Do you get jealous of other guys that also sees the girl you've have fallen in love?

[Anonymous]

Do you want her all for yourself

[Anonymous]

You need to be more specific.
First of all I don't fall in love just seeing a woman because I'm not 12 years old. If I've fallen in love it's because at that point we have a deep connection. And if she decides she likes some other guy more than me then that's CLEARLY telling me i misjudged her. It really doesn't matter what any other guy thinks of her.
I Hope that helps you.

[Asker]

Well this guy I got a very deep connection and I told him that I would see other guys if I'm not in a relationship bc I know for example him that he would see other girls and wouldn't be able to give me as much attention so I would look it other ways and then he asked how much attention do u need , how much do you need to fuck per week and then I automatically thought hey maybe he would get jealous maybe he wants me only for him? That would be lovely aha

[Opinion Owner]

I can't speak for other guys but a woman can't make me jealous. She either wants to be with me or she doesn't and if she tries to test me by making me jealous she finds herself alone. If a woman told me what you told him I wouldn't consider her "ready" for a relationship.
I don't know if that helps answer your question. But there you go.

[Asker]

Why not? I'm ready , I just don't wanna depend only on him when i think he probably has more girls

[Opinion Owner]

Then you SHOULDN'T depend on him. Have some self respect. Demand exclusivity. And if he doesn't want to give it then say "not interested". Don't accept just what people are willing to give you. Accept that you deserve! But always be deserving of that. You can't just demand without giving.

[Asker]

But we have spoken already that we don't want a relationship

[Opinion Owner]

So what is your problem then. Clearly it's not a deep connection for him. And you're clearly confused because on one hand you say you're OK with not having a relationship, but you're going to claim you have a deep connection.
Let's call this what it is. You like him, you want him, he wants you, but he seemingly wants other women as well? You weren't clear on that part.
So now you want to make him jealous to test the depth of his interest in you. Because let's be honest you really don't love him. You like the thought of him being interested in you. And that's the attraction.

[Asker]

No I wasn't trying to make him jealous. I was just answering a question when he found out that and I don't mind that he sees other girls as long as he doesn't mind that I see other guys , and if he ever tells me he wants to see only me bc he is in love with me then that would make me super happy I wouldn't need anybody else

[Opinion Owner]

So you have a really deep connection with a guy (your words) and you don't mind him seeing other women (your words).
Well that makes perfect sense. 🤣
Good luck. 🙂

[Asker]

Well I'm 26 and he is 20. I prefer him to grow up and get more experience

[jahaims]

I wouldn't be in love with someone I am not with. It takes a lot more than crushing with lust and infatuation to develop love