He only texts me every Saturday same time, no other days of the week. Is it bad that he doesn’t reach out more (we work together by the way)?

[Anonymous]

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We work remote. So we haven’t met in person just yet. He asked me about my plans for Friday to meet up though. The texting pattern though... is he playing the field? He genuinely seemed into me and said I’m hilarious and make his day and stuff.

[Ryle96]

Yes he’s not interested in nothing more.

[Asker]

We’re supposed to meet for drinks in person this Friday. He doesn’t live in same city as me so he’s coming here.

[Ryle96]

I hope it goes well.

[Ryle96]

Try start off being friends and see where that leads.

[Asker]

Well he’d text me same time every single Saturday. We work together so like what would we talk about during the week? He tells me I’m hilarious and that I make his day and stuff like that. He seems interested when we talk. Anyway, should I drop him if he’s only texting me once a week then?

[Ryle96]

Plenty to talk about but it’s up to you. Tell him how you feel. That’s a automatic red flag for me.

[Asker]

Usually it would be for me too. However we’re only in the talking stage and couldn’t possibly physically go on a date since he’s not in town. If he’s not serious though I guess I’ll let him go.

[Ryle96]

Good move.

[Asker]

Can I ask why you don’t think he’s interested in anything more? Just because he texts only once a week on Saturdays.

[Asker]

We haven’t established that we’re even dating. He didn’t even think I liked him.

[Ryle96]

Yes because communication is off.

[Ryle96]

When still y’all should at least talk more than once out of a week.

[Asker]

Well I texted him first once last week and once week before that. So technically we talked twice a week before. I didn’t reach out to him this week and instead waited for him to.

[Ryle96]

Wish the luck.