Is she no longer interested or am I reading too much into the situation?

[Anonymous]

Went on a great first date with this girl the other week on a Tuesday, we were there for 3 or 4 hours and the conversation flowed easily. Got her number and followed up for a 2nd date a couple days later. She invited me to come hang with her friends on that Saturday. We had a great time, I was getting along really well with her friends and having good conversation with her. I spent the night in the same bed as her and hooked up a bit. I left town for a few days that Sunday and she had plans the following weekend over 4th of July weekend, so we said we'd do something this week. She texted me last Tuesday saying she hoped I was having a good time with my family. Went 6 days without talking to her after that, as I wanted to leave her alone and let her enjoy her trip for 4th of July weekend. Fast forward to today, she's now back in town and I wanted to see if we can set up a 3rd date this week so I sent her a text today saying "Hey hope you had a great time this weekend! Would love to see you this week, are you free on Thursday?" and she didn't respond. What should I do?

[DaveJord]

Dude you went 6 days withoit checking up on her?

Oh yeah she's pissed... you fucked up my man. Always send good morning and good night texts. Just short texts without getting into conversations just so she knows your thinking about her. See now after hooking up and going 6 days without a text, she thinks you only are texting now because you want to hook up again. You might of blown it.

Every day she was gone. Every morning you should said.

"Hope your enjoying your trip, just wanted say good morning and hope you have good day."

Then at night, "Hope you sleep well and have a good night"

See you didn't do that, but if you did and she always responded then you'd know she was interested. But you didn't and now she might have hurt feelings. So let's be honest you say you didn't want to bother her, but truth is she's back in town and now you want see her again and maybe get lucky so now your texting her.

I'd send her an apology text kept short, like "Sorry i didn't text over holiday. I didn't want to bother you while we're out, but now I feel bad about that. Hope to hear from you soon."

50/50 if she responds... but its you best chance. Be prepared to be rejected and don't get upset about... you might already be blocked on her phone. You don't hook up and then ignore a women for 6 days, if your seriously interested in each other.

Do you even have any appreciation of the mental anxiety and frustration you put this women through for 6 days of wondering why isn't he texting me?

[DaveJord]

If she doesn't respond then give space maybe she'll come back around... but not likely.

[Guy13]

Don’t rush her into Caution. Hard-Sales or high-pressure and Relationships are counter intuitive.

[Guy13]

How about pull the trigger and say, "I have plans for us and this is what we are doing.. outdoor movie at art museum OR Whatever" Risk and eh, he might have a set of Nads after all :)

[kataang]

She probably doesn’t take you seriously. If she did, she would’ve texted you back already.

[Iron_Man]

She seems to like you try again Invite her out to dinner

[Avicenna]

Give it a bit more time

[Anonymous]

Stop being pushy.

[Asker]

Feel like I've been the opposite of pushy. I didn't message her for almost a whole week. I haven't double-texted her. How is this pushy?

[DaveJord]

Your not pushy, it's the opposite... you neglected her.