Boyfriend touches me too much in public?

[Anonymous]

I haven't told him that it bothers me but it starting to. My boyfriend touches me in public mostly in a sneaky way. He knows that I'm dirty minded maybe it has something to do with that. He constantly slaps my butt, lays his hand on my thigh then slowly goes towards you know what (he does this like four times a day sometimes) and one time he just grabbed my boob out of nowhere. He even pulled down my pants a little to look at my underwear, I don't think he would take it further but I have to stop him like all the time. This one time we had coffee together he tried to put his hands inside my pants! There were people around. Since we've just met maybe this is temporarily but I'm just wondering if this is normal? I'm not complaining that he is attracted to me but I do find it odd that he touch me like this in public.

[massagetherapist1313]

I've broken up with guys because they NEVER touched me in public. Be glad he does. He could just walk sit or stand next to you as if you two were just friends. Maybe ask him to tone down the explicit touching, but reiterate that you enjoy physical contact. If you keep telling him to stop he may stop just holding your hand!!

[Anonymous]

Just tell him to stop, like outwardly tell him to quit it or not right now. If he gets mad explain to him that you appreciate his spontaneous groping sometimes but not all the time and he needs to tone it down.

[Smiles4life12]

I had a boyfriend that liked to talk about things that went on in the bedroom with my out in public. I definitely wasn't down and I asked him to stop but it only got worse.

[Frost_Byt3]

Maybe he has a public sex fetish. Try finding a safe way to have public sex every now and then, and maybe it'll curb his behavior.

If that's not the case, just tell him not in public and to wait until you get home.

[electrollama]

Some people like it more than others. The only way he'd know is if you told him. It's that simple.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Say to him "Hey we are in public how about cutting that out "

[CHARismatic110]

Just let him know that you don't like that type of PDA and tell him he needs to tone it down.

[emerald77]

Some guys like to do this to let everyone know that you're taken.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend does it it's just being flirty I love it.

[Anonymous]

It is hotter when there's a chance you'll get caught.

[MysteriousChick93]

Lol he's into you a lot haha ;)

[atomique]

Does he need a lecture?

[Chick180]

Talk to him about it.

[Anonymous]

It has explanation, but i find it annoying