Do you think it makes me shallow if I don’t want to date a guy shorter than me?

[Anonymous]

To be honest I don’t want a guy who is a lot taller than me either.

I just prefer the guy I am dating to be a little bit taller than me. Maybe like around 10cm taller.

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3 mo

By the way height is not the only aspect I pay attention to when it comes to dating and relationships. It’s just one aspects. There are other things I find important as well like hygiene, personality and how his face looks.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think it's normal. I mean I don't exactly want a chick taller than me either.

I think the short kangz out there just get pissed off because their shorter options sometimes completely reject them for absurdly tall other options. For example...

I'm around 5'10" or 178cm I guess, and I've felt that myself. I mean seriously I've been straight up rejected for being too short by the likes of girls that are 4'10"/148cm despite the fact that they've seen my pictures and already said how sexy I am. It's honestly brought me moments of setting back in my chair and thinking "WTF?"

Maybe it's just the woman brain being stuck on numbers. Like I don't mention I'm 200lbs. to women because they almost auto-assume I'm a fat fuck based on the numbers.

Me at 200+ pounds

[ohsheeT]

No not even look, you want what you want for a reason? And there's nothing wrong with that. You don't need to settle.
Think about what you want. Put it out there in the universe. Be positive about it and it will come to you

[HawkPerception]

It's not shallow in the slightest. It's fine to have preferences. Women generally prefer taller and men generally prefer shorter.

[Anonymous]

No more than it makes a guy shallow to not want to date a woman FATTER than him. Do you think that makes him shallow?

I mean I'm well over 6 feet and to me it's a turnoff when a woman says a guy has to be at least. But I don't begrudge her for it. I just wouldn't want to date her.👍

[HighValue]

It's fine, just like it is fine for tall, attractive guys with options to not date women past 30, fat, with tattoos, nose rings, a promiscuous past, has kids, etc.

[slatyb]

No, you like what you like. Date whoever you please. No one else gets a vote. But one day you may meet a man who isn't the right height but you can't pass him up.

[Berethor]

What height are you? who care if it shallow? a guy being shorter than a girl is unmasculine.

[Asker]

172cm

[Berethor]

I am 180cm, you pretty tall for a girl, I can see why you meeting guys who are shorter.

[Clear_Skies10]

Dating is the most shallow thing in the world, but it is what it is. I only like women that I think are cute.

[Orion84]

I don't think that makes you shallow, no. It's just your preference. Everyone has preferences; it's perfectly normal.

[zagor]

How tall are you? If you are 6 feet tall then yes you are really limiting yourself. If you are 5 feet tall then it is understandable.

[Asker]

172cm last time I checked

[zagor]

Then you are probably OK as avg. height for men is about 10 cm over that.

[WhiteThought]

A little bit, but it's normal to be a bit shallow. At the end of the day, you cannot control what you are attracted to.

[mrkdvsn]

You ultimately have the right and privilege to date anyone you want for any reason, or NOT date anyone you want for any reason

[Anonymous]

No. Everyone has their preferences. There are certain things I would avoid too.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, a bit. As you are not as focused on who the guy is personality wise and more about his height.

[jahaims]

That's just a preference

[Pterodon]

No but it can limit your choices