Girls, I'm 24 and have my first boyfriend. How much should I allow him to touch me?

[Anonymous]

I've been pursuing my master's and I work as a loan officer in a bank. My boyfriend is an office manager who is tall, strong, confident and also intelligent. We've been dating for three weeks now. Some friends and I were going to a cabin in the woods for a weekend and he came to visit. He chopped wood and made a fire to keep everyone warm. I kind of sensed he did it to impress me. Afterward we were hanging out a bit, and he came behind me and pushed my sleeves up so my arms were showing and rubbed my arms, then he uncovered my stomach and tickled it. Should I allow him to do things like that at this stage?

[luxxoxo]

Enough that you feel respected and safe with him. Know what his intentions are… are they pure or are they wondering hands with bad intentions.

[Asker]

He didn't expose my stomach in front of others so I know he respects me. But I don't want to lead him on too much. The more he sees my exposed arms, legs, or midsection the more he'll want sex right?

[luxxoxo]

It honestly falls on what his intentions are… has he told you he wanted to have sex with you when your body is half exposed?

[Asker]

No he hasn't.

[luxxoxo]

Honestly if you feel comfortable with him doing that then he is probably just flirting

[melanieeeB]

How far YOU feel comfortable.