What’s your biggest stress in life right now?

Question

TwinTonyz · Accepted Answer

I can't establish any understanding for the kind of person I'm supposed to be as a dating man.

If I out earn my partner I'm participating in a toxic power imbalance
If I don't I'm a loser
If I commit to someone I'm desperate
If I don't I'm a fuck boy
If I'm sexually driven I'm a pervert
If I'm not I'm a prude
If I put my partner first I'm a simp
If I don't I'm selfish
If I have my own hobbies I'm neglective
If I have no hobbies I'm basic
If I'm fit I'm insecure
If I'm obese I lack self control
Passionate, soft
Stoic, cold
Attentive, clingy
Independent, neglective
Monogamous, family oriented, confident, ambitious
Restrictive, misogynistic, cocky, too busy

I cannot envision a single version of what I'm supposed to be which is attractive, acceptable, and mutually exclusive.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Going through my divorce for last 18 months, my ex-wife will not pull the hooks out... when ever we get to a settlement after hours of lawyer fees and it time and we get a verbal agreement when comes down to signing the papers she comes up with some other off the wall crazy ask. So basically its coming down to 21 July, she either signs or we go to trail. Which is complete craziness because a trail would cost 10's of thousands more after the $35,000 already spent and for what? She might get a few extra 1 to 2 thousands after spending 10's of thousands. Complete craziness... just sign the papers, get over it and move on with your life.

GurlMaster40 · Accepted Answer

Anxiety from my dad and feeling unsafe around him. Then my parents getting separated and then our house we don’t know where we’re going to live and then school. Aside from all that, I am stressed about opening up to my friends! I want them to know stuff but, I’m scared they will just attack me with the negative in my life like my dad would. I love them so much though, and I know they love me as well. That’s why normally when I’m around them I’m at my best and forget about all of my stressful things in my life that impact me!

FictionalCharacter · Accepted Answer

Me and my life.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

People . People have a way of making my life harder than it needs to be. From work to supposed friends :| I just resigned from a job today because the director said I wasn't being "productive" enough. I got a new job (which ultimately, will be better than my previous job), but it irks me I had to pursue a new job to escape a toxic manager.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not good at marketing for my book

Anonymous · Answer

People avoid me like the plague. Always have. I don’t understand why, but I can’t make any friends or any real connections because it seems like people in general would prefer to shove any affection I share back in my face, never letting me get close. Haven’t ever had a real relationship either. It’s like people see an invisible sign above my head that only they can see which reads “stay away. Just stay away”. And it’s all so irritating because my biggest desire in life is to be there for people. To support them when they need someone. I wouldn’t mind having a family either.

Rei13 · Answer

I have a few but most of them will resolve themselves within the next couple of weeks. I had to find a new living situation and now dealing with family drama/cleaning up the old house. Stress. Having to deal with an incredibly toxic ‘ex’ but also shouldn’t have to worry about that anymore either now that the only thing connecting us is going away after this weekend. So really my only current stress is organizing my apt lol

Beatrix7 · Answer

my ex that broke up with me because he cheated never found out for 2 years and we still talk and visit one another he doesn't understand its more hard for me than him he has a women he choose her i stil have feelings for him i know its a million times wrong to still talk to him and visit because i feel sometimes doingvit is casting a spell on me the wrong way i know i need to walk away how do i do it without greaving to much and feelings more sad

mobiusforniner · Answer

Gawd damn washing machine took a shit tonight. Wife is pissed we now have to manually drain the water basket and our clothes are soaked. I've repaired it myself two times in 7 years. Spent $700 for a new one tonight.

There goes my weekend plans.

Bob92220 · Answer

I'm in therapy right now and I'm learning a lot about myself. I'm learning I have codependency traits and attract women who are narcissistic. I also view relationships with "rose-tinted" glasses and make excuses for her bad behavior, or even blame myself for her actions. It's stressful.

Fuentes · Answer

I do everything for everyone in my familsocks. Always call me and need something or they cry and bitch about their life's when it's as simple as 123. So i have to fill out all the paper work and almost everything they do orbelse they eill fuck it up or just not do it right. I swear I'm the only smart one in my family and that sucks.

HighValue · Answer

Wandering if after the election if Newsom will require vaccines to work as a teacher, forcing me to have to leave CA to work. If he can get something passed the legislature eliminating the religious exemption I am sure he would.

Lynx122 · Answer

fucking paperwork :D I'm generally moving in a good direction but I have to move and it's gonna be a while before I can enjoy the results of where I'm headed.

Anonymous · Answer

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend because it was a mostly sexless relationship and I don't want to have to deal with the drama or burden of courtship or having to put myself out there all over again so I feel motivated to go to an escort or sex worker but at the same time I'm nervous about doing that because that industry is unfortunately illegal in most of the US, I have limited sexual experience for a guy in his 30s

KrisPW · Answer

Filling up the gas tank or the grocery cart. Can't do either without a sense of dread as the number ticks up and up and up.

Blackcosmo · Answer

Finishing up my schoolwork before the deadline.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

No stress.  many one who feels stressed, I tell them to let it go and enjoy the moment.

Anonymous · Answer

Not being able to loose weight properly due to my food addiction and PCOS SYNDROME. 🥺🥺🥺🥺😓😓😓😓😓😔

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm not really worried about anything. I wish I was in better functional shape, but I'm resolving each of those problems.

TheBootyChest · Answer

Not having friends, or people to talk to on a regular basis.

Rosexøxø · Answer

People lol 😂 it’s a love hate thing yk how it izzz

NerdDG · Answer

I can’t defeat Weiss on Final Fantasy VII Remake. He is too hard to hit and receives a small damages from me. It make me want to break my keyboard!

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Moving house. Followed by raising kids, work, partner, and everything else in the world

Gloree · Answer

Deciding if I should break up or not cause I still love him

David0545 · Answer

My girlfriend is out backpacking for weeks with no communication between us. She's going back to basic and has her phone only for emergencies. I trust her but what if...

monkeynutts · Answer

It's sad to see so many people in the world suffering, war, hunger, economic strife.

MissingAWoman · Answer

Fearful of ending up alone for life and the inability to find a woman without a romantic past.

mhfl1207 · Answer

Having to plan out work, college, sports, my horses, and just having a semi-normal life

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Being single and being the last branch in my family tree.

McKellar · Answer

Because of COVID,... extremely low on and need a shit or a fuck ton of money.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a girl obviously. I'm trying to find someone special.. again. And making enough money so i can buy/build a house in this fkin world that went crazy.

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Anonymous · Answer

satanic cabal trying to depopulate and enslave planet earth to create their new world order.

exitseven · Answer

Watching my country get destroyed.

NikolasGLT · Answer

Too many to count or tell

WhitneySnow · Answer

Academic summer camp

sheikalana · Answer

Not having enough sleep.

Marianna546 · Answer

Hmmm my crush lol

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Prices up salaries not up

animesenpai · Answer

Work I fucking hate it

Mgtow1990 · Answer

Probably women...

RuthlessAggression · Answer

the people of gag. fucking idiots

Alcoholic_Wannabe · Answer

My friend's complete incompetence

Kareem_z21 · Answer

Stresses for my study

TransAm85 · Answer

Work

Anonymous · Answer

Finance and survival in general.

LztutuIsCute · Answer

Overthinking some things...

sofia444 · Answer

Concerns about health of someone i love dearly...

gayeki · Answer

Overthinking for me as well😶

Jltakk · Answer

Money and it always will be.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

How expensive everything is getting

Sammie_hunts · Answer

My love life

DevinAM · Answer

Not having a driver's license yet.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Overthinking

AlexM007 · Answer

Happiness.

Titlover01 · Answer

A lot of things

Anonymous · Answer

Wishing I had my own home

JakeS00 · Answer

My career

Anonymous · Answer

Reading questions on GAG

jahaims · Answer

Humanity

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Work

In_Trance · Answer

taxes

ItzJhay · Answer

Joe Biden.

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