My boyfriend cancelled his family vacation then happpened visit a beach 30 minutes away from the beach I was at with a friend. Coincidence or no?

[Anonymous]

Of all the beaches, why pick one so close?

It's a coincidence

It's an on purpose

[Hrumf]

Sounds like it was purposeful.


I think it can mean one of 3 things:


1. He would rather spend time with you than go on vacation with his family. He would have missed you too much.
2. He thought you might have been out with a guy and didn’t trust that you aren’t cheating on him, so he went to the beach to make sure.
3. He is possessive and doesn’t want you spending time with anyone without him being present for whatever reason.


It can easily be none of the above or all of the above.

[Asker]

I was surprised.

[Guy13]

Purposeful…

[Asker]

Why?

[Guy13]

And making a point…

[Asker]

Point about what?

[Guy13]

It was not coincidence

[Asker]

Yes, I got that but what point was he trying to make?