2 mo

He cancelled our first date then rescheduled, but I'm not interested anymore?

Anonymous

Been talking to a guy from dating app for about 3 weeks. He was away for work for a week and we kept in touch daily. He then proposed that we have a date that next weekend, to which I agreed. So in my mind, we had a plan and I was really looking forward to it. Then came Friday and Saturday, no words from him. Safe to say I got disappointed. Then he called me Saturday evening to apologize for being silent, said Friday he had lots of work, then unexcpected drunk night, and now he has some kind of birthday party. I was like whatever. He then proposed to meetup next day, but that he is still not sure how he will feel. Basically to let me know tomorrow morning. Then Sunday morning he texts me that he feels awful headache blah blah, begs to forgive him and tells me to pick any day, time and activity I want next week. So I nonchalantly said I'm too busy whole week, but could maybe squeeze him next Saturday evening. He said done deal, then asked if he could call me a bit later that day, I said sure but he never called.

He just texted "hi, how are you?" again and gosh I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'd give him another chance if the reason for cancellation was legit. But partying? Just seems like a guy who doesn't do what he says he will, is unreliable, immature and didn't really take me serious.

How can I best reject him?

He cancelled our first date then rescheduled, but I'm not interested anymore?
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