Why does he never talks about his girlfriend to me?

[Jayde21]

This guy and I are in eachothers class and we started talking. At first i thought it was just friendly but i am doubting it now. I have a boyfriend and he knows, he's not much of a fan of him and he has a girlfriend. He never talks about her. Except when he told me how many times he has sex in a week and how long he lasts and shit.

He also is messaging me in tiktok dm and doesn't want to text in instagram dm or anything. Plus he talks with me online a lot and private too but when he is in public when there's a chance she might be there he just doesn't talk to me, not even looking at me. Kind of avoiding me. He also said i was beautiful and cute a lot, made comments about my body, that i just have a good body and stuff, he told me i was so sweet and I don't know he doesn't want me to leave, he said that severall times too.

He doesn't want me to be angry at him too, and he doesn't want me to hurt myself and stuff like that. And everytime i ask about her or i say something about his relationship or ask him about it too he just doesn't respond. Or he is trying to avoid the question or saying and talks around it. I don't know he flirts with me a lot and it is a bit weird, he find ways to touch me and stuff. My stomach tells me something is not right. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

Based on the behavior you've described, it's possible that this guy may be interested in pursuing a romantic or sexual relationship with you, despite the fact that he has a girlfriend. The fact that he talks about his sexual experiences and makes comments about your body could be interpreted as signs of attraction, and the fact that he avoids talking about his girlfriend or his relationship with her could suggest that he's not fully committed or satisfied in that relationship.

However, it's important to remember that his behavior is not acceptable, and that it's not okay for him to flirt with you or touch you without your consent. It's also important to consider the fact that he's in a committed relationship with someone else, and that pursuing a relationship with him could cause harm and hurt to both you and his girlfriend.

If you're feeling uncomfortable or uncertain about his behavior, it may be helpful to set boundaries and communicate your feelings to him directly. Let him know that you're not comfortable with his advances or with the fact that he's in a relationship with someone else, and see how he responds.

It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and to seek support from friends, family, or professionals if you're feeling overwhelmed or stressed by the situation. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care, and that it's okay to say no or to set boundaries that protect your emotional and physical well-being.

[spartan55]

Something is not right? Wth does that mean? Dude is hitting on you big time and you are doing nothing to stop it. So gross.