Suppose your crush talks or flirts with other people on the other side of the room. How do you feel? Do you get angry on your crush or simply go silent and watch them madly?
Do you get jealous about your crush?
I've had this happen to me. The girl I feared he was flirting to (treating her how he use to treat me like constantly touching her, trying to make her laugh, randomly nodding or raising his eyebrows to her) was so pretty and to be honest, one of the sweetest, loveliest girls I will ever know, + she is smart and gets along with the guys greatly (they all secretly have a crush on her). So whenever I saw him flirting with her, I immediately feel a rage of jealously and I can't help but stare while he does it, wondering why he didn't do that stuff to me anymore and craving his attention. I feel bad at the same time because she is such a lovely girl.
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Yes I get so jealous! I usually get that lump in the back of my throat bc I'm about to cry. I hate when other people make my crush happy, unless they're the unpreffered gender or family.
I'll try not to look at them, or I'll come up to them and talk with them. So far my crush hasn't flirted with other girls, or else I'd blow up in tears. But I get so jealous when he talks to other girls.
Tbh I don't want the lovey dovey see you every second of my life relationship. I just want something where I can have my space you have yours best friend, but I need a confirmation that I'm his you know what I mean?
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Depends on the intensity of the crush and how I feel that day. If its just a little crush and nothing serious I feel a little bit jealous and feel like I need to do something to get their attention (childish, I'll admit.)
If its someone I really like, and I am already feeling insecure, and it's legit flirting, I hate it. It makes me incredibly sad, insecure, and sometimes I feel a little hurt. Like one guy I liked would flirt with other girls and then make sure I was looking just to piss me off after I hang around other guys.
But yeah it can range from slight jealousy to sadness/a bit of anger
I'm terrible for jealousy with someone before I start dating them. Like it eats me to know someone I'm crushing on is spending time with another guy. That's why generally I make it clear that I'm interested and if I don't get a response right away or things don't work out I let her go. It's completely the opposite when I'm in a relationship though. Within reason, I don't care what she does because I know she wouldn't leave me for someone else.
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If I like them, then yes. Sometimes it manifests itself in passive aggressive behaviour. It's quite funny in how pathetic it is :)
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I don't get jealous but if I'm replaced or ignored I do get annoyed. It's like you want to order a cake and its sold out and you don't find out until you've spent 20 minutes in line.
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I can be jealous if he passes the line in flirting. Jealousy is a very negative feeling. I don't want to include it in my life. I get jealous time to time, not gonna lie.
But I can not tie a person basically. Everyone is free whatever he wants to do. If he doesn't value my presence, then good bye to that person. My time is pretty precious for that shit. -
Talking? Hell no.
Flirting? Well, it depends on the type of flirting. There's the harmless fun flirting, and also the more touchy-feely flirting. This second type wouldn't fly with me at all. -
When I see my crush flirting with someone I just do something stupid like start tweaking. I let her catch me and not the person she is flirting with. She will smile at me and I’ll immediately stop when the man looks over.
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yes but i don't watch them. i divert my attention to something else and research on how to get over a crush asap. i don't want to feel like a loser for long. :)
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Interesting! Would you get angry at your crush? How? Lash out at her?
I once had a guy lashing out at me in the middle of my conversation with another guy. No idea if he was jealous but it was just weird -
Don't care at all. They are a crush. and the only reason they are a crush is because I have never done anything to possibly get to the next level.
There is no sense being angry or jealous. If she is single, she can do as she pleases. - 672 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
It doesn't feel good, but I refuse to feel jealous. And if I somehow happen to become jealous anyway, I most certainly wouldn't act out on it or show it. I look away.
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Yes! So jealous. It makes me really upset to see someone else with the person I like, making them smile and laugh.
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WIth a fresh new crush I can get jealous, which is kinda normal I guess. But once I'm with him and know he wants to be with me, I stop being jealous.
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I don't get jealous. I guess I just don't care. If I want them their mine!!
No one else can come in between that. (Sorry, ladies) -
I stopped having crushes in middle school. Anyway, I would just approach her and ask her out if I am interested. If she declines, I do not waste any time trying to change her mind. Too many women who will say yes for me to fall into one-itis.
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This happened to me last night. Should I look should I not look so I just grabbed my phone to find something to do on it other than look at them lol
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Ugh yes it drives me crazy inside but u just smile and act normal like I didn't notice lol
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I would get over my crush on him.
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