Why would a gy say we do not fit?

[Fzrz6455]

Its not like he is a catch he works as a mailman no highschool diploma, isn't educated and lives his life with smoking a joint everyday, he hadkids at 22 and isn't with his baby momma,, his daddy was in jail yet he acts as if he classier than me and talks about my mom. being on welfare

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe this is why:
"Its not like he is a catch he works as a mailman no highschool diploma, isn't educated and lives his life with smoking a joint everyday, he hadkids at 22 and isn't with his baby momma,, his daddy was in jail yet he acts as if he classier than me and talks about my mom. being on welfare"...
You saying he acts like he's better than you as you putting him down..
And what's wrong with being a mailman.. You putting a man down for doing honest labor to earn a living... Maybe he wants a partner that will support him and respect him, just saying🤷🏼‍♀️

[Honesttguy]

You dont need to be catch or whatever to not be compatible, you could both be absolute 10s and still not be compatible.
If one is atheist and other is atrongly religious, how is that gonna be compatible?
So in your case some things that he finds important to him and his lifestyle he can't see you being on same page as him.
Do you smoke weed and chill with him?

[Fa1con]

You're talking down on him to strangers as though he is less than you. I'm rather surprised you dont understand why he might not want to be around you. If you're so much better than he is why wouldn't you want a better partner for yourself?

[Fzrz6455]

Im not he thibks he is better than me

[VV3ZZY]

Probably cuz he smokes weed. And doesn't want someone who's goin to judge him all the time.

[Fzrz6455]

Yh but why does he

[VV3ZZY]

Maybe he's in pain or has ptsd

[Fzrz6455]

In pain u think he is in pain?

[VV3ZZY]

That's why I do it. And it's fun. If it's used correctly

[RuthlessAggression]

So why are you friends with him, then, at least, if you're not a "fit"?

[Anonymous]

Probably because you're uptight and judgmental. Clearly he knows who he is. And doesn't need your approval.

[boggboss]

Because he dont feel he is compatible with you

[Fzrz6455]

Why?

[boggboss]

For whatever reason he thinks

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he did you a favor.

[Truthatanycost]

It sounds like they did each other a favor given how she also talks down about him.