Do y’all think that relationships that move too fast last?

[Anonymous]

I always wondered if they last because when I get comfortable fast i feel like it should be just a friendship or I’m just a fucked up person

[LazerBean]

Depends on what you mean by moving fast. The two main definitions usually mean:
-Physically and emotionally moving fast
-talking about seriously things early on in the relationship

I never did the first and always did the latter, which proved very effective as a dating tactic for someone who was looking for a person to eventually marry

[Asker]

As in getting married after 4 months of knowing each other

[LazerBean]

Yeah, that is part of the first group and not great in my opinion

[Asker]

It falls apart after a while doesn’t it?

[LazerBean]

I will just say I see a lot of people do that, and maybe 5% stay together

[LazerBean]

And that is a very generous number

[Baylayy]

Yeah they do if both of them are understanding. I remember this guy and girl got married after knowing each other for a month. Everyone thought they were crazy. Now the man is around 95 and lady around 94 still happy like day 1

[JakeS00]

Fast usually entails not the best outcome. Basically, turns into a friendship or each part ways. At least from what I've seen.