Do girls normally look back at conversations they've had on dating apps with guys they've matched with?

[Anonymous]

I matched with this girl in October last year. We exchanged numbers and went on a couple of dates but nothing came of it. We decided to just be friends. Yesterday I got a notification from the dating app saying the girl liked one of my messages. I clicked on the notification which took us to the conversation we had and I didn't see any messages that were liked. I'm guessing she unliked it out of fear of getting caught out. Is it normal for girls to go back after so many months to go through a convo they had with a guy?

[Rosexøxø]

Wow you’re smart lol. Yeah I have, personally. I used to screenshot the messages that were wholesome, witty, and sexy. Pick up lines, times I caught a guy’s digital boner showing… lol and other stuff. I’d delete them after some time though because it was just unhealthy and I let it be a moment of the past 😊Good times. I’ll have many more.

[Asker]

Why do you think she was all of a sudden looking through our conversation?

[Rosexøxø]

Reminiscing lol. Probably going to the chats she had enjoyed and found a message of yours that she liked and wanted to save for later, or to have it stand out, or it was a subconscious impulse that she had to quickly change. She liked it and her finger went to like the message, but she realized you’d get notified and probably thinks you don’t see her as “anything more,” so she’d be embarrassed for you to also realize she was going through messages. She could’ve been talking with you instead as well which would make the scenario awkward. She probably thinks your guy’s talks won’t be as exciting as the ones from before because now you’re both just friends. She could be also looking through a series of old conversations to see if she can pick up your feelings from them, and see how you view her and your relationship together. It’s a reflection thing and/ or a reminiscing thing. That’s what I truly believe.

[Asker]

In terms of not seeing her as "anything more", it's more of a thing that I've had to accept. She knows I like her (at least I think she does, it's a complicated situation) and as far as I know she doesn't see me as anything more than a friend. Which is why I'm wondering why she all of a sudden is reminiscing about the convos we had back then on te dating app. Would it be wishful thinking of me to think maybe she might be starting to develop some interest that wasn't there before?

[Fireguy17]

Yes, they don't forget, so it's best not to lie.

[Asker]

I do wonder why, after 10 months, she was going through our conversation again.

[Fireguy17]

Just because, and to see if anything has changed.
Women are good detectives.

[In_Trance]

Some do, so don't say dumb shit

[Asker]

Just wondering why after 10 months she decided to go through our conversation

[In_Trance]

how would anyone know but her? ask her