Girls, would you rather date a older man or a younger guy?

[Anonymous]

Older man

Younger guy

Both

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Not only do I have a thing for silver foxes and vixens, but I'm also a firm believer that men mature slower than women.

My last two partners were men my age. I don't think I'll ever date a man my age again (especially not cishet men, and certainly not cishet white men). They're too immature.

A man in his 40s has more in common with me than a man in his 30s. And he's likely more self-aware and competent, and I find that attractive.

I'm personally hoping to find an older woman to date next.

[shaysh87]

I want to marry a man less than 10 years older than me. Because younger guys are immature. But if he's too old, I can't grow old with someone like that. Not interested in being married to a senior citizen by the time I'm 45. Sorry.

[fonduegirl]

Younger. He's a brighter future ahead and I wanna help him grow. I don't believe in stereotyping young men as immature as all of us have our individual differences — my 15yo brother is sometimes more mature than my 50yo father, even tho the latter has had more experience. Plus, if you meet a man at the peak of his career, the only way to go from there is downward slope. I ain't cleaning after him if it works out.

[Emiebaby]

Younger guys are immature and for my case they end up hurting your feelings without even realizing it and some times that's what differentiate men from boys... All I'm trying to say is that I would love to be with a man that's not too old 😊 rather than my mate or someone younger than I am

[Seinna]

Ideally between 2 years younger and up to 5 years older. The biggest age difference I'd consider is 10 years but he'd have to be really special.

[Dinklex3]

Around my age.

Preferably 27-33.

On paper i like the man being older, but I've only ever been with men younger than me 🤷🏾‍♀️

[menina]

I prefer older guys but not much older than me. However I don't think I have what it takes to date an older man, so I would settle for a younger man.

[Mijopapi2000]

Well what would it take to date us? lol What makes us so much work?

[menina]

@Mijopapi2000 I don't have maturity, dating experience and sexual experience to date an older man. It's not that you guys give too much work Lol

[Mijopapi2000]

Well I am immature as fuck so we would go perfect together lol

[menina]

@Mijopapi2000 Lol I don't know.

[Mijopapi2000]

I don't want someone who is all serious and wants to make me live a boring life. If you are 29 but have the maturity of a 22 year old that is really perfect lol.

[menina]

@Mijopapi2000 I don't want to live a boring life either but I also wouldn't say that I have the maturity level of a 22 year old (no offense to all 22 year olds on G@G).

[Mijopapi2000]

Well whatever if you say you are not mature enough I get it because not everybody wants to deal with kids and crazy responsibilities and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. They basically brainwashed people to be this way. It is ok to care about having fun.

[menina]

@Mijopapi2000 That's all true.

[DizzyDesii]

I prefer someone within 3 years of age, up or down. Atm i would prefer someone 24-29 but they need to be emotionally, physically and financially ready for the things Im also ready for

[Kori1236]

Older than me preferably but I don’t like much older. My max is 5 years

[Gloree]

Older guys are so hot. I don't know. So patient and tolerating and like leadership ability. Mine is around my age but posseses these qualities, so I'm okay.

[hIopinionated_]

I’ll rather date my age since I have an issue with man-made social norms

[zagor]

But the same age IS the social norm.

[hIopinionated_]

No the social norms is young girls and women dating and marrying old men

[zagor]

That is not true. Most people marry within a few years of their age.

Few take it as far as my parents, who were born 2 weeks apart in the same hospital.

[Cherry234]

Older or younger is fine with me as long as the age difference isn't too drastic.

[Anonymous]

My husband is 15 years younger and easily is the best relationship I've ever had in my life

[kangy]

not the age but the person himself that matters

[Jerseygirl1987]

My boyfriend 10 years younger then me. It’s great he makes me feel young.

[MikeInHawaii]

Just avoid making him feel old. When he references an historical event or cultural reference he remembers like it was yesterday, bite your tongue before saying “I wasn’t born, yet!”

[zagor]

@MikeInHawaii Why would he do that as he's 10 years younger than her?

[MikeInHawaii]

@zagor I misread that. I guess he needs to avoid saying “I wasn’t born, yet!”

Also, women tend to out live men by eight years. So why shouldn’t women get younger men?

[NYCQuestions1976]

As long as both people are adults, it's about taste, preference, and chemistry.

[Anonymous]

Dated a younger guy, he was immature, haven’t really dated an older guy but if we are both on the same page older or younger, it doesn’t really matter

[RuthlessAggression]

my mom married a younger man. 1 year and 24 days to be exact

she beat out the cliche, of women dating older men

[jengeorge26]

Older guys have more experience and younger guys have more energy

[Anonymous]

Younger, but with a similar age to me. Nothing too low.

[mandyfire98]

Older than me preferably

[VanessaValentine]

two to five years older than me.

[gkumar8991]

Hopefully not both at the same time.

[scott04sa22]

I’m single for life lol

[goodgirlsteven]

older men if you follow me you'll know why

[Tina19]

Younger guy

[Anonymous]

Hopefully they say older 😊

[Marianna546]

Guy my age

[LavLavLuv]

Older!