I have watched tons of social media influencers, dating coaches, pick up artists, posting questions on here to related topics, videos on YouTube, using dating apps and etc. Despite the population rising to 7.6+ billion people on this planet and many resources to find someone. Many people are still single or miserable. I don't know how many people are happy in relationships today because that is impossible to know. But girls on GAG I will read answers by girls/women saying, "I want a guy or man to approach me", while others will say, "I don't want a guy or man to approach me". Personally, I think chivalry is dead, I think it's immature when guys are called simps just for saying a girl is pretty or beautiful and I think it's easy for a girl to get the attention she is seeking from strangers online but pushes guys to the side who are truly trying to get to know.
I understand girls and women are always on guard of "guys or men are only after one thing". But let me be clear to the ladies reading this. If you've talked to a guy for a few months and he doesn't send unsolicited pics of himself, he doesn't ask you to send stuff, doesn't say stupid shit on a date where he is implying sex, he is kind, respectful and he has good qualities plus physical traits then give him a chance. As a guy, I truly don't know what young women want today. Is it status, a mansion, a ton of money. I'm sorry but it seems like people chase the perfect life. It's different between working hard and being a Middle class family, compared to showing off. I get it, every girl and every woman is different. But today as a guy, it's not easy - some girls are crazy in the head, taken, not interested. Its okay for females to have standards but same goes for males as well. I really don't know what girls TRULY want nowadays. Again, there is no such thing as the perfect life, aiming to have some Disney fairytale is just fabrication.
I understand girls and women are always on guard of "guys or men are only after one thing". But let me be clear to the ladies reading this. If you've talked to a guy for a few months and he doesn't send unsolicited pics of himself, he doesn't ask you to send stuff, doesn't say stupid shit on a date where he is implying sex, he is kind, respectful and he has good qualities plus physical traits then give him a chance. As a guy, I truly don't know what young women want today. Is it status, a mansion, a ton of money. I'm sorry but it seems like people chase the perfect life. It's different between working hard and being a Middle class family, compared to showing off. I get it, every girl and every woman is different. But today as a guy, it's not easy - some girls are crazy in the head, taken, not interested. Its okay for females to have standards but same goes for males as well. I really don't know what girls TRULY want nowadays. Again, there is no such thing as the perfect life, aiming to have some Disney fairytale is just fabrication.
What Girls Said
Well, I found your problem.
You watch too much YT and spend too much time online.
I'm not exactly amazing at dating but I've still had three relationships - 2 men, 1 woman - and more casual flings or friends with benefits.
But you won't find any by being chronically online and bitching about "trends".
You go out and do things you like in the real world, you talk to people face to face, and you engage with reality.
I think we live in one of the best eras. Queer people have more acceptance than before, despite the recent rise in transphobia thanks to the far right, and technology makes even Bluetooth sex toy romps from across the world possible.
If you're struggling... Maybe set down the phone, turn off the computer, pick up a book and go to a coffee shop.
Lol I don’t support the LGBTQ+ — you have naked men and naked women dancing around kids at pride parades — that’s pedophilia. The LGBTQ+ is a satanic cult, forcing their ideologies. You’re acting like I watch YouTube 24/7 but judging by your answer you’re a kid who is brainwashed in this culture. I believe in God and God’s morals and ethics. You believe an ideology where a gay person and trans person are plopped in the same category with queers as well. Well I guess you wouldn’t care if a guy just walked into the girls change room and says I’m trans with a deep masculine voice, trans are part of the alphabet mafia with queers so don’t even talk. There are parents who have addressed in US courts that the LGBTQ+ promoting books of pedophilia for kids and people like you are silent. Go check yourself because what I just mentioned about the LGBTQ+ are vile, disgusting human beings. I don’t care if two same sex people like each other but stop forcing your ideologies down the throats of others. Hmm I wonder if the government would have an all faiths month, one flag with all symbols of faith in July, the government wouldn’t promote that. So the indoctrination you believe in, you’ve been duped, manipulated and lied to. Go ahead respond back and clap back but I’m right and you’re wrong.