Is it wrong that I'm not attracted to guys shorter than me?

[Anonymous]

[Cherry234]

Not at all. Try not to let people make you feel bad about it. I actually struggled with this not too long ago (about 2 years ago). If I happen to like a guy who's slightly shorter than me (like an inch) I would give him a chance but I'm not going to date someone 5 inches shorter than me or a dwarf because I can't force myself to be attracted to someone I'm not. Attraction is something that's natural and you shouldn't force it. It's better to not get involved with people you're not attracted to because it won't be fair to you or them and you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

[Asker]

You're so right, thank you for sharing.

[Cherry234]

You’re welcome

[D_Bone_Steak]

Isn't it common knowledge that females don't find guys shorter than them attractive?

It's biological. A male lion has genes that push him to become bigger, while the lioness's genes suppress that gene due to having multiple cubs. A liger on the other hand (male lion mixed with a female tiger) is fucking huge. The female tiger doesn't have that gene because they usually only give birth to one cub. So this brings me back to humans...

There's a reason you wouldn't want a little short guy, a very weak, or a very dumb guy. Because the result if you had a boy, would be a very short, weak, and dumb kid. That's not advantageous to our species.

[Asker]

Alright thank you!

[OlderAndWiser]

It is neither right not wrong. It is just the way you are. If you are not attracted to guys shorter than you, that is not something you selected for yourself and it is not something you can change. It is just a part of who you are.

[Asker]

Thanks! I feel bad.

[_deeznuts]

lmao some of the guys here got really offended for some reason but yeah its not wrong at all, its just personal preference.

[Asker]

Well, you can't please everyone and you can't control whom you're attracted to.

[_deeznuts]

yeah

[Berethor]

Guys are on average taller than girls, it's a masculine trait, so your attraction make sense.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

Alright thanks.

[OfDeath]

It's a little bit patronizing and arrogant. Think of it this way: imagine a man who has your dream body, hair, eyes and face (job, wealth, social status) now imagine he was shrunk down to the size of one of those little dolls children play with. Is he no longer attractive?

[Asker]

If he's 1 feet tall how would I have sex with him?

[OfDeath]

But is he still attractive?

[Asker]

We're talking about an unrealistic 1 feet. 1 FEET.

[OfDeath]

But, is he still attractive?

[Asker]

Yes he is.

[Graci_e]

No not at all. It’s normal, even most guys much prefer girls shorter than them. Having preferences is okay.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!

[Graci_e]

All good!

[Markm3212]

no you are free to like who you want to like. i like taller ladies as i am quite tall. i just think it would look silly dating someone over a ft smaller than me.

[Asker]

That's cool! It's good that there's tall men out there for the tall ladies.

[Markm3212]

oh plenty dont you worry. i know lots of guys that like taller women

[Asker]

That's very cool!

[Markm3212]

so if you dont mind me asking, how tall are you?

[Asker]

5'4, I'm average. My ideal height for a guy is like 5'7. What about you?

[Markm3212]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 im 6ft2 so not massive, but tall shall we say.

[Asker]

You're tall sure!

[Faith18letsgo]

Yeah I mean it’s inconvenient for you because a lot of sexy fun guys are short but I wouldn’t get morally worked up about it. I think people can have not PC attraction standards and that’s fine.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[Faith18letsgo]

Of course!

[Reaper1985]

most girls find guys who are shorter then them unattractive. but it's the ones who only want a guy 6 foot or taller that could run into an issue. since only about 20% of the male population in the whole world are over 6 foot.

[Asker]

You're right, and I don't expect a man to be 6'0 and over, as long as he's taller than me it's fine. I'm 5'4 so if he's 5'5 it's all good.

[Whatever2929292]

Is it weird? No. You have preferences. As long as you don't judge their value as human biengs. Some women don't care while others even like shorter guys.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome

[abc3643]

While it is not "wrong" at all and many women feel the same way as you, excluding such guys may prevent you from getting into an excellent relationship with someone that you would genuinely love.

[Asker]

Yeah I know, I would date a short guy if I liked him as a person. The problem is that I'm not attracted to him. (Because of his height)

[abc3643]

And that's understandable.

[Chazmatazz269]

No. We’re all entitled to our own preferences. It’s only wrong when people shame others for their preferences.

[Asker]

Yeah!

[Screenwriter]

Biological perspective. Females think a man who is larger and stronger than herself is a protector and is biologically superior.

[Asker]

Really? That makes sense, thank youfor sharing!

[Screenwriter]

It's all about having a protector for your childrearing years. Procreationwise.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Of course not. Nor should you ever feel the need to ask such a thing.

[Asker]

Okay thank you:)

[TommyMountainFigure]

Welcome.

[Kaamraj]

Nope, attraction cannot be negotiated with. Women on the vast majority are sexually attracted to men who are taller than them.

[Asker]

You're right!

[MCheetah]

It's not wrong, as long as you accept they can be shallow back to you.

[Asker]

You're right!

[MikeInHawaii]

It seems normal. I had a woman who was 5’ 1” say her last boyfriend was 6’ 5” and wanted someone that tall. She has eliminated 99% of men with that one requirement.

[Asker]

I don't want a guy over 6'0, I'm 5'4 so as long as he's at least 5'5 I'm good.

[loveslongnails]

No, "types" of attractions are neither wrong nor right, unless you're attracted to children (sexually). That's definitely wrong!

[Asker]

Yep!

[Xoirwinkan]

I'd say that's nearly an innate thing for women, pretty much like the opposite for men. For me, I really think a short girl is cute, like an energetic little pixie.

[Asker]

How short?🤔

[Xoirwinkan]

Maybe around 158 cm

[Part2603]

I dunno, why don't you ask your feminist professor if it's wrong that I don't fuck fat chicks?

[Asker]

I don't have a professor, but no it isn't wrong that you're not attracted to fat girls. I'm not attracted to fat guys either so yeah.

[JustinTheGreat]

Nope. Everyone has their preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that

[Asker]

Thank you! ❤️

[Anonymous]

Not as long as you don't complain about your smaller dating pool. You chose to make it smaller. Personally I'll never understand a woman's attraction to height. I'm well over 6 feet and I wouldn't date a woman with a height requirement.

[Asker]

I don't need a guy who's over 6' , as long as he's taller than me it's fine. I'm 5'4, so if he's 5'5 it's all good.

[Opinion Owner]

The height isn't relevant. It's the fact that he has to be taller than you that I find comical.

[Asker]

Women biologically want a guy who's taller than them just like men biologically want a woman who's shorter than them, women with a big butt, women who are young, women with a high pitched voice and so on.

[Opinion Owner]

Your making all kinds of assumptions that have no basis in fact just your own opinion. I don't care what height a woman is. I've been attracted to women as short as 4'11 and as tall as 6'8". And most the women I've been attracted to have ironically had lower voices. I love Emma stone's voice for example.

[Asker]

That's subjective I guess, but the average man likes the things I mentioned before.
I happen to be an average woman, and the average woman is attracted to guys taller than her.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, the avg man in your mind... or maybe you just like average guy. :::shrugs::::🤣

[wowop99266]

That is literally the most consistant thing in a woman's behavior. As a short man myself I just block women on social media that are taller than me because I already know the answer.

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[wowop99266]

5'5.

[Asker]

You're still taller than me, and there's lots of girls who are shorter than you. Go to Thailand or the Philippines, the women there are like 4'11 on average.

[wowop99266]

So because of my height I'm supposed to focus on women smaller than me...

[Asker]

Isn't that what all guys do? Even tall men.

[wowop99266]

I don't know what most guys do, but I've never cared at all about height, but I've felt forced to change that because it's always the women taller than me that make it the biggest issue.

[007kingifrit]

that's probably normal, just remember your attractiveness drops exponentially every year after 22, so you better find a lifelong mate before you run out of looks if you're going to be picky

[Asker]

I know that, my dad told me the same thing. Women are beautiful for a short period of time. I don't have high standards for a guy's height. I'm 5'4 so if he's at least 5'5 I'm okay.

[FinneasWilson]

Nope, I wouldn't date someone shorter or younger than me. It's a preference everyone has one. 🙂

[Asker]

That's unique, and cool!

[KatherineJ]

It’s not wrong to be attracted to certain physical attributes.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[GurlMaster40]

No it’s just your preference. You preference is your preference so don’t let others tell u it’s wrong. Also, I kinda am into taller guys myself so ur not alone lol.

[Asker]

Thanks!!

[crmoore]

No. There is nothing wrong about having physical preferences.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[crmoore]

No problem 🙂👍

[bootieclapper9000]

and I feel bad for them
cause some of them are good men

but I cannot force women to be attracted to them

[Asker]

Of course, I could be with a man shorter than me if I liked his personality. But I wouldn't be attracted to him.

[AndrewAzul]

Nah, not at all, everyone likes what they like, nothing to be ashamed about.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Creampiekarl420]

No because you’re young you have time get married young or the tables will be turned when your 40

[Asker]

Yep!

[constantine15]

I mean, so does every other girl. It’s just the ways it is.

[Asker]

Yeah! But I am 5'4, as long as he is at least 5'4/5 or taller I'm fine with being with him.

[constantine15]

What is your ideal height for a guy?

[Asker]

It's 5'7 honestly, I feel like that's the perfect height in a guy for me. No too tall, not too short. Just perfect.

[constantine15]

Thanks

[bamesjond0069]

Nope. Im not attracted to girls taller than me so you're fine.

[Asker]

Alright thank you!

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Asker]

Well I would date a guy under 6'0. I'm not attracted to guys SHORTER than me. I'm 5'4 so if he's at least 5'5 I'm good.

[manfromsomewhere3]

Not wrong. Its you're taste. Tho as a short ( not too short, but short guy), i wish more taller ladies would be attrackted to me.

[Asker]

How tall are you? Because I could be attracted to a guy who's 5'5 since I am 5'4. As long as he's taller than me it's okay, he doesn't have to be 6'0.

[manfromsomewhere3]

Im about 5'7. I think its about 1.68m

[Asker]

5'7 is 171 cm, I'm from Europe so the measurements I use is actually cm.

[manfromsomewhere3]

Ah nice. So im about 1.68M maybe you want to chat?

[Asker]

Well I don't think I can since you're 11 years older than me.

[H8INCHES]

Who you are attracted to is completely your concern. No one has any right to question it.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!!

[boldlyblu]

No! I'm not attracted to anyone same size as me.

[Asker]

That's understandable.

[Shamalien]

Nice cock

[insteadfew]

What's your height and weight

[Asker]

@insteadfew I'm 5'4 and 49 kg I think.

[insteadfew]

@asker so you'd be ok and comfortable if a man was 5'5 and 55 kgs?

[SeekingVirginWife]

That's good since I am attracted to white skinny virgin pure blooded women.

[Asker]

Everyone has their preferences🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

As a short petite man i feel bad... but it's okBTW what is your height

[Asker]

Don't be sad, as long as the guy is taller than me it's fine. He doesn't have to be considered tall, just taller than me.
I am5'4, how tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

I am 5'4

[Flower7]

No, not wrong. That’s a pretty normal preference.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Sonorous]

Wrong? No fuckin idea.

Natural? Yeah.

[Asker]

That's cool!

[Sonorous]

Not for the short guys 👄

[Asker]

It's not like they'd want me anyways lmfao

[Sonorous]

There are way too many of us bipedal hominids runnin around for that to be accurate

[Asker]

Lmao you're funny

[Sonorous]

Thanks derlin, here's my autograph

[Bratsondanielle]

Nope 🙅🏻 it is normal

[Asker]

Phew!

[sheikalana]

You're not wrong it's your preference.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[smilelots]

no its ok to like what you like

[Asker]

Alrighty.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. You can't help what you are attracted to.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[FilmGuy93]

Sure thing! You shouldn't be mean or reproachful when guys you don't find attractive try to talk with you, but yeah; don't be ashamed of liking what you like.

[skyeee_]

personal preference matters :v

[Asker]

Thank you!

[lauraanne02]

It's kind of pathetic tbh

[Asker]

Why?

[lauraanne02]

Height should be a deciding factor

[Asker]

Okay

[glassdunes]

I'm pissed, but there are other women

[Asker]

I'm sorry if I offended you. I am 5'4, as long as the guy is at least 5'5 I'm attracted to him.

[Wise4myage]

No, its like that for most girls.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Speak for yourself ha

[Asker]

Yep!

[RuthlessAggression]

very, since it shows how shallow you really are

[Asker]

How do I change my attraction towards short men? How can I make myself attracted to them?

[RuthlessAggression]

Don't be shallow?

You're basing your attraction off of how someone looks, not their character

[Asker]

It's not that easy to force myself to be attracted to someone I'm not. Sex wouldn't be enjoyable. I mean you wouldn't be attracted to a girl 200 pounds overweight, taller than you, dyed rainbow hair, no ass no boobs. Should I tell you that you're shallow for not being attracted to her? Should I force you to have sex bmwith her even though you're not attracted to her?

[RuthlessAggression]

Who said i wouldn't be attracted to that, simply because "smaller is popular"

[PatriceONeal]

Depends how tall you are

[Asker]

I'm 5'4, as long a the guy is at least 5'5 I'm fine.

[USLegionary]

Perfectly natural.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[BLP11520]

It shouldn't matter, live your life

[Asker]

Thanks!

[SpaceGalaxy]

no, it is not it is your preference

[Asker]

Ok thank you!

[Jouth]

No. You can't choose who you're attracted to

[Asker]

Thanks!

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s a preference.

[Asker]

You're right.

[Marianna546]

Not at all LOL

[Asker]

Phew!

[iamnash]

Nope I feel the same

[Asker]

Alright!

[insteadfew]

How tall are you

[Asker]

@insteadfew 5'4

[kastra]

No fullstop.

[Asker]

Thanks.

[driven159]

Its your preference

[Asker]

Thanks!

[mrlongdongsiilver]

no u like who u like

[Asker]

Thanks!

[treatercollins25]

No its okay

[Asker]

Thanks!

[888theGreat]

You should be doing other things

[Asker]

Like what?