Is it wrong that I'm not attracted to guys shorter than me?

[Anonymous]

[Cherry234]

Not at all. Try not to let people make you feel bad about it. I actually struggled with this not too long ago (about 2 years ago). If I happen to like a guy who's slightly shorter than me (like an inch) I would give him a chance but I'm not going to date someone 5 inches shorter than me or a dwarf because I can't force myself to be attracted to someone I'm not. Attraction is something that's natural and you shouldn't force it. It's better to not get involved with people you're not attracted to because it won't be fair to you or them and you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

[Asker]

You're so right, thank you for sharing.

[Cherry234]

You’re welcome

[D_Bone_Steak]

Isn't it common knowledge that females don't find guys shorter than them attractive?

It's biological. A male lion has genes that push him to become bigger, while the lioness's genes suppress that gene due to having multiple cubs. A liger on the other hand (male lion mixed with a female tiger) is fucking huge. The female tiger doesn't have that gene because they usually only give birth to one cub. So this brings me back to humans...

There's a reason you wouldn't want a little short guy, a very weak, or a very dumb guy. Because the result if you had a boy, would be a very short, weak, and dumb kid. That's not advantageous to our species.

[Asker]

Alright thank you!

[OlderAndWiser]

It is neither right not wrong. It is just the way you are. If you are not attracted to guys shorter than you, that is not something you selected for yourself and it is not something you can change. It is just a part of who you are.

[Asker]

Thanks! I feel bad.

[_deeznuts]

lmao some of the guys here got really offended for some reason but yeah its not wrong at all, its just personal preference.

[Asker]

Well, you can't please everyone and you can't control whom you're attracted to.

[_deeznuts]

yeah

[Berethor]

Guys are on average taller than girls, it's a masculine trait, so your attraction make sense.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

Alright thanks.

[OfDeath]

It's a little bit patronizing and arrogant. Think of it this way: imagine a man who has your dream body, hair, eyes and face (job, wealth, social status) now imagine he was shrunk down to the size of one of those little dolls children play with. Is he no longer attractive?

[Asker]

If he's 1 feet tall how would I have sex with him?

[OfDeath]

But is he still attractive?

[Asker]

We're talking about an unrealistic 1 feet. 1 FEET.

[OfDeath]

But, is he still attractive?

[Asker]

Yes he is.

[Graci_e]

No not at all. It’s normal, even most guys much prefer girls shorter than them. Having preferences is okay.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!

[Graci_e]

All good!

[Markm3212]

no you are free to like who you want to like. i like taller ladies as i am quite tall. i just think it would look silly dating someone over a ft smaller than me.

[Asker]

That's cool! It's good that there's tall men out there for the tall ladies.

[Markm3212]

oh plenty dont you worry. i know lots of guys that like taller women

[Asker]

That's very cool!

[Markm3212]

so if you dont mind me asking, how tall are you?

[Asker]

5'4, I'm average. My ideal height for a guy is like 5'7. What about you?

[Markm3212]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 im 6ft2 so not massive, but tall shall we say.

[Asker]

You're tall sure!

[Faith18letsgo]

Yeah I mean it’s inconvenient for you because a lot of sexy fun guys are short but I wouldn’t get morally worked up about it. I think people can have not PC attraction standards and that’s fine.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[Faith18letsgo]

Of course!

[Reaper1985]

most girls find guys who are shorter then them unattractive. but it's the ones who only want a guy 6 foot or taller that could run into an issue. since only about 20% of the male population in the whole world are over 6 foot.

[Asker]

You're right, and I don't expect a man to be 6'0 and over, as long as he's taller than me it's fine. I'm 5'4 so if he's 5'5 it's all good.

[Whatever2929292]

Is it weird? No. You have preferences. As long as you don't judge their value as human biengs. Some women don't care while others even like shorter guys.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome

[abc3643]

While it is not "wrong" at all and many women feel the same way as you, excluding such guys may prevent you from getting into an excellent relationship with someone that you would genuinely love.

[Asker]

Yeah I know, I would date a short guy if I liked him as a person. The problem is that I'm not attracted to him. (Because of his height)

[abc3643]

And that's understandable.

[Screenwriter]

Biological perspective. Females think a man who is larger and stronger than herself is a protector and is biologically superior.

[Asker]

Really? That makes sense, thank youfor sharing!

[Screenwriter]

It's all about having a protector for your childrearing years. Procreationwise.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Of course not. Nor should you ever feel the need to ask such a thing.

[Asker]

Okay thank you:)

[TommyMountainFigure]

Welcome.

[Kaamraj]

Nope, attraction cannot be negotiated with. Women on the vast majority are sexually attracted to men who are taller than them.

[Asker]

You're right!

[Chazmatazz269]

No. We’re all entitled to our own preferences. It’s only wrong when people shame others for their preferences.

[Asker]

Yeah!

[MCheetah]

It's not wrong, as long as you accept they can be shallow back to you.

[Asker]

You're right!

[MikeInHawaii]

It seems normal. I had a woman who was 5’ 1” say her last boyfriend was 6’ 5” and wanted someone that tall. She has eliminated 99% of men with that one requirement.

[Asker]

I don't want a guy over 6'0, I'm 5'4 so as long as he's at least 5'5 I'm good.

[loveslongnails]

No, "types" of attractions are neither wrong nor right, unless you're attracted to children (sexually). That's definitely wrong!

[Asker]

Yep!

[Xoirwinkan]

I'd say that's nearly an innate thing for women, pretty much like the opposite for men. For me, I really think a short girl is cute, like an energetic little pixie.

[Asker]

How short?🤔

[Xoirwinkan]

Maybe around 158 cm

[Part2603]

I dunno, why don't you ask your feminist professor if it's wrong that I don't fuck fat chicks?

[Asker]

I don't have a professor, but no it isn't wrong that you're not attracted to fat girls. I'm not attracted to fat guys either so yeah.

[JustinTheGreat]

Nope. Everyone has their preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that

[Asker]

Thank you! ❤️

[Anonymous]

Not as long as you don't complain about your smaller dating pool. You chose to make it smaller. Personally I'll never understand a woman's attraction to height. I'm well over 6 feet and I wouldn't date a woman with a height requirement.

[Asker]

I don't need a guy who's over 6' , as long as he's taller than me it's fine. I'm 5'4, so if he's 5'5 it's all good.

[Opinion Owner]

The height isn't relevant. It's the fact that he has to be taller than you that I find comical.

[Asker]

Women biologically want a guy who's taller than them just like men biologically want a woman who's shorter than them, women with a big butt, women who are young, women with a high pitched voice and so on.

[Opinion Owner]

Your making all kinds of assumptions that have no basis in fact just your own opinion. I don't care what height a woman is. I've been attracted to women as short as 4'11 and as tall as 6'8". And most the women I've been attracted to have ironically had lower voices. I love Emma stone's voice for example.

[Asker]

That's subjective I guess, but the average man likes the things I mentioned before.
I happen to be an average woman, and the average woman is attracted to guys taller than her.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, the avg man in your mind... or maybe you just like average guy. :::shrugs::::🤣

[wowop99266]

That is literally the most consistant thing in a woman's behavior. As a short man myself I just block women on social media that are taller than me because I already know the answer.

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[wowop99266]

5'5.

[Asker]

You're still taller than me, and there's lots of girls who are shorter than you. Go to Thailand or the Philippines, the women there are like 4'11 on average.

[wowop99266]

So because of my height I'm supposed to focus on women smaller than me...

[Asker]

Isn't that what all guys do? Even tall men.

[wowop99266]

I don't know what most guys do, but I've never cared at all about height, but I've felt forced to change that because it's always the women taller than me that make it the biggest issue.