew about the campfire n stuff. Never knew what a smore exactly was. Maybe I'll try to make something like that soonn

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

👍👍 enjoy 🙂

[ThiccBoai]

Haha thankyou

[worldscolide]

My ex boss, because i accepted the offer where im working tried to get me fired before i even started.. and failed. Another person.. a feminist, bombarded my companies facebook page with all kinds of horrible stuff about me because i disagreed with her.. That last one was funny. The company i work for is IT.. you dont mess with IT firms.. We are all retired hackers.. When she started doing that and threatening to publicly smear my company, the social media manager responded to her with a private message containing her real name, her home address, tag numbers for both of her cars, her phone numbers, her social security numbers, and her bank account numbers, and politely advised she leave us alone or she would have all of that information published.. We dont tolerate harassment... Period.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

👍👍🙂

[worldscolide]

@Brainsbeforebeauty did you see that mytake recently.. the one where she is basically calling all men garbage?

Ladies, stop being desperate and asking men to validate you ↗

I can't believe women like that exist..

[TDDMS]

Yes, my first college girlfriend. She used me as a pawn so that she could get out of finals because she refused to study. So after she made up all this nonsense and the police even said that she's a lying whore, the university gave her an extra 12 months to pass her freshman finals. Thankfully at the end of the her first junior semester they expelled her after failing her freshman finals twice. For me however, it took about 13 years for October 30 7:14 PM to become just another day another tick on the clock. Oh and it took about 2 years to stop treating every woman with suspicion.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

First-sorry you went through that
But I'm glad you finally got past it and do glad you didn't let her color your judgement of all women cuz some women myself included get just as sick, fucking pissed of when women lie about that... Especially women who've REALLY been raped or molested... She should of got kicked out for that though and arrested...

[AndrewMG]

No I don't think so (though someone attacked me for NOT flirting with them on line before.. and they did that quite aggressively ironically). I mean my whole internet persona (which is essentially my real persona just with a little pinch of self deprecation) is a laid back guy (which I am), with a lot of embarrassing stories (which I have) trying to just plod on with life and If I'm lucky enough at the very least put a smile on someone's face (which I try to do).. So I'm wasted on internet trolls lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I personally don't get the point of online flirting... Joking yes bantering yes flirting yeah that's not for me 🤷🏼‍♀️ why would someone attack someone for not flirting with them.. God I really miss the time before internet if that don't make me sound old 🤣🤣🤣

[AndrewMG]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I've no issue with people flirting on the internet, each to their own, but I ended up getting bombarded with personal messages from someone asking why I wasn't flirting with them and getting annoyed that I wasn't? The weird thing is if anyone has seen my attempts at flirting then they'd thank there lucky stars I wasn't attempting it! lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂

[ronaldo75]

I had a girl promise to come over to my place and when the day came she stood me up. Called me 4 hours late to tell me she "was busy". I made nothing of it and kept watching TV. She then spread a rumor that I cried about it and chased after her for weeks in desperation. When a female friend of mine confronted her and told her she knew she was lying the girl tried to say I raped her (we never even had sex), when my female friend offered to drive her to a police station to file a rape report the girl hung up and deleted all her social media. To this day she has ZERO social media accounts using her real name.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wtf is wrong with people? People these days getting crazier and crazier...