Do you get jealous when someone gets too close to your S/O or crush?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well. I figure if I have a crush on someone and it’s to the point where someone starts getting too close… Maybe either I’ve missed my chance or my window of opportunity is closing fast.

If you want someone. Then go talk to someone and ask him out. Otherwise irs stupid to get angry that someone is eventually going to move on.

I am not saying I don’t understand how it feels. But honestly most of the time something like that happened I found later I dodged a bullet so. Lmao.

PizzaDaddyo · Accepted Answer

Yes. Even tho I don’t act like it. It always distracts and disturbs me when i experience unauthorized actions towards my lady. It hurts but you gotta deal with some crap when you chose a pretty girl. It’s part of the game.

Dysney1023 · Accepted Answer

Jealous? No, I just compliment them a lot. And make them feel loved. I feel if they chose the other person it would be for a good reason. But I may as well still try to show love until they’ve chosen. Lol for me crushes don’t happen often. So I do tend to give my all until the bitter end. Maybe I should get out more though lol.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Jealous of a crush no way, I just like to admire a crush, I couldn't care less even if he is dating other girls. But a S. O. depends on what is close.. someone flirting with him or touching him then yeah I will get jealous and my man will soon take notice lol. But someone just talking and being near him I don't care.

Avicenna · Answer

No, if I like her that much to be crushing on her, I'm asking her out rather than sitting there and thinking about my crush.

AviatorTom · Answer

I sometimes get jealous but never do anything about it. A bit of jealousy in a relationship is good, it indicates that you care about your partner.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don't get jealous - if I like a guy and he has another girl - I say bye bye and meet new people.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I don't blame guys that try... if my chick entertains it though, the problem is her. I'm not sure if that's called jealousy. I just see a potential cheater moving into cheater territory... and I view that as a problem.

Nothing pisses me off more than being expected to not do certain things in exchange for her not doing certain things, and then figuring out I'm not being met halfway. Fuck one-way deals or double standards.

And from my experience... if you see it and feel it's going in that direction... yeah, it's going to happen. You might be able to check it and prevent it, but if you're with someone that even goes into that double-think-like behavior... it's just a matter of time. All it's going to take is a night out, you get a job, her at her job, and so on. It's not going to take much and it's going to happen. Might as well just get out of the situation at that point instead of having to deal with that kind of bullshit.

davidyoungflyer · Answer

Not really but I've seen females get jealous of me a lot! My lingerie is always very sexy I out dress every female that I've been with so this has been a problem in the past but it usually is taken care of by shopping together.

The reactions I've received by men makes the female feel unnoticed.

Now cocksucking issues can begin and end a relationship before it starts if she sees her man constantly putting his dick in my mouth all night long she feels threatened that's why I purposely give bad blow jobs in the beginning of a new relationship it gives them more confidence in bed. I hear women say that once they see me in lingerie and they see me suck dick they tell each other that they will never introduce me to their boyfriends fearing I will steal them which I never have or will I cause harm in a cis females life that's my girl code!

catiecatie · Answer

When it’s my crush I scream internally if I see someone new he’s following and if he added a new friend. I don't know I really do like him. It’s weird but I’m hoping it works out as he seems interested in person but texting is a whole new story.

DermalPunch · Answer

Yes. I'll admit it. I am a possessive woman who probably has some double standards in that area. I'm honest.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Depends how he respond to the situation. Because it takes two.  he ignores her…good. He engages and gets close…I would need to know why.

virtualwasp · Answer

not if i know where i stand, its when im messed about i have issued and become upset quickly as i dont like being made a fool of

Hinaaaaa · Answer

Yup I did... it was as if someone stabbed me in my heart..🙂but that was when I found I have a crush lol

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't really know my teaction now but before i'm still so fine on the outside but when me and my ex would meet eye to eye he gets uneasy 😭because of my sharp look/stare on him

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would get jealous because I would think they're taking my girl away from me as of now I'm single, but things can change.

Meropatrick · Answer

No i believe you should defend your child from danger, ur pet, your house. But a significant other from a fling? This is offensive. If they r ready to stoop that low then they better get out of my life

Stressyalaire · Answer

No, it means that her approach is working, or he's into that type of person more. It's a crush. He isn't mine.

Samantha36 · Answer

Nope. As long as she is attractive with a nice body, he can look and talk to her. And maybe ill ask him to bring her home

dragoblack · Answer

Slightly, but i don't act on those emotions, nor focus on them. Women are people, not objects to win or say are ones own. Women will choose who they way to be with.

RavVid · Answer

My hackles go up. I don't think so much jealousy but anger.

tzdc21 · Answer

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Depends on the situation for me and how big of a crush I have on that person.

katiesmuff · Answer

No he has never given me any reason to become jealous.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not like super jealous but I do get pissed if a girl like blatantly flirts with him

exitseven · Answer

Yes, and I would not think twice about giving somebody a proper beat down either.

sheikalana · Answer

Yes, I do especially when they pretend that they don't know he's married.

justabuddy · Answer

I use to... I guess now I have a little more inner peace.

Massageman · Answer

Let them push their luck if they dare - - - -

Alex-Snow · Answer

I don't have a girlfriend right now but I never got jealous when I did

Sharkstealth · Answer

I can until I know them better. I feel like I lost them already. It can happen that quickly.

kakaling · Answer

For me, if I'm jealous, I feel hurt. If she is my partner, I'll let her know she hurt me.

Christoff92 · Answer

Naw. I don't care. She's loyal to me. That's what really matters.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No I don't get jealous. I'm not the jealous type. I trust my wife

Gochogirl · Answer

Yeah but I like the feeling of jealousy and my relationships are set up so that I feel secure even if they go off and sleep with someone else.

driven159 · Answer

Jealousy is a bad emotion serves no good reason to have it

OddBeMe · Answer

Nah, take my wife off my back and I’ll pay you. Lol

Reorx · Answer

Not at all, I'm wasting my time if i can't trust her.

JP_Man · Answer

Yes, big time! I'm not into sharing and I have a hard time when I see other men actively flirting with my SO.

ibrayaz · Answer

Actually thats the way for me to learn if ı had a crush on someone.

_vali · Answer

Yea i get jealous sometimes, but I don’t do anything about it …. Sooner or later it’ll die off haha

dolemite58 · Answer

not really, if it’s meant to be then it’s meant to be.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I never get jealous.

Billlewis · Answer

Yes, but it's a good jealous.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Of course lol.

GOLDFISH_smile · Answer

Am not the jealous type no.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Been there many times.

spartan55 · Answer

Jealousy is a waste, and an emotion I don't have.

YourLatinLover · Answer

I’m a very jealous woman jaja

AutisticLonelyWoman · Answer

Honestly yes.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Nope. They are either with me or they aren't.

boobliker · Answer

no, but I do tell her what I saw latter

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, sometimes.

PointTaken · Answer

Yeah I do. And it shows.

Staximus · Answer

I'm a jealous bastard

imfreeze95 · Answer

I would definitely get jealous

Jerre · Answer

No, I do not get jealous

Laura131 · Answer

Nope.

msc545 · Answer

no...

Jazzy54 · Answer

Nope. Why should I?

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope

LavLavLuv · Answer

Tbh.. Nope

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

Fuentes · Answer

No lol

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