Should I let my boyfriend touch me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 15 and he's 16 we've been on and on and off since last year. We recently just got back together today and he came to my house with some guys and he began feeling on my butt, boobs, and tried to touch down there I dont really know if I like it or not? I'm scared to tell him to quit because I dont want him to get mad what should I do

[Ammi_goldie806]

Fuck to the no, girl if he gets mad at you he isn't the one for you. You both are still young, if he isn't the one, just wait and take your time on letting a guy want you, and you chasing after him. if he doesn't chase you.(Meaning if he doesn't want you, call you, text you, or even face time you form day to day or went he have time). he isn't for you, let him go. This isn't a relationship no guy will want to be on and off with his girl. here is how to know if he likes you for you or just want that "one"thing. stp inviting him to your house and stop texting him for a week or stop having any contact with him. if he doesn't pick up or call you or even try any to contact you that's your answer. but if he does pick up listen to why he wanted to contact you if it's anything to deal with coming over=red flag
Have so alone time with no one to see y'all=red flag
Trying to pressure you to do anything=BIG ASS RED FLAG
Gets angry went you tell him "no"=red flag
If he does any of this dump him, it's going to be tuff for you, but you will get through it. over time it will get easier.

[kyleelyn199723]

If you have to question whether or not you liked it, chances are you didn’t like it and are insisting you do so you don’t stand a chance of him dumping you. I’ve been in your shoes when I was even younger than 15 and it’s stupid in the end. You are very young. Do you understand there’s a possibility of pregnancy once you get sexually involved with him? If you don’t feel comfortable, do not be afraid to say no. If he dumps you or anything along the lines, he is not worth the time.

[Jlegacy]

You shouldn't. Well I'm christian so I won't recommend allowing any touch until a God made marriage is done.

Also you are young. If he touches you, wouldn't he be jailed? Also no one should make the decision for you. It is yours to make. So get a legal pad and draw out the pros and cons. I counsel, talk to your senior sister or cousin or mother about it or an aunty. Ensure you are not sexually stimulated and biased.

Sex before marriage has ruined more lives than the media and hollywood would ever let on.

It is your life though and I wish you the very best.

[ChrisMaster69]

@kyleelyn199723 has said If you don’t feel, comfortable, happy with a situation, say no, be firm and clear.
it’s not being rude and a guy should respect when you say it,

it’s some thing you will need to think about and do as you get older, it’s all about consent.

without your consent nothing happens.

you are safer learning this now than when older.

anytime you do not feel comfortable with a situation, make it very clear and say so and say no.

[ChrisMaster69]

Thank you for MHG

[dreamstar72]

If you do not want him to touch you in the danger zone or if you are questionable just say NO and mean it. You should not be forced into anything you are not sure of. If he get mad that his problem and if he says he leave you, just say GOODBYE because he is not worth your time. If he can’t respect your rights he’s a jerk.

[LiamSawyer]

You need to make your boundaries clear to him and if he doesn't respect your boundaries then dump him. It was extremely insensitive and immature for him to even think about touching you when he brought his buddies over with him.

[whirled_up_girl]

Meet in a public place and tell him your not comfortable with how things have been and why, if he respects you he'll stop, if not then you need to find a way out of this relationship.

[liel443]

You're 15, at that age it's perfectly reasonable to stay on first (or second) base for a very very long time. There's no real pressure on you, so do what feels right.

[Sentimentality]

I don't know what that's like but I would take some time to think about how serious I would want this relationship to be and if it's serious tell him to give you a little time to get in the right mindset. If not so serious then tell him your not ready (your doing this either way) and that if he keeps trying to that you'll get both of your parents involved.

[Tyrael]

Nope. You're not comfortable, that's a sure sign that something is wrong. Tell him you're not ready for that yet. If he breaks up with you then you know he wasn't worth being with.

[Avicenna]

If you aren't comfortable with something he does, tell him privately. "Touching you down there" in particular is something he shouldn't be doing if you aren't OK with it.

[Anonymous]

well other than him committing statutory rape if you're not comfortable with him touching you then don't let him. don't let him pressure you into something you're not ready for or comfortable with. never let anybody do that to you especially at your age

[Opinion Owner]

if he can't say no then get a knife and chop his little wee wee off then he won't be able to use or play with his tiny pecker anymore

[Sarahh00]

U should talk with him. He has to understand ure not ready. Give yourself some time. Think about it and then u will see do u want his touch or not

[Wise4myage]

So he did all that right in front of his friends? He sounds like a real jerk.

[rcljr]

As, let him bang you out in front of his friends, give him oral, anal, vaginal, whatever he wants, then let his friends do it too… fkn troll

[Phoenix98]

If your uncomfortable with what he’s doing tell him to stop don’t let him do it.

Your obviously not ready for that kind of stuff.

[Lottifan]

You’re still young. If you’re uncomfortable with him touching you down there just say no. If he touches you there and you don’t like it you’ll only regret it afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't sound like you're ready. You need to keep control of the situation and it doesn't sound like you feel able right now

[TheAfrikan]

Let him touch when you feel like you wanna be touched, your body is no toy for him to touch when he wants.

[888theGreat]

Put a mouse trap down there

[Relux47]

Yes if it makes you uncomfortable

[In_Trance]

Do whatever you feel comfortable with

[Nachowedgie]

Sounds like a troll to me

[Pterodon]

Nope

[Pterodon]

It’s all he wants and the ONLY reason he came back