Do guys usually choose side chicks that are less attractive than their main girl?

[nocturnalbaby]

[DaveJord]

Honestly, I always said that if I was to cheat on my ex-wife that it would be someone who was better looking. But since my ex-wife was like a 9/10 it never happened for me. That is what I though at 25. Now that I am 45 divorce and much older and wise that is all completely bogus bullshit. For me at 20 I was in a marriage so the I'd of leaving my ex-wife at that time was crazy to me, so if I wanted a side chick it would be to just hook up for sex and that would me I would want someone more attractive. But I was at that time in a good and healthy relationship and side chick was not even a consideration to me.

When the relationship with my ex-wife deteriorated to the point that I was considering a side chick... then became more about availability. I mean you have to have the right type of women to be a good side chick depending on the circumstances. Like are you really trying to hide it from you SO? If so then you want a women that will keep it quiet and you can trust, and will do all things that your SO will not or no longer do for you. So at that point looks become secondary.

So in the end, I think every guy appreciates an attractive women on some level, and would like to be with the most attractive women possible. **NOTE** I say most attractive women POSSIBLE... but it depends on all the other things you want out of the relationship and when you balance all the the other things out, then they become the most important thing to the man.

Looks only matter when it comes down to making a choice between two women that offer you all the things that the other women offers you out of a relationship and they are split down the middle 50/50 between the two. 90% of the time looks become the determining factor.

[BeMuse]

Why would that occur? If someone is going to cheat on you, they are going to go after people they find attractive and demand less of their time. If a girl is down to fuck and doesn't ask too many questions then she's less likely to get in the way of the main relationship. That's about the only conditions that would make since. Easy girls come in all levels of attractiveness at surface value.

[shaysh87]

no. main girl is the one he has romantic feelings for. side chicks are just girls he finds good in bed.

[nocturnalbaby]

yeah I know that but that's not what my question was

[calmcake]

probably. yk what they say "if you're doing something wrong, at least do it right".

[Anonymous]

Lol if the side chick is doing stuff the main won’t and it’s something that turns him on.. probably. I mean he probably won’t be with her for long. But hot girls that suck at life isn’t worth the time are effort if they can’t do shit. Is all I’m saying.

[truthisthree]

no he just has so many options

every girl is a side chick to him lol

[nocturnalbaby]

yeah that's kinda true lol. I find there's no point even considering anyone the main girl when a guy is involved with so many women at once. cause everyone is getting cheated on & the only difference with the main girl is that she knows his family and friends and the others are girls he's met externally that don't have any relation to people he knows personally so he can easily hide them more

[RuthlessAggression]

Why do you need a side chick

This hookup culture type stuff, is immoral and should be illegal

[Sixgunsound]

I don’t think guys “usually” choose side chicks at all. Some do but they generally aren’t wort either woman’s time.

[Avicenna]

Side chicks are usually less attractive than the main one. Presumably they're more willing to put up with such a stupid arrangement.

[zagor]

It's not all about looks for guys, despite what some women think.

[GreatnessBack]

I don't know, but he thinks they're hot enough to bang, so that's that.

[FilmGuy93]

Yup. The side chick is held to a way lower standard than the main chick.

[Grubhub]

No the side chick is usually hotter. The wife is average in most cases

[htmndg183]

One woman. I'll choose her always. No side chicks.

[EpicNate]

Committed man, good stuff.

[Anonymous]

An ugly girl won’t tell your main.

[Pterodon]

Not always

[Fuentes]

It happens

[AFretiredTXn]

Not always.