Are we compatible?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on a trip with some friends. He was friends of friends. We have a few things in common like music tastes, travel, meals ideas, spiritual beliefs. However there are a few things we don't have in common.

He's really into hardcore hiking. I mean mount Fuji, desert hiking , bouldering. He's not into cats from what I gathered. Then there is the age gap between us and financially we are two different sides of the fence.

See, I don't hike at all. Just little walks in town and on the paths like west lands and such. I'm not sure if it's gonna work out. What do you guys think? I'm wondering if I should be open or just shut it down. It will be hard since I really like him. Being interested in this guy feels like getting close to a celebrity.

Yes

No

Maybe

[Anonymous]

Compatibility isn't solely based on shared hobbies or current circumstances. While common ground like music and beliefs is a good start, significant differences like hiking intensity, pet preferences, age, and finances can create challenges. Your enjoyment of his company shouldn't overshadow the potential long-term impact of these disparities. Rather than immediately shutting it down, explore these differences through open communication, understanding if they are deal-breakers for either of you, and whether you are both willing to compromise or find middle ground. His "celebrity" aura might fade as you understand each other better, revealing if true compatibility exists beyond initial attraction.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Why shut him down if you like him you should date further until and if you conclude that you're really not compatible