Are we mismatched?

[Anonymous]

I'm worried that me and my boyfriend are only together because of the sex. We are long distance so it's hard to tell if we're even truly a match. We talk on the phone almost everyday but I find it's mostly him talking. I rarely have anything to say and if I do it's not about much.

He's into a lot of things that I'm not really into but I find him so charming, sweet, kind, funny, and cute. But I worry it's just because we haven't been around each other long enough to see the real side of each other.

We also talk about sex a lot. About what we will do to each other and such but I worry that's all our relationship is really about. Are we mismatched?

[boggboss]

If it was only about sex why wouldn't either actually get with someone u can have sex with

[Asker]

I mean that's true.

[boggboss]

Lile if sex is what is holding u 2 together your both stupid cos ain't much sex in a ldr u sure your not just overthinking

[Asker]

I guess maybe I am. It's just I find we have hardly anything to talk about other than our jobs or the sex. We don't seem to have much in common beyond that.

[boggboss]

So why not talk about your lives and take interest in it dont mean u have to like it but its nice to be able to speak to your partner about things u enjoy and have them just listen

[Asker]

I guess we could do that. Thanks!