Why do girls always prefer bad guy who treat them really bad and end up breaking their heart, rather than good guys?

[Andrewosas]

[AmandaYVR]

I had a short chat with a woman around your age, on here yesterday.

She said, "I’m definitely turned on by his lack of care and non challant. Probably because I can’t be that way and also I love the confidence that comes with it."

Food for thought. That's not about being mistreated. It's a valid reason.

Note: This guy hasn't treated her badly yet. But she's witnessed him treat others badly. And he's been pursuing her. Which makes her feel good. He's claimed he “usually dates models.” Whatever the fuck that implies.

As others have said, a bad guy doesn't always present as all bad. It's more complex than that. Some people take time to get to know.

[anon1903]

Let's not break men down into stereotypes of "nice guy" and "bad boy". Men are more complex than that. So are women.

[normalice]

You're mixing the result with the cause. Such men are usually exceedingly nice to get women into bed. But once they fuck them they think they are now their property and treat then as such. And as the woman gets less and less interested in being property coupled with being disillusioned of the charm she saw when they first met, it starts going poorly. It's not really the guy who they miss so much as the feeling of intimacy with someone they are drawn to.

[MCheetah]

Because they see good guys as simps, betas, submissive, confident-less, and weak.

And although some women will try to tell you men only go for bad girls too, I rarely see this in real life. ... Or even on the internet.

[Avicenna]

They don’t prefer that, but done einen find the bad boy more appealing and/or think they can change him. Not everyone makes good decisions.

[boggboss]

They don't the guys they get with that treat them bad pretend to be nice guys at first then slowly switch once the girl is invested

[sythe_crimsonstar]

We don’t. I may crush on them but I stay away from them religiously because I know that it’s no good, like, at all.

[bamesjond0069]

Because good and good are not the same just as bad and bad. You may define good one way but girls do not. You think good is weak and women dont like weak men.

[FilmGuy93]

The poor treatment makes the times he treats her well all the better.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Why are we still generalizing in 2022?

[Agagagagaga]

Because that’s what people do. Make generalizations. God damn. 🙄 Do you really think the fucking year is going to stop the human tendency to generalize things?

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

@Agagagagaga lmao I said wtf I said weirdo.

[Anonymous]

Nice! Another person blocked me because I pointed out their idiocy! @ShatteredMasterpeace

[Guy13]

They don't always think straight

[Guy13]

Once the bottom falls out…and they are dealing with abuse, some sort of violence, sleeping with anything that moves THEN they leave…

[Guy13]

For 6 months then go back for more. SWIIPE IT…

[Anonmehahaha]

Mm we like the chase, the game

[msc545]

Those guys are more exciting.