Why do guys want/need side chicks?

Question

So i'm a bit annoyed, every guy that gets to know me and wants to go on a date with me has a girlfriend and wants me as his side. I'm not going there since i'm not going to be second best! But what is it with guys and side chicks? This has happened to me 7 times right now so i don't know!

HorrorFan · Accepted Answer

Throughout human history, desirable men have had multiple women in their lives. Multiple wives, mistresses, concubines, etc.

Hell, it happens all the time in the animal kingdom as well. The males of many species are naturally inclined to multiple mates.

Also, side chicks are a thing purely because there are a certain percentage of women that are actually okay with being a side chick. If some women are okay with playing second fiddle to another girl because they only have eyes for one particular desirable dude, then yeah, of course there are going to be guys out there that will exploit that.

There isn't much bigger of an ego trip for a guy than multiple women wanting him, especially if some of those girls are completely okay with sharing.

super147 · Accepted Answer

Guys who want girls in every port are usually the most egocentric. They need approval from more than one girl and they get that approval from anyone who will touch their penis. It's all a bit basic and a bit caveman. The main point is that you don't need to be one of those girls. You can have a bit more respect for yourself, as it seems you are doing already :)

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

That is insane. Its all because of lust and they see you as somebody they can use, pump and dump. Ignore those guys. They're literally cheaters with no backbone. Don't let this get to you. Many of them today are like this. Don't allow yourself to fall for their nonsense. They have nothing else better to do. And they assume because of your physical appearance like you will just do it anyway. Their losers and a waste of time. Not worth being around, not worth having respect for. And if they really do have girlfriends, and they know that this is happening. THEY. ARE. DUMB. Literally a dunce.

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

here come some men with their whole "Gorilla ape shit" from eons back.

Sorry for your encounter. Maybe stop going to places where these guys are predominant. I know many good natured men that aren't like this. Good luck in the future

Youngm0ney · Accepted Answer

Dont ever let a guy put you second. Sorry that sucks! They must have been immature and couldnt handle just having one girl. There will be a guy who won't do this , just be patient and the guys who do it can fuck off

Izumiblu · Accepted Answer

Wow, you have had a horrible run there. At least you are finding out before something bad happens... i hope.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

7 times... You need to meet other kinds of guys. Maybe you're just having bad luck, maybe you're surrounded by assholes or maybe you overlook better guys.

As to why those guys want a side chick, they want to cheat with other girls without having to go through the trouble of finding a new one every time.

GraveTruth · Answer

Most of the time it's because the guy is immature.

The other reason is because women are known to withhold sex and offer it as a reward. Guys can't stand it. All we want to do is have sex with our gfs because it's awesome and we love her. We don't want to have a spectacular date beforehand to impress her or anything like that.

The problem with you isn't the guys fault here though. You are obviously picking them up at club/bars. A bar is probably the worst spot to meet a person. It's loud, you can't hear what they are saying, it's crowded, it's sexually competitive, and most of the time people are drunk as hell and acting like idiots.

likitb4istickit · Answer

Would you rather you were 1st best and he made his present girlfriend 2nd? Guys want variety for one. Also possible his present girlfriend has a lower sex drive but doesn't want to break up for other reasons (kids, finances etc). You might as well plan on being single for life and find some other hobbies besides guys unless you come across a less-honest guy that lies and says he's single when in fact he has a girlfriend. 7 honest guys in a row that were up front about what they wanted, I'm impressed with your luck.

rjroy3 · Answer

Bigger question why are these the guys the ones you attract/are attracted to?

Ephemera1 · Answer

I'll let you in on the secret. Side chics are there for just sex. He got a real relationship and then a chic on the side for when its not going well or in other words no sex. There 2 types of girls doods look for when they want a side chic, one a less attractive girl and two an easy looking/ desperate looking girl. You're pretty, so you may give off an easy going or desperate vibe.

JDavid25 · Answer

I don't know, I guess those guys they cake and ice cream too.. But, those are just some guys.. Me.. I don't need or want a side chick.. First it's too much drama for me, when one finds out the other, and that's pretty much treating a woman as an object.. Which I cannot stand..

BluntlyHonest · Answer

He know he is alpha and wanted by many women , he take advantage of fact that majority of women are only interested with minority of men

There are only two kind of men in this world , alpha guy who have power to get multiple women at once , and guy who always get rejected by women and ended up being porn addict forever

ASEXY · Answer

You meant to ask this question about straight/bi guys. No, not all guys want/need side chicks. Especially not me... The guys who want them are cheaters and aren't satisfied with being with only one person...

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

Do they not tell you beforehand they have a gf? I'd say snoop and get to know them really well before getting involved.

Anonymous · Answer

I won't lie I've been guilty of this. I say this thou for some reason I'm actually a nice person and kind but when it comes to girls and feelings I'm pretty selfish. If I could have 3 girls I would. Side chicks are better than a girlfriend because we don't have to deal with anything other than sex and affection.

Anonymous · Answer

This happens when guys meet girls who are good enough to have sex with but not good enough to want to date.

ElissaDido · Answer

Only immature boys are this way, I'm sorry you had to stumble assholes like that :/

Anonymous · Answer

I don't understand a lot of men sometimes. Sorry this is happening to you. Just tell them to fuck off and keep moving forward trying to find the right guy.

genericname85 · Answer

Probably Cause He has a girlfriend with a lower sex drive. Otherwise I can't imagine why a guy would want it.

Kanunu · Answer

That sucks girl. Sorry that has happened to you, so much. Feel better 😊

Theodorable · Answer

I don't need or want a side chick. When chicks try to be my side chick I politely tell them I have a full time chick.

Davevad · Answer

Not sure. I'd never do that to a woman; I think you're hot tbh and if I personally knew you I'd ask to date

Scrambledagain · Answer

How else we gonna rack up our numbers? It would be great if men were upfront and honest about it but that means we would never get laid lol

dudegrt09 · Answer

I think that happens to exceptionally good looking girls. I would get too aroused with you and would wanna cheat on my girlfriend. Maybe that is why I've never had a girlfriend and only fwbs

blondfrog · Answer

Cause all men are whores we wanna get you pregnant and not pay child support.

akadatank44 · Answer

Jesus Christ! 7 times? I feel sorry for you. Simply have it those aren't quality guys.

SmokemJay · Answer

Water seeks its own level if you ain't shit then you'll attract fuckboys... 7 times is retarded if you said 3 then maybe its them but 7 is od...

VomitV · Answer

Because you're basic and you're too easy. No guy looks at that as indicating long-term potential.

dudeman · Answer

Well to be honest the liberal political agenda made it so the rich get richer and the poot get poorer. So just by judging from your pic you go for men with a little coin. Its just market price.

KrustyTheClown · Answer

You wouldn't be second best to me baby. You look fine as hell. Text me sometime and I'll eat your pussy until you pass out. 434-203-****

Clive0377 · Answer

Because your so fit and intelligent they are probadly Looking to upgrade beyond their level! x

Anonymous · Answer

Cute girls go for cute guys. Cute guys get lots of girls. That's just life.

hannahbanana11 · Answer

It's dumb, the whole side chick thing, I'm either his or not, no gray area please

BigBallerSodaPop · Answer

I can't even get one so fuck if I know. Girls avoid me and my dick like the plague and I'm not even ugly.

Wolfspyification · Answer

While that does suck, sometimes a guy needs some variety. It is a rude and immature thing to do, but that's how I see it usually start

brewersfan01 · Answer

maybe they dont think ur mature enough to be the number 1

Anonymous · Answer

because chicks stop giving it up once they get into relationships

Anonymous · Answer

Guys only think about sex

Anonymous · Answer

You probably only let the hottest guy hit on you and that's why

Anonymous · Answer

They are d*** heads

Anonymous · Answer

Why do girls need multiple sugarbabes?

JSmuve · Answer

Because variety is the spice of life.

Blitzkrieger · Answer

I have no clue. One woman is enough for me.

bcromartie · Answer

For when the main gets mad of course!

mostwomenshouldstfu · Answer

You're pursuing the wrong types of guys.

sexcrazy12 · Answer

want their bread buttered on both sides

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah you are too beautiful not to be a number one

Anonymous · Answer

Just to have another option.

NajemEddine · Answer

backup

Anonymous · Answer

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