The guy i've been seeing texts me only once a week or once every two weeks?

[Anonymous]

so i've been seeing this guy since September and we went on three dates only (because of coronavirus and quarantine we couldn't see each other more) and he's nice and seems interested during dates but he only texts me once every week or once every two weeks just to set up dates and he only answers with short responses or sometimes he leaves me on read so i'm started to doubt if he's really interested... Last week he texted me to ask me to come over to his place which i agreed but he didn't contact me since then. Do you guys think he's really interested or maybe he's just not good at texting?

[AmandaYVR]

Well he's asking you out on dates so it seems like he might just be adverse to texting, and prefers to use it mostly as a practical tool, to arrange logistics. Which is fine. You can't expect everyone to love texting, some just don't.

On the other hand, he asked you to come over, and then you didn't hear back from him, and that is kind of sign.

Many guys would say 'if he's really into you, he'll find a way to communicate.'

[FlutteringFeelings]

Once a week he’s texting you because the other days he has another woman who he’s investing his time in. When a guy is interested in a woman it’s hard to commit all his time to another woman. He’s keeping you on a string just in case it doesn’t work out with the other woman. It’ll be up to you to recognize the game and walk away. You stick around and the cycle will just continue.

[brendouche]

What if he texts you every day, twice a day, morning and night but only say "hey how are you?" Then ask to see u once a week?

[axali1]

He is watching YouTube videos on how to text girl he likes.

[Anonymous]

Had the exact thing happened to me. Long story short I ghosted him, I couldn't take it. He probably is interested and that's his way of making a relationship work, I don't know. Talk to him about it and see if he's willing to change. Mine kept saying with time he'll open up but I couldn't stand it. I thought he was playing games.

[Asker]

I'm also starting to think he's playing games... It's so annoying

[Jess1812]

Maybe he doesn't know what to text you about.

[Yourman86]

It could be either.. or he is lazy lol