My boyfriend touches me too much?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months, and his physical affection is starting to get really annoying. He’s constantly rubbing my back, rubbing my thighs, putting his arms around, trying to kiss me, etc. On top of that, he’s constantly saying “I love you”. It makes me feel smothered. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind physical affection, but he overdoes it and it’s annoying. If we’re lying in bed and I try to get up, he’ll grab me so I can’t leave. At first it was cute, now it’s very annoying.

[Anonymous]

Many, many boyfriends and girlfriends are touchy. Tactile behaviour indicates affection. However, if the touchy behaviour you describe becomes excessive as in being clingy, needy, then this strongly indicates deep insecurity in the person displaying such behaviour. I suggest you mention your boyfriends behaviour to him direct. If you dislike his behaviour then I advise to end the relationship. We seem to have a major problem in modern society. People just don't communicate directly in their relationships as much as they should. Communication and trust are everything in a relationship. Take care.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried a tazer? I'm not talking about the gun tazers I'm talking about the ones you stick in their stomach area and it delivers a debilitating shock.
Next time he goes overboard him him with a few volts of that. And while he's bent over drooling explain how he been to handsy as of late and this is your solution to slow him down now.

[Cakegirl]

Aww maybe that's how he shows his affections, eventually they do grow out of it. But if he continues to annoy you just let him know, that way he knows it is bothering you.

[doopayo]

Maybe physical touch is just his love language, just try to communicate how you feel and I’m sure he’ll understand

[GaG69]

you are cold, not affectionate and possibly too strong and independent emotionally. So I want to ask you, why do you even want to be in a relationship? Just for the social status? B*tches like you often complaint about their boyfriends or husbands not giving them too much attention. And when we give attention, love, affection to you, girls like you b*tch about too much love!! You're conflicted about who you are and what you want. Leave the poor guy alone. He deserves a proper, affectionate girl who wouldn't complain about "too much love" but feel lucky. Codependency is a good thing. But internet philosophers (western pu55ies) have made it look draconian. Your boyfriend is a dream guy for many girls who are yearning for love. He doesn't deserve a snob like you.

[Miristheiss]

He isn't doing anything wrong

Neither are you.

You two just don't sound compatible.

[Jayplays900]

Sounds like you don't like affection, so tell him that.

He'll either leave or understand your rejection of his affection. We all have different ways of interacting, so maybe you two are just not compatible.

[Fireguy17]

Talk to him about it.
Might not be the easiest thing to do, but you need to talk to him.

[Browneye57]

Evidently you don't TALK to your man. Oh well.
And if you're annoyed already, my crystal ball says this isn't going anywhere fast.
If he's not the greatest thing ever, then next him and find one that is.

[siegetiming]

that is creepy as FUCK. I don't think that's good, you should talk to him about it and use his response to make a decision.

[Jouth]

Yeah I had an ex like this. I liked her a lot until the first time I felt "trapped" by her overwhelming affection. From then on I began liking her less and less and less until I broke up with her.

[Mofunfour20]

Then you arnt attracted to him if its too much. If you liked him another woman will too

[Wise4myage]

Have you told him how much it bothers you? If not, then you need too. He sounds like an out of control horny dude.

[Yaharro]

So tell him to back off its annoying right so let him know

[Anonymous]

Don’t be afraid to tel him that, like to maybe loosen it up a bit, but to not take it personally and that you love him as much as he loves you.

[KrakenAttackin]

So go fuck his best friend, his touching you and "I love you's" will end.

[Better_off_here]

it seems he just can not get enough of you, you must have waved your magic at home too much!

[Anonymous]

ok the grabbing part i don't like he has no right to do that type of shit

[TurningGraves]

Tell him to keep his hands to himself.

[Anonymous]

If you don’t like it then break up with him

[noohair]

Well, I have an idea. Try talking.

[One1_]

You have no boyfriend then.

[CuriousAZ]

Set your groundrules