Is having been with 20 women a lot for a man in his mid 20s?

[Anonymous]

[RACSKC0B]

Quality over Quantity.
If a guy has sex with 100 women by his mid 20s, it's not that cool if 98 of them agree that he is bad at it.
If you don't bother to learn what it takes to make each of however many women you've slept with get off fully, then it doesn't really matter. Disappointing any women in bed is easy, and lying about your dick size, or how good you can give it to them just to get in their pants isn't much more challenging. You're just one of probably thousands that would happily do that.
So sure, if you want someone to tell you it's a lot, then sure, good for you.
Keep going.
I guess.
But it's not a competition, I know dudes act like it is, but I promise it's not.
And even if it was, do you really think that the number of women a guy has sex with would really be the thing that matters?
I'm pretty sure women would probably want to base the winner on something else.

[ChrisMaster69]

Depends on country and social background more than anything.

that’s like a 2 week holiday in Ibiza

[Asker]

Why would it depend on country and social background?

It’s like if I asked “is murder bad for someone to have done a lot of in their 20s”

And then answering “depends on country and social background.”

[ChrisMaster69]

Okay.

Bible Belt USA, do you get many people fucking around?

Pick an inner city area in New York, high social deprivation, do you have more or less people fucking around than in Bible Belt?

[ChrisMaster69]

[ChrisMaster69]

I would hazard a guess the US is not as bad.

Age of consent is 16 here, which really means 16 plus or minus 2 years.

This is why I mentioned country and social background.

Posh kids don’t usually fuck around as much

[Asker]

It wouldn’t matter if you think about what I said.

No matter your background, I think 20 for a man in his mid 20s is a lot of women to have been with.

Yes, what you’re talking about are factors that can influence different levels of sexual activity amongst people, but it still doesn’t change the fact that 20 women for a man in his mid 20s just seems like an objectively high amount of people to have been with at that age.

[ChrisMaster69]

Its low though, especially if military

Basic school maths between 2 and 4 girls per year, would be closer to 4 from 16 onwards, as you have under 18 ‘night club’ etc.

Basic recruit training is around 6 as everyone is fucking everyone else.

Then trade training, and similar ish

Then on to Squadron and detachment to Denmark for a month, that’s usually a bit of a fuck fest and swap n change a fair bit, admittedly it’s also time when most STD’s are caught.

That’s obviously leaving out 3 somes etc.

[Asker]

So, you really think it’s low?

[ChrisMaster69]

Just from a general thing with guys I know and worked with.

It’s like doing 8 months in Al Udeid, there were so many American girls there and just about everyone was up for it with both Brits and Aussies. A couple of our engineers went through more than 20 each just in that 8 months.

[Asker]

You’re perhaps talking about more of an isolated group of people.

Definitely not a generalizable thing.

Just expand your viewpoint more outside the box into something more general.

For example, I know a lot of people who train hand to hand combat. These people are quite proficient in it.

Now, polls/surveys done on this would show the majority of people actually don’t train formally in hand to hand combat, let alone are proficient in it.

So, do you see what I mean?

[ChrisMaster69]

Again that’s where culture comes in.

Newcastle is one of the main party cities in Europe and figures in a lot of world top ten places,

One of reasons is it’s a load of fun, great night life and sex.

There is none of this body count stuff going on.

You ask someone here, a lot will shrug their shoulders, no one really cares.

[Asker]

That’s like saying murder/warfare is normal for children when examining certain parts of Africa where child soldiers exist

Ask anyone if murder/warfare is normal for children.

Generally, speaking, no.

Even in the whole country of Africa, it wouldn’t be until you zoom in very close and find pockets where child soldiers exist.

Do you see now?

[ChrisMaster69]

it’s like it’s not normal to ever hear about anyone being shot as such, maybe say ever 5 years or something.
Shootings are exceptionally rare.

[EllaNella]

i think it probably depends on where you're from/ how conservative and religious you were raised.

i know people in their mid-20s who had sex with more than 20 other people and honestly no one cares here. the amount of passed partners isn't even something people consider


however in more religious or conservative areas it could be a huge dealbreaker i guess

[LazerBean]

Depends on if you has sex with them, and if you were in actual mutually acknowledged and defines relationships, or if you just went out on a date or two with them.

[Asker]

Sex.

[LazerBean]

Oh okay, then yeah you're gross.

[Asker]

Why would it be gross?

[LazerBean]

Bc hoes are gross

[Asker]

Hmm, if you say so.

[CallMeLes]

There is no "a lot" provided it was safe, consensual and honest in how you felt about them so they could decide whether or not to do it with you with all facts in view.

[AviatorTom]

That's a lot. Assuming you didn't become sexually active until mid-teens, that's 2 women a year, not exactly indicative of any long-term relationships.

[Daniela1982]

Not to a woman that has had 50. It just depends if you want to have sex with all the people they have had sex with.

[JohnK123]

Damn 50?

[Daniela1982]

@JohnK123 Just a number from my hat. Can you imagine how many a prostitute racks up?

[JohnK123]

No ide

[JamesDiaz11]

It's probably in the top 20%. I'm at somewhere between 45/50 at this point; so, I'm guessing I'm getting up their with the hedonists.

[blissinanarchy1]

Depends where you were raised. In the inner city, 15 is considered low for a girl our age. And you know women are criticized much more heavily. Suburbs? Maybe anything double digits.

[KelleyNice]

That is a huge numberf or an average guy; in fact it may be impossible. However, it is a low number for men in the top 5%.

[EllaNella]

you're 13

[Avicenna]

Not really, especially not for a guy who's been in the military

[Asker]

Why is that?

[Avicenna]

Aren't you in the military? You should know exactly what I'm talking about.

[Asker]

Why don’t you just tell me? I may know or not

[Avicenna]

Young guys away from their families come into contact with lots of young women who are attracted to them so it's normal for them to bang as many as they can

[Asker]

Attracted to them because they are military men?

[Avicenna]

Yeah. Haven't you had this experience?

[HawkPerception]

I've only been with 3 girls sexually at 28, so I'd say yeah it's a pretty big number.

[SaoirseS]

Yes it makes you a whore and a slut.

[Asker]

Well, I don’t know about that.

[SaoirseS]

I do.

[SiberFox]

She's right though

[DarkWinterNights]

Yeah that’s far above average for a guy in his 20’s.

[Pudsmucker]

When I was in my early twenty. I had been with three or four women a day. By the time I was 21, I had been with 100 women.

[bamesjond0069]

Not really. Seems like normal to me for an attractive social guy.

[LilyoftheLake]

Definitely on the high end.

[SaartjieJane]

That is a lot yeah…a lot in my opinion

[Bratsondanielle]

Not at all. It's totally normal

[poneglyphs]

I had zero women and I'm 27 not normal

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[Bratsondanielle]

@poneglyphs nah you should have at least had some serious sex at 27

[poneglyphs]

Yeah but I don't at all.

@Bratsondanielle

[Bratsondanielle]

@poneglyphs Danm bruh... go get a couple bitches

[poneglyphs]

Eiser said than done, most bitches ignore me or ghost me

@Bratsondanielle

[Bratsondanielle]

@poneglyphs damn bruh

[poneglyphs]

Si, yeah my DM's are empty as fuck and I never brought a girl to my room 🥺

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[Bratsondanielle]

@poneglyphs dang bro

[fonduegirl]

The number doesn't matter, the reasons do

[zagor]

Not exceptionally.

[Caramelpie]

Turn off.

[JohnK123]

Ikrr

[madetostroke]

thats dumb lol