I messed up my life at 30 big time?

[Fzrz6455]

I started out good but a messed family home... did bad things and now i do have a job a degree in management but i am 30 no car no friends no drivers license no house and i live with a guy rommate who treats me like shit... i am female and hurt... i could have it all

[Staximus]

Well you realize your mistakes, just learn from them and don't do any more stupid shit. Start doing good things for yourself instead of bad things. Be good to people that are good to you and be good to yourself. You still have a lot of life left to live. You can make a good life for yourself, or make it a bad one. Might as well make it a good one. Fixing your life is like fixing an old a house or old car. It's a lot easier if you concentrate on fixing one thing at a time instead of trying to fix everything at once. Figure out what the most important or most urgent thing is that you need to fix in your life and concentrate on that first.

[Fzrz6455]

Why is everyone saying i am doomed

[Fzrz6455]

Two over here sai i am a failuire

[Staximus]

Because they are dumb. One of my buddies used to be a junkie. He would shoot heroin and sleep on the sidewalk on Skid Row. One night after getting sober for like the 10th time, he realized he was tired of destroying himself and wanted a good life. He just stopped doing heroin. That was it. He got a job as a valet. Now he owns a valet service and charges rich ladies $300 to cut their hair on the side. He has a wife, a kid, lives in a nice neighborhood, etc. Mike Tyson said "there's only one step between the limousine and the gutter" . It's easy to fall down a mountain and harder to climb back to the top, but you have plenty of time to get back on top because you are not dead yet. Just stop doing stupid shit that's bad for your future.

[exitseven]

Stop the pity party. Save your money, move to a better place, start on your Masters degree, get that drivers license and get your life back on track.

[Pete671]

well said!

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[joeldalton]

So fix your life. The responsibility falls on your shoulders.

[LimitedBenefits101]

30 year old and not even car licence you have truly failed in life
but then again once women hit 30 shi just goes downhill

[Fzrz6455]

Really

[LimitedBenefits101]

yep
it's time to look in the mirror and tell yourself to women up

[Fzrz6455]

Sk i am a failur for not ahving a car

[Fzrz6455]

So iam

[LimitedBenefits101]

You dont have CAR LICENCE let alone a car

[Fzrz6455]

So i am a loser for not having a license at 30

[LimitedBenefits101]

yes you are

[JakeS00]

Self-reflection, accountability, and humility is a big thing.

[zagor]

If you have a decent job why don't you move out from the shitty roommate?

[Fzrz6455]

I can't find aplace

[bamesjond0069]

You sound very low quality and clueless about how shitty your situation is.

[Fzrz6455]

Explain...

[bamesjond0069]

"now i do have a job a degree in management but i am 30 no car no friends no drivers license no house and i live with a guy rommate who treats me like shit" your job and degree mean nothing, everything else is total shit. And you're at the end of the line age wise. I hope you're really fucking hot for your sake.

[Fzrz6455]

So im screwed...

[SiberFox]

Why does your roommate treat you like shit?

[Fzrz6455]

He doesn't like me

[SiberFox]

And why not?

[Ruenella_]

At least you have a job.

[Ruenella_]

*degree

[Anonymous]

hahahaha lol

please stop lying

[Fzrz6455]

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