So I’ve been chatting to this guy for around 3 weeks and we’ve been on a date! We were talking all day each day until around a week ago when he suddenly went cold. He said he wasn’t looking for anything too serious (talking every day) which I get! I came on too strong but that’s just me:) so I’ve backed off and we don’t message all day but we do keep in touch. He’s responsive, I asked him if he’d be up for a second date and he says he’s busy this week and he didn’t give an alternative date. How can I make him reconsider me? We still chat but I can tell the dynamic has shifted I really like this guy. The first date went well but I was nervous/ on my period so in pain lol. I just want to see him again, how should I play it?
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This is a classic case of he’s just not interested and being nice about it. It could be something else but the likelihood is slim. I reccomend not initiating any contact and let him come to you. That would be your best bet to see if he has any desire to keep seeing you
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