Why is he talking to me if he has a girlfriend!!!

[Anonymous]

OK there is this guy and we get along really really well. Problem is he has a girlfriend. He told me how jealous he is about other guys talking to me, and how he likes me more than a friend, and that he wants me. If I even remotely talk about a guy I like he comes out and asks me "Are you trying to make me jealous? I think you like making me jealous and it hurts." I really don't do that on purpose for those reasons either. We are friends so I figured friends would talk about things like that. He told me he doesn't bring up his girlfriend or talk about her because it would hurt me so he expects me to do the same with guys that I like.

dodge him a lot because of the fact that he has a girlfriend. I told him that but he doesn't want to talk about her. He has asked me to start initiating conversation with him because he feels that I don't want him. And don't get me wrong I like him a lot but he's taken. I also told him I don't want to be a side dish to his main course. I'm not able to question his feelings or ask for labels. I was like well what am I to you? He would say there is no reason for us to label anything. And I in return said that is what guys say when they arnt serious about you and don't really know what to do with you let alone have a place for you in their life.

What is this all about? Why do guys talk to other girls when they have a girlfriend!

[Anonymous]

Sorry to say but he is a loser, and probably a cheat. He obviously does not care about his girlfriend. He wants his cake and eat it to. You are wise to stay away from him, for good.. If you really are tirer of him making the moves on you , you need to be more firm in your stance and tell him to leave you ALONE. FOR GOOD.

[shelbiperry]

I agree with her, if he's likely to flirt when he has that girlfriend if you was his girlfriend he'd do the same with some other girl. He just wants to do it because he can. You should stay away! You can do much better than a womanizer. Tell him to get lost.

[Anonymous]

Run very fast and don't get attached. If he is doing this with you while he has another girlfriend who is to say he won't do the same to you if you two did get together. He is not being a friend, he is controlling your life without even being your boyfriend and that is worse. That would have flattered me in my teens but now is just creepy and leading to unfaithfulness which I would not want to be responsible for. You must be a fantasy or a fall back for his current g/f.