Does anyone else have a guy problem? Where mostly guys like you because you're fun to talk too? Also, rarely talking to any women?

[poneglyphs]

Is that just me? Most of my friends are guys and only the guy coworkers like talking to me? I only know like 8 women in my life but I rarely talk to them. How do I talk to more women 🤔

[Guy13]

I’m kind of that way…I grew up in some fashion and sports…scholarship in it…around International guys all the time. I saw bros or hoes question on here and I think it addresses this. The guys want to hang out and do everything in packs-especially Futbol/Soccer guys….
I prefer the look and smell of the woman. Sometimes that caused issues… “bring them over” kind of thing.
-Some of the guys thought I was gay but didn’t realize it too…. just be you, right 🤷🏻‍♂️

[poneglyphs]

Lol true

[RobT312]

I guess the question I have is do you want to talk to more women to make friends, or talk to them to hunt for a girlfriend? For me it’s two different things. When I was looking for a girlfriend I felt I was always more determined and confident... I think knowing that sex was potentially in the future gave me that drive to talk to them. So just be yourself and talk!

[NathanDavis]

I have never seen the dudes that are friends as a problem, no... I really don't see why that would be a problem

but most of the friends in my life are women though, they are not a problem either

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well, I only know guya and rarely any women?

[NathanDavis]

because you sleep all day

[RealMarek]

You talk to more women by... not worrying about talking to more women. Keep focused on gaining productive skill, finding a hobby or two to be interested in, enjoying your friends and family. If you get to the point where you are living independently, in more or less decent shape, and not seeming to be desperate then women will come out of the woodwork.

[Anonymous]

99% of women only enjoy talking about themselves... you're not missing out on much. When you meet a woman and she only talks about herself 99% of the time... then she says she is really into you... you got to ask yourself what that really means...

A lot of the women I work with show interest but I stopped bothering to make any conversation with them other than a few. Too much narcissism... you will realize this if you can think beyond your lust.

[Lionman95]

Same, I also know way more guys than women. Most of women in my life I know for 10+ years and most of them are taken or married.
I also just know a small number of women that are single and we have regular contact.

[Avicenna]

Well, take the opportunity when it arises to start up a convo. It’s good to practice talking to women even if you aren’t interested in them.

[poneglyphs]

I do at work a lot