What should you do if your crush is cold towards you outta nowhere?

[Anonymous]

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He ignore me, i feel insecure

[Danzigdawson]

Ask him what's going on, telling him that you noticed he was cold with you and that you don't understand why.

Also, be cautious with people who use what appears to be passive-aggressive ways to express their frustrations or disapointments. It doesn't mean don't date them but it may be a sign that this particular dude is a fan of mind games or that he's emotionally stunted.

[Asker]

This is good advice but i dont want to feel needy and “annoy” him. Should i just be cold and ignore him like he does to me?

[Danzigdawson]

I understand your concern but I think that nothing comes out of playing mind games, especially if both people in a relationship do it. Honesty and truth builds healthy relationships, not deceit and attempts at mind-control. And if he thinks that you're "needy" because you want to clear things out and understand his behavior, I'd say that this guy may not be worth the trouble. You're the bigger person for wanting to do something about what's going on.

Also, sometimes, "needy" is just an excuse both guys and girls who don't want to be shown respect or affection use to get rid of people who are treating them like they're worth it. Sometimes it isn't and the person really is insecure and needy, but that would not be the case in the situation you're describing. Hope this helps and good luck!

[In_Trance]

Your crush? Do they even know you?

[Kareem_z21]

I would do the same