Is pale skin unattractive to you? (Page 2)

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I'm self conscious about my skin color. I am pretty pale, and I don't tan that easily. What makes it worse is that I have dark brown hair, I'm the literal complete opposite of the beauty standard here in Sweden. No guys are interested in me, and I think it's mostly because of my hair color and skin tone. I look like a nerd they present in movies. Pale skin, dark brown hair, brown eyes, glasses and a few pimples. (They aren't really visible though) Guys in Sweden are very picky, and their type is tan skin, blue eyes and blonde hair. I've noticed that Asian people think I look good, but it's because where they are from pale skin is the beauty standard. There's so many blue eyed, tanned skin, blonde hair girls here. I see them everywhere I look, it's impossible for me to compete with them. They get all the guys. So, is pale skin unattractive to you?@

VikingWarLord · Answer

You just move to where you are desired.  There are tons of beta male simps here in America that would worship the ground you walk on... I'm not joking

HawkPerception · Answer

Tan skin looks healthier. Pale skin looks sickly, but it can still look attractive depending on the girl

DoyoutriponLove9898 · Answer

It can look good on some others suit a tan more it depends on the person

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not at all. It's just skin. I PREFER tans but, if you don't have one, so be it! I'll still be your boyfriend if that's what you want.

Berethor · Answer

I agree with Asians on that, I prefer a pale skin, now not being blond is more of a miss. :)

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Nah I like my pale skin. My husband also prefers it very pale.

Adronicus · Answer

Yes, I enjoy tanning & like my girl too as well. I'll admit my intentions are not 100% sincere:) & I have some ulterior motives.

demonics · Answer

Its just really off putting on a subconscious level. My brain tells me she looks sickly, like she's been bed-ridden her entire life.

PatriceONeal · Answer

Tanning is fashionable in the states, not so much in Asian counties. They bleach their skin to be more white and we tan to be more beige. 🙊

glassdunes · Answer

find clothes that compliment your skin tone. That is hot

exitseven · Answer

Pale skin is not unattractive but I gotta say I think you look better with the tan.

HaveNoName · Answer

It does look unhealthy and unattractive and it looks older than the age which gets worse with time; yet I am NOT for tanning.

loveslongnails · Answer

No, pale skin all by itself isn't a detracting factor, but the rest of the woman that it is ON might be! That's what makes her attractive or not.

Anonymous · Answer

I really like women with pale skin there is something really attractive about it. there's almost like a lightness to itz it always looks really soft and silky but also bright and shiny if that makes any sense.

dolemite89 · Answer

i usually go for more tan but i don’t care if a girl is a bit more pale, i prefer darker hair to blondes too. I’d just be patient if i were u, u’ll find a guy that likes ur type.

Massageman · Answer

It's not UN attractive to me, just that I prefer seeing skin that does have a tan.

007kingifrit · Answer

no i like it much better, and i'll let you in on a secret... people who don't tan age MUCH SLOWER at 50 you'll still look 30

Pohjolan · Answer

Skin colour isn't really a good indicator of how a long term relationship would work out.

Sparkie460 · Answer

You look beautiful in both pictures. It doesn't matter if you're pail , lightly tan or dark tanned

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Well, irelanders get married, right? They're pretty pale

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