Yes, when I sold Robomowers for Friendly Robotics , The Dist for them had me as the sales person for a given area. I caught him also selling them to my customers , so he set up a repair class and did it in a way that he thought I would not come and then he was going to take my dealership away. Well I showed and passed class making minor repairs.
Also when I was at Meijer , they would watch people they wanted to fire buy something and they would ask them for the receipt and if they didn't have it , they would fire them for theft. I was liked so it never happened to me but they did it to others.
Yeah, in fact just a couple of months ago at a party. I was drunk and this “friend“ made claims that I “made a move“ on her (in an uncomfortable way) and guilted me into an apology. Since I didn’t remember anything I believed her and it genuinely killed a part of me. I then asked people that were at the party (around 15-20) and they all denied everything that she claimed. Apparently I literally didn’t even come in contact with her (I was even under my sober friend‘s watch throughout the entire event) and I passed out quite early on. I still ask myself why she would lie about this, because it can really fuck with someone.
Yeah really!! WTF is wrong with people... Lies period but lies that ate false accusations that could ruin a person their reputation, their lives, that's not just lies... That's SLANDER that's CRIMINAL behavior... And takes a truly sick individual to do that
I don't understand it women can be so dense sometimes this is what causes problems for other women who do come forward who really did find themself in an uncomfortable situation some girls are just stupid and want the attention it's still not right that you were used as her pawn It's an insult to you and it's an insult to women who I may actually need help.
When I was in the military there were plenty of people who blamed others for things that the accused had nothing to do with.
It rarely happened to me after I got out of the military. I once had a girlfriend that would accuse me or blame me for things. For example, I bought a rice cooker that had a steam vent on the lid. My girlfriend came home from work and put her finger over the steam vent to see if it was hot. It burnt her finger and she blamed me for it.
I worked in medical administration while in the military as enlisted. My supervisor hated my guts. There was a pile of files that needed to be counted and documented and she told me there were 50 files. So I wrote that down and sent the files in. It came back to me that there were only 45 files. A supervisor, form a different department, asked if I was incompetent or dumb and daft. How hard is it to count a pile of files? They were going to give me a reprimand. I did tell my supervisor's boss that I never counted the files. I just reported what she told me. My supervisor said I counted the files, not her. It ended up that I never got the reprimand but nothing happened to her. She soon moved to a different department. by the way, many times if a military supervisor has issues, they just move them to different positions so they don't have to deal with it.
Yeah that's messed up... I hated training people on the job cuz they'd fuck up and instead of just admittingg they forgot something it was "She never told or showed me that' ... So I put everything to paper and even Drew a friggin map and copied at house and made them initial... Cuz you some gonna make me look incompetent or like I didn't do my job right... Think the blonde hair makes prole think I really am a ditzy blonde but got "some" brains 🤣🤣🤣
That's a great idea to have everything written down and then have them initial it. On a side note, I have a female friend who is blonde and blue eyes. She is an attorney but she told me almost all men think she is a bimbo just because of her blonde hair and blue eyes.
That's just ridiculous all rice cookers have a steam whole what the heck and anyone should know that steam is actually one of the easiest and worst way to burn yourself
@meetkitty123 I absolutely agree! She was a surgical nurse too. She never did forgive me. On a side note, one time I asked if she would like to go to the mall with me. Just to walk around and enjoy the atmosphere. Lunch is on me! She asked me if I was going to buy her a dress or shoes. I said no so she declined the offer. On our next date, I said if I treat you to lunch I want a blow-job. She got really upset. I told her it's the exact thing she did to me on our last date. She said I was comparing apples to oranges.
You just better out if that relationship Sounds like you guys were bantering but not understanding each others humor Which is good to know because if y'all can't be humorous together and you're all constantly finding offence then it just goes to say not meant to be Ever notice you can make the exact same joke with one person and it go well make the exact same joke with someone else and it doesn't. Sometimes people's personalities just Clash
I've been accused of a crime I didn't commit. It's not nice. But it shows you who your friends are, versus the ones who are willing to believe the worst about you.
It made me particularly sensitive to instances where people think the worst about me, or should know better but don't.
Not to me, but my uncle. His girlfriend at the time did an internet search on his name and found some hits on a similar name (different middle name) who was a white supremacist and a child molester. She went nuts, vandalized his truck, called his employer, and spread the lie around the bicycling community. It cost him a job, and now he does nothing outside of work. The person he was accused of being is now doing federal time in prison.
Aww man that's so messed up! I mean if she really believed it, there was other ways to handle that.. I might of gone to police, and then see that could of been cleared up a lot quicker, but the vandalism and calling the employer, too far... But yeah sometimes the internet provides false info and they two, these days people good with computers could try to create online stuff using someone's name to make them appear guilty... I've heard where that actually happened to someone...
The other guy was a real person. I saw his entry in the US Bureau of Prisons website. Real low life. There is a file on my uncle, but that’s due to some clearances he has. Anyhow he took her to the cleaners in court. Still, he’s been distant, avoids close relationships.
I'm sorry to hear that... That's why this post.. Cuz people think it's a joke or okay to slander someone for their petty reasons, and this is a serious matter to mess with someone's reputation, livelihood, life... Both in real life and online cuz it's still REAL people whether in person or over a computer...
My husband started pushing me around so I called his mom to come get him. She told me to let the cops sort it out and hung up on me. So I had him sent to jail. When his mom had to pick him up from jail she told him i set him up and if he goes back home I'll do it again. So he never came home.
so you mean modern cancel culture. where people claim you did bad things to them. even without having any real proof to back up their claims. yet social media and the courts take their side. without even hearing you out and getting your side of the story. happen rather often to guys these days. but can also happen to girls.
Yes it can happen to anyone! Lying if bad period but when people use lies or false accusations to try to discredit someone or destroy that person for revenge or out of jealousy, that's just some crazy, sick messed up shit there...
exactly why many guys are opting out of relationships and/or hookups.
there are even many who have the people they fool around with sign paperwork. saying they won't claim negative behavior while also video and audio recording the encounter for proof.
That's kinda ridiculous and over the extreme... All's it would take is really getting to know someone before having sex with someone, and yeah then don't have hookups and random casual sex or go to a prostitute.. I can tell you any man ask me to sign something or record sex for proof can go fuck themselves... You don't know what they could do with that audio recording and besides not only would I not fuck someone I can't trust, I wouldn't fuck someone if they don't trust me...
big part of why I personally won't engage in hookup and one night stand cultures. I personally have 4 rules when dating someone new. 1. we have to be in a exclusive relationship. before we have ant form of sexual encounter. 2. have to have been dating for at least 90 days. before have any form of sexual encounter. 3. we both get tested for STD's and other nasty things. to prove we're both clean. 4. we both use forms of protection. to reduce the risk of unplanned poignancy. if they can't follow those then their not worth my time.
I'm the same except #4 cuz 1- tubal ligation when I was 28 and now Menopause, so definitely ain't getting pregnant anymore... But that's why it's all the more reason I'm not going to sleep with someone I can't or don't trust. Because my partner wouldn't have to worry bout unwanted Pregnancies so I shouldn't have to worry about Unwanted STD's... And if it got to the point we had to use condoms cause I can't trust they're not sleeping with someone else, then I wouldn't be sleeping with them anyway!!!
Well I'm really glad you didn't tho... But yeah people should really be careful with false accusations walking a fine line too a criminal offence depending on the nature of accusations
I can be taken one or two ways set up as in set you up for a crime or set up like set you up with a boyfriend or girlfriend I'm assuming you mean the first one. Since you mentioned falsely accuse... However you could also mean falsely accuse you of for example calling someone a name that you did not...
Mostly I keep to myself some no I've not really been accused of anything
I don't have Facebook/snap chat, insta whatever or what's up or whatever it's called... This site the only"social media" I'm on... Don't do dating sites either cuz don't trust those. . To easy for people to lie.. About martial status, gender, age, etc... Hell people do that on here all the time apparently.. And get away with it! Haven't you seen the users who age says 100 something? Or the age says they 18+ but they really younger? More meds to be done to stop that, keep it more safe for EVERYONE!!
Yes!! there was this girl who was obsessed with a guy I was flirting with back in senior year high school. That girl hacked his account, harassed all his family/friends, and accused me of doing it (online harassment) and he almost believed her. she’s an incredible liar.
He/you should of pressed charges.. Hacking someone's account is a crime. As is creating false accounts in someone else's name, as is online harassment (see links posted in update)
I've been falsely accused for tons of stuff online lol. Hell on GAG there was an idiot that called me a school shooter because I wanted to get a gun due to all the BLM riots.
I specifically said it was for protection and him and his small monkey mind kept saying I'm a school shooter or I'm going to hunt BLM protestors.
Haha well I blocked his ass cause I just couldn't deal with that amount of stupid.
Getting a gun in these fucked up times is smart and protection... And anyone that don't get that well if they still think that when their life in danger
I've always been accused of bs lol in my old state im considered a bad ass dangerous gang banger felonious crook and a drug dealer who is just really good at not being caught in my middle school and highschool years to this day some people believe that i find it funny even though it was a rumor i was still set up to have people feel. that way about me and. it affected. me in doing some things haha these days you can't say that cause i only go to work and back home and out sometimes when i feel like it and im not tired
Ever? , God I lost the count , the lesson i learned from that is , they always come around you , smiling at you , but you can always see the fear in eyes of the people who wronged you , i love the fear , i enjoy them ! , And they stay away from your bussiness , don't worry you are not losing someone good but a person who is not good for you , but don't do that to them then there won't be no difference between you and them!
Oh I would never falsely accuse someone of anything... And if I do ever accuse someone... Know If have actual, irrefutable proof, not either just straight out lies or"manufactured" false evidence...
When I broke up with my ex she freaked out and told me she was pregnant. When it became clear she was lying about that, she said she would accuse me of rape, which she actually ended up doing two days later. It didn't last long when the detectives questioned her but it scared the hell out of me while it lasted.
No she didn't get in trouble. The case was just dismissed. I asked the detectives about that and they told me their policy is not to pursue false allegations because they are virtually impossible to prove and they don't have the time or resources to devote to investigating them. But I know most women do not make false allegation.
Sorry you went through that... I don't get how they'd say false allegations are hard to prove... If something happened-true if it's proven to be false-then the allegations were also false..
The problem is it's really hard to prove a negative. In the case of a rape there is evidence. In the case or a false rape charge there is a lack of evidence. How do you prove anything under those circumstances? That was the point they made.
I guess the only way is if they admit they were lying... I really hate when people lie period... but when you falsely lie ABOUT someone or falsely accuse to try and discredit someone or destroy someone's life is a horrible despicable thing to do... And I'm really sick of women who do that with rape because it doesn't just damage the person they are doing that to it can also hurt, have negative consequences for REAL rape victims... And also gives more fuel for the men out there blaming ALL women for the actions of some... Thank you for not doing that!!💜💙🙂
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I've joined social media sites where people would try to make me look like a bad person that is why most of the sites I have limited activity on them or have permanent left?
@Brainsbeforebeauty One website called Blurtit had some really bad spammers/ haters and most of them have finally left but I still have limits on there and I remember Dotblu or BluBet they threw me off that site and Karma got them , it was like 2 months later that site went downhill and shutdown but I believe GAG is the best one of them all
I think GAG is a good site. But I think there not always good people on here! And I feel GAG could do more to make it/keep it a safe site for it's users... AND those caught purposely attacking or harassing users with the intent to chase them off GAG should be booted off themselves, and ban those IP addresses... Doesn't stop people from using different IP address, but it would definitely help somewhat...
Yeah that couldn't wouldn't happen.. But I've heard of people starting rumors and accusations of other users on here, not just innocent rumors but criminal activity rumors and that shouldn't be allowed!! The fake accounts, the fake ages that's bad enough. But false accusations of that nature should be met with discipline to those guilty of such behavior! But nope those users still on here 🤷🏼♀️ until what, they try to do that to someone else?
@Brainsbeforebeauty There is Brothers who get their Sister private information and come on GAG to set accounts up and they spam this site with showing pics of them in their Bra That happens too also there are people who bully or pretend to be a certain age or certain gender just to get their GIG off yes I've never seen it fail to happen on the Internet... One Pen-pal site called PenPalsnow is full of fake people and people who are just looking for sex... Also, some Males to pretend Females and some Females pretend to be Males and some Older Males pretend to be Teen girls on the Internet yes lots of looneys online.
Why the link... Those things are illegal to do... People could actually file a civil law suit against someone for some of those actions you just mentioned... And falsifying information is illegal
Exactly I got fired per phone while I was laying down in my bed feeling unwell. That was fucked up, the manager was a woman she’s going to hell for that
Yeah. It happens all the time. Someone will try to bait me into looking like an incel or woman hater so they can blow up on twitter. It's pathetic honestly.
That's okay cuz I'm a feminazi prude slut🤣🤣 funny tho never been called a "Karen" yet 🤣🤣🤣 man what's up with this overlabeling 🤔 people can state why the disagree but if you disagree, you "triggered" a man agrees with a female opinion instead of a man's, her a "white Knight" or a simp It's sad to see so many adults act so childish...
Yes, online, and it sucks. Only time will help smooth over the damage. And I think I know who it was, , but cannot be 100% sure, which makes it even more confusing and disturbing.
Why it's better to document online activity... Although this only site online I'm on... I've heard stories from users on here about the things they've experienced at the hands of other users. Websites should do way more to protect their users from online abuse but if they don't/won't... Protect yourself!!
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Yes, when I sold Robomowers for Friendly Robotics , The Dist for them had me as the sales person for a given area. I caught him also selling them to my customers , so he set up a repair class and did it in a way that he thought I would not come and then he was going to take my dealership away. Well I showed and passed class making minor repairs.
Also when I was at Meijer , they would watch people they wanted to fire buy something and they would ask them for the receipt and if they didn't have it , they would fire them for theft. I was liked so it never happened to me but they did it to others.
Wow that's crazy...
Yeah, in fact just a couple of months ago at a party. I was drunk and this “friend“ made claims that I “made a move“ on her (in an uncomfortable way) and guilted me into an apology. Since I didn’t remember anything I believed her and it genuinely killed a part of me. I then asked people that were at the party (around 15-20) and they all denied everything that she claimed. Apparently I literally didn’t even come in contact with her (I was even under my sober friend‘s watch throughout the entire event) and I passed out quite early on. I still ask myself why she would lie about this, because it can really fuck with someone.
Yeah really!! WTF is wrong with people... Lies period but lies that ate false accusations that could ruin a person their reputation, their lives, that's not just lies... That's SLANDER that's CRIMINAL behavior... And takes a truly sick individual to do that
I don't understand it women can be so dense sometimes this is what causes problems for other women who do come forward who really did find themself in an uncomfortable situation some girls are just stupid and want the attention it's still not right that you were used as her pawn
It's an insult to you and it's an insult to women who I may actually need help.
When I was in the military there were plenty of people who blamed others for things that the accused had nothing to do with.
It rarely happened to me after I got out of the military. I once had a girlfriend that would accuse me or blame me for things. For example, I bought a rice cooker that had a steam vent on the lid. My girlfriend came home from work and put her finger over the steam vent to see if it was hot. It burnt her finger and she blamed me for it.
The military stuff more in line when I'm talking about than the steamer incident 🤣🤣🤣
I worked in medical administration while in the military as enlisted. My supervisor hated my guts. There was a pile of files that needed to be counted and documented and she told me there were 50 files. So I wrote that down and sent the files in. It came back to me that there were only 45 files. A supervisor, form a different department, asked if I was incompetent or dumb and daft. How hard is it to count a pile of files? They were going to give me a reprimand. I did tell my supervisor's boss that I never counted the files. I just reported what she told me. My supervisor said I counted the files, not her. It ended up that I never got the reprimand but nothing happened to her. She soon moved to a different department. by the way, many times if a military supervisor has issues, they just move them to different positions so they don't have to deal with it.
Yeah that's messed up... I hated training people on the job cuz they'd fuck up and instead of just admittingg they forgot something it was "She never told or showed me that' ... So I put everything to paper and even Drew a friggin map and copied at house and made them initial... Cuz you some gonna make me look incompetent or like I didn't do my job right... Think the blonde hair makes prole think I really am a ditzy blonde but got "some" brains 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry for all the Swype typos lol guess that's the ditzy part coming out 🤣🤣 it bad eyesight, janky phone lololol
I'll ask President Donald Trump if he knows of anyone who has been falsely accused.
That's a great idea to have everything written down and then have them initial it.
On a side note, I have a female friend who is blonde and blue eyes. She is an attorney but she told me almost all men think she is a bimbo just because of her blonde hair and blue eyes.
Omg same here!! Like hair and eye color ain't what makes someone a bimbo not their body type 🙄🙄
That's just ridiculous all rice cookers have a steam whole what the heck and anyone should know that steam is actually one of the easiest and worst way to burn yourself
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I absolutely agree! She was a surgical nurse too. She never did forgive me.
On a side note, one time I asked if she would like to go to the mall with me. Just to walk around and enjoy the atmosphere. Lunch is on me! She asked me if I was going to buy her a dress or shoes. I said no so she declined the offer. On our next date, I said if I treat you to lunch I want a blow-job. She got really upset. I told her it's the exact thing she did to me on our last date. She said I was comparing apples to oranges.
You just better out if that relationship
Sounds like you guys were bantering but not understanding each others humor
Which is good to know because if y'all can't be humorous together and you're all constantly finding offence then it just goes to say not meant to be
Ever notice you can make the exact same joke with one person and it go well make the exact same joke with someone else and it doesn't.
Sometimes people's personalities just Clash
My sister in-law. She always hated me and I don't know why.
But when I first meet him. She was talkingg shit about me then.
I almost walked away from him and saying to myself. I don't need this bullshit
Now when I see her. I just want to stroll her stupid ass in the ground. But I don't, because right now there is peace.
Glad you at least have peace now
I still don't know why to this day why she hates me.
Some people just have to try to start or have issues for no reason 🤷🏼♀️
Who knows, you can't please everyone
Exactly...
I've been accused of a crime I didn't commit. It's not nice. But it shows you who your friends are, versus the ones who are willing to believe the worst about you.
It made me particularly sensitive to instances where people think the worst about me, or should know better but don't.
Yeah that's definitely one way to find out who your real friends are... Why I always say quality over quantity
Not to me, but my uncle. His girlfriend at the time did an internet search on his name and found some hits on a similar name (different middle name) who was a white supremacist and a child molester. She went nuts, vandalized his truck, called his employer, and spread the lie around the bicycling community. It cost him a job, and now he does nothing outside of work. The person he was accused of being is now doing federal time in prison.
Aww man that's so messed up! I mean if she really believed it, there was other ways to handle that.. I might of gone to police, and then see that could of been cleared up a lot quicker, but the vandalism and calling the employer, too far... But yeah sometimes the internet provides false info and they two, these days people good with computers could try to create online stuff using someone's name to make them appear guilty... I've heard where that actually happened to someone...
The other guy was a real person. I saw his entry in the US Bureau of Prisons website. Real low life. There is a file on my uncle, but that’s due to some clearances he has. Anyhow he took her to the cleaners in court. Still, he’s been distant, avoids close relationships.
I'm sorry to hear that... That's why this post.. Cuz people think it's a joke or okay to slander someone for their petty reasons, and this is a serious matter to mess with someone's reputation, livelihood, life... Both in real life and online cuz it's still REAL people whether in person or over a computer...
My husband started pushing me around so I called his mom to come get him. She told me to let the cops sort it out and hung up on me. So I had him sent to jail. When his mom had to pick him up from jail she told him i set him up and if he goes back home I'll do it again. So he never came home.
That's messed up, but if he was pushing you sound maybe they was for the best cuz abuse usually escalates
so you mean modern cancel culture. where people claim you did bad things to them. even without having any real proof to back up their claims. yet social media and the courts take their side. without even hearing you out and getting your side of the story. happen rather often to guys these days. but can also happen to girls.
Yes it can happen to anyone! Lying if bad period but when people use lies or false accusations to try to discredit someone or destroy that person for revenge or out of jealousy, that's just some crazy, sick messed up shit there...
exactly why many guys are opting out of relationships and/or hookups.
there are even many who have the people they fool around with sign paperwork. saying they won't claim negative behavior while also video and audio recording the encounter for proof.
That's kinda ridiculous and over the extreme... All's it would take is really getting to know someone before having sex with someone, and yeah then don't have hookups and random casual sex or go to a prostitute.. I can tell you any man ask me to sign something or record sex for proof can go fuck themselves... You don't know what they could do with that audio recording and besides not only would I not fuck someone I can't trust, I wouldn't fuck someone if they don't trust me...
big part of why I personally won't engage in hookup and one night stand cultures.
I personally have 4 rules when dating someone new.
1. we have to be in a exclusive relationship. before we have ant form of sexual encounter.
2. have to have been dating for at least 90 days. before have any form of sexual encounter.
3. we both get tested for STD's and other nasty things. to prove we're both clean.
4. we both use forms of protection. to reduce the risk of unplanned poignancy.
if they can't follow those then their not worth my time.
*have any*
I'm the same except #4 cuz 1- tubal ligation when I was 28 and now Menopause, so definitely ain't getting pregnant anymore...
But that's why it's all the more reason I'm not going to sleep with someone I can't or don't trust. Because my partner wouldn't have to worry bout unwanted Pregnancies so I shouldn't have to worry about Unwanted STD's... And if it got to the point we had to use condoms cause I can't trust they're not sleeping with someone else, then I wouldn't be sleeping with them anyway!!!
been single for nearly 3 years and since I can't find someone willing to wait a while. I am more then happy to remain single if need be.
Oh hell yeah in school I was the one people talked about behind my back
People accused me of rape and everything, truly disgusting accusations when they are all, utter, shite.
In arguments people would brings things up and if I disagree its was said it's me being in denial, that's like pulling a 'no u' card. U fightable.
I wanted to shank those people
Well I'm really glad you didn't tho... But yeah people should really be careful with false accusations walking a fine line too a criminal offence depending on the nature of accusations
I can be taken one or two ways set up as in set you up for a crime or set up like set you up with a boyfriend or girlfriend I'm assuming you mean the first one. Since you mentioned falsely accuse... However you could also mean falsely accuse you of for example calling someone a name that you did not...
Mostly I keep to myself some no I've not really been accused of anything
Yeah but it's happened to people online not just IRL
I mean online I have facebook... Which I check once every 6 months or so.
I don't have Facebook/snap chat, insta whatever or what's up or whatever it's called... This site the only"social media" I'm on... Don't do dating sites either cuz don't trust those. . To easy for people to lie.. About martial status, gender, age, etc... Hell people do that on here all the time apparently.. And get away with it! Haven't you seen the users who age says 100 something? Or the age says they 18+ but they really younger? More meds to be done to stop that, keep it more safe for EVERYONE!!
*needs to not meds lolol
As for being set up for a date... Nope no wingman
I had another CB set me up with another CBer many many many years ago.
Her Handle was Dreams. Hell it should have been Nightmare. It just ended badly. Like her stealing from my friends and sleeping around.
I know that's not the kind of set up you mean, but it's the only thing I got. That I'm willing to share on-line about
Okay
Yes!! there was this girl who was obsessed with a guy I was flirting with back in senior year high school. That girl hacked his account, harassed all his family/friends, and accused me of doing it (online harassment) and he almost believed her. she’s an incredible liar.
He/you should of pressed charges.. Hacking someone's account is a crime. As is creating false accounts in someone else's name, as is online harassment (see links posted in update)
True. I guess at the time we pitied her more than anything else.
That was very nice of you!!
I've been falsely accused for tons of stuff online lol. Hell on GAG there was an idiot that called me a school shooter because I wanted to get a gun due to all the BLM riots.
I specifically said it was for protection and him and his small monkey mind kept saying I'm a school shooter or I'm going to hunt BLM protestors.
Haha well I blocked his ass cause I just couldn't deal with that amount of stupid.
Getting a gun in these fucked up times is smart and protection... And anyone that don't get that well if they still think that when their life in danger
I've always been accused of bs lol in my old state im considered a bad ass dangerous gang banger felonious crook and a drug dealer who is just really good at not being caught in my middle school and highschool years to this day some people believe that i find it funny even though it was a rumor i was still set up to have people feel. that way about me and. it affected. me in doing some things haha these days you can't say that cause i only go to work and back home and out sometimes when i feel like it and im not tired
Ever? , God I lost the count , the lesson i learned from that is , they always come around you , smiling at you , but you can always see the fear in eyes of the people who wronged you , i love the fear , i enjoy them ! , And they stay away from your bussiness , don't worry you are not losing someone good but a person who is not good for you , but don't do that to them then there won't be no difference between you and them!
Oh I would never falsely accuse someone of anything... And if I do ever accuse someone... Know If have actual, irrefutable proof, not either just straight out lies or"manufactured" false evidence...
When I broke up with my ex she freaked out and told me she was pregnant. When it became clear she was lying about that, she said she would accuse me of rape, which she actually ended up doing two days later. It didn't last long when the detectives questioned her but it scared the hell out of me while it lasted.
Did she get in trouble for her false allegations? And please don't think all women resort to that, because they don't
No she didn't get in trouble. The case was just dismissed. I asked the detectives about that and they told me their policy is not to pursue false allegations because they are virtually impossible to prove and they don't have the time or resources to devote to investigating them. But I know most women do not make false allegation.
Sorry you went through that... I don't get how they'd say false allegations are hard to prove... If something happened-true if it's proven to be false-then the allegations were also false..
The problem is it's really hard to prove a negative. In the case of a rape there is evidence. In the case or a false rape charge there is a lack of evidence. How do you prove anything under those circumstances? That was the point they made.
I guess the only way is if they admit they were lying... I really hate when people lie period... but when you falsely lie ABOUT someone or falsely accuse to try and discredit someone or destroy someone's life is a horrible despicable thing to do... And I'm really sick of women who do that with rape because it doesn't just damage the person they are doing that to it can also hurt, have negative consequences for REAL rape victims... And also gives more fuel for the men out there blaming ALL women for the actions of some... Thank you for not doing that!!💜💙🙂
I agree with all that. Thank you. :)
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I've joined social media sites where people would try to make me look like a bad person that is why most of the sites I have limited activity on them or have permanent left?
Yeah I've heard there's people that have had that done to them on here
@Brainsbeforebeauty One website called Blurtit had some really bad spammers/ haters
and most of them have finally left but I still have limits on there and I remember Dotblu
or BluBet they threw me off that site and Karma got them , it was like 2 months later
that site went downhill and shutdown but I believe GAG is the best one of them all
I think GAG is a good site. But I think there not always good people on here! And I feel GAG could do more to make it/keep it a safe site for it's users... AND those caught purposely attacking or harassing users with the intent to chase them off GAG should be booted off themselves, and ban those IP addresses... Doesn't stop people from using different IP address, but it would definitely help somewhat...
@Brainsbeforebeauty I totally agree with you, never let these people
bring you down, buttholes on here aren't worth it
Yeah that couldn't wouldn't happen.. But I've heard of people starting rumors and accusations of other users on here, not just innocent rumors but criminal activity rumors and that shouldn't be allowed!! The fake accounts, the fake ages that's bad enough. But false accusations of that nature should be met with discipline to those guilty of such behavior! But nope those users still on here 🤷🏼♀️ until what, they try to do that to someone else?
@Brainsbeforebeauty There is Brothers who get their Sister private information and come on GAG to set accounts up and they spam this site with showing pics of them in their Bra That happens too also there are people who bully or pretend to be a certain age or certain gender just to get their GIG off yes I've never seen it fail to happen on the Internet... One Pen-pal site called PenPalsnow is full of fake people and people who are just looking for sex... Also, some Males to pretend Females and some Females pretend to be Males and some Older Males pretend to be Teen girls on the Internet yes lots of looneys online.
Why the link... Those things are illegal to do... People could actually file a civil law suit against someone for some of those actions you just mentioned... And falsifying information is illegal
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yeah I Agree
At work people set me up for failure.
I decided I’ll be my own boss.
Done working with snakes, done being used by 3rd parties.
Girls talk shit when they are jealous 😕
Right!! Or try to get vindictive! Not all mind you but more than need to
Exactly I got fired per phone while I was laying down in my bed feeling unwell.
That was fucked up, the manager was a woman she’s going to hell for that
She could have waited instead of just doing that. God had better plans for me I trust
Hope so 👍🙏🙏
Yeah. It happens all the time. Someone will try to bait me into looking like an incel or woman hater so they can blow up on twitter. It's pathetic honestly.
That's okay cuz I'm a feminazi prude slut🤣🤣 funny tho never been called a "Karen" yet 🤣🤣🤣 man what's up with this overlabeling 🤔 people can state why the disagree but if you disagree, you "triggered" a man agrees with a female opinion instead of a man's, her a "white Knight" or a simp
It's sad to see so many adults act so childish...
The one good thing about my lockdown is that I have an excuse to stay inside and not deal with these people.
Yes, online, and it sucks. Only time will help smooth over the damage. And I think I know who it was, , but cannot be 100% sure, which makes it even more confusing and disturbing.
Why it's better to document online activity... Although this only site online I'm on... I've heard stories from users on here about the things they've experienced at the hands of other users. Websites should do way more to protect their users from online abuse but if they don't/won't... Protect yourself!!