How long do you date for, before you ask the person to be your girlfriend/boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Interested to know the timeline, if there is one

[Kaneki05]

Never dated like that so unsure. Everyone I've be with I just got with therefore they were my girlfriend right away.

[FilmGuy93]

It's not set in stone, but generally I like to have some idea of where things are headed by a few months in.

[Asker]

Same, it's been nearly 4 months and I keep asking him where he thinks its heading. He keeps telling me he doesn't want to get too connected and wants to take things slow incase things dont work out. I see red flags with that, like he has already decided

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, he's definitely already decided. You aren't a gal he wants to go steady with.

[Asker]

Hmm, I dont understand why he continues to drag it on

[FilmGuy93]

Because he likes spending time with you. He likes your company

[JakeS00]

I don't date like that where it's a planned time to get into boyfriend/girlfriend. I think only when it's mutual and you both want that.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't date anyone that isn't my girlfriend. If we're dating, we should have titles. I don't have time for games.