Guys, why are you single?

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How long have you been single and why?

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I´ve been in single all my life and sometimes struggling with it and sometimes ok with it.
I´m single because the whole dating business is distorted and everybody loves to shift the blame while it feels like nothing can be changed anyways.
For me the biggest thing is that I´m simply not good at offline dating because I take time to fall in love and most women I meet at a daily basis are either taken or say they are taken.
Online dating isn´t better besides having to pay for everything I feel in many chats like in a job interview where I´m supposed to be entertaining her and if I´m boring I get kicked.
So I stay single for the rest of my life because dating is way too frustrating to get anything good from it.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

4 years now. I don't have social group IRL, I have one bestfriend IRL he and I go to Gigs every now and then but I don't know his friends and etc so to even meet a girl nvm date IRL is not within my social space.
Online well that's just random if someone shows a interest.

I am also unattractive so even if I did meet someone they wouldn't be attracted to me even if I have personality they like or fitting what they are looking for.

So that's my reasons.

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

Relationship ended a couple months ago. I'm single because I want to work on my social life before I bother with a dating life.

DoctorSex · Answer

Because I currently live in the west where polygamy is frowned upon.  I'm expanding my housing projects back home and once everything is in place, then I'll start recruiting. Kind regards, DoctorSex

Anthony20108 · Answer

I do have a girlfriend now but prior to her I hadn't met anybody no interesting girls I was shot down but anybody who I genuinely liked and it was overall depressing I got to a point where I was super lonely so I just kinda gave up but than I met her and that all changed I know sounds like a bunch of fairy tale bs but it's true lol

MrCon10t · Answer

I’ve wanted to have a wife and children for a long time. I’ve known that’s what I wanted since I was 13. I wanted to be married at 18 with kids at 20+. As for why I’m still single, well, that’s simple. A relationship requires two people.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I’m single since I was born, it’s not a specific choice, it’s a combination of various factor: workaholism, shyness, insecurities, introversion, rejections, general inexperience, demotivation to date.

NathanDavis · Answer

bit over two years, done it by choice... been focusing 100% on other things

clampfan101 · Answer

My first girlfriend passed away about 10 years ago. I haven’t fallen in love since, and due to life complications have almost literally no opportunity to look offline yet…

DavidRaul · Answer

Really couldn't find a person i can vibe with. Most of them are just hypocrites

CloudMassacre · Answer

I’ve been single my whole life. There’s a lot of different factors, but mostly it’s just my insecurities

Nik1hil · Answer

26 age Now.. Always been single!  Never wasted a day pursuing relationship..

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I've been single for 3 years. I've had a pandemic and law school to occupy my time lol

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

A number of reasons. Mostly lack of free time.

Jerre · Answer

I am single because I want to be single. My only engagement turned into a disaster (See my Profile for more info).

Sandorappah · Answer

I sometimes miss single life, but won't ever dump my lady as she is wonderful to me

KrakenAttackin · Answer

By choice. Being in a relationship is a huge drain for a man.

toad_sage_jiraiya · Answer

I've been single my whole life, it's a combination of being unattractive and socially awkward as well as a fear of commitment

msc545 · Answer

The alternative is too horrible to contermplate.

htmndg183 · Answer

Single because my relationship ended a couple months ago.

enocheli · Answer

women are prostitutes so relationships in general are fake so why date?

Tornado92 · Answer

Ur old no guy wants old use toilet paper like u.

mathewconfusion · Answer

its beacause we are scared of rejection or just want to be in a relationship later

Beerluvr · Answer

Why not. I’m young and don’t wanna be tied down. And other reasons but not wanting to say.

eagle1951 · Answer

because my wife of 37 years passed aw2ayfeb 2018

lildkman1090 · Answer

Every relationship I get in fails I’m inendowed

Gent207 · Answer

Because nobody believes that I exist lol

scott04sa22 · Answer

Don’t have money like Jeff Bezos

loveslongnails · Answer

I'm not, so I can't answer.

Loveisgirthy · Answer

Bad timing is the main reason

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'm not single

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s the way it is

TallAnon · Answer

Moved too much

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