LD boyfriend never answer my calls cause "he is doing something else" but he answer for his sister and parents. He blames me for being suspected. Why?

[Deimy]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Don't invest your time in someone that doesn't invest their time in you...

[Deimy]

We dated for 3 month in the same country, he was nice and he motivated me to be in long distance relationship when I came back to my home country. He used to say how he loves me but ye never answer my call, always prioritize other things. Finally he blamed me that I destroyed his feelings cause I was too suspected... but ye I was suspected cause he made a lot of promises he never kept, did not want video chat with me or made a lot of excuses not to answer my call.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Think it's time for you to move on to someone who won't make excuses and then blame you for why... Besides, wouldn't you rather date someone you can actually be with in person... Time wasted is something you can't get back. How much time do you want to waste on a relationship that don't sound like it's ever going to get past the ld stage

[Red_Arrow]

He wants to talk to them, not you. You can get a boyfriend who wants to talk to you, or stay with this one who doesn't/

[Deimy]

Ye he ghosted me when just 2 weeks ago he said how he still loves me:)))

[Deimy]

We dated for 3 month in the same country, he was nice and he motivated me to be in long distance relationship when I came back to my home country. He used to say how he loves me but ye never answer my call, always prioritize other things. Finally he blamed me that I destroyed his feelings cause I was too suspected... but ye I was suspected cause he made a lot of promises he never kept, did not want video chat with me or made a lot of excuses not to answer my call.

[Red_Arrow]

Like I already said, get a guy who wants to talk to you.

[Baylayy]

That's a big red flag. You deserve better

[JakeS00]

Are you calling him a lot?

[Deimy]

Nope

[JakeS00]

Perhaps he's not making you a priority.

[Deimy]

We dated for 3 month in the same country, he was nice and he motivated me to be in long distance relationship when I came back to my home country. He used to say how he loves me but ye never answer my call, always prioritize other things. Finally he blamed me that I destroyed his feelings cause I was too suspected... but ye I was suspected cause he made a lot of promises he never kept, did not want video chat with me or made a lot of excuses not to answer my call. He ghosted me 2 weeks after he said how he still likes me and wants to visit me:)) his last message was " you hurted me. You were not into me. I switched myself back to off. Now I am totally off sentimentally speaking".