Do you ever act cold towards your crush for no reason?

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Do you ever act cold towards your crush for no reason?

[Anonymous]

OMG THIS QUESTION!!! YES ! But let me explain why. Because when you're around your crush you're super critical of how you're speaking and behaving and you want to ensure they have the best opinion of you.

But when you don't want to come off as too eager or too interested and wanna play it cool it can easily go the other way. Sometimes I've tried so hard not to seem overly into my crush in front of our group that I can be a bit harsh or bitchy. I hate myself for it. But I do it :/

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Hey at least you realize its bitchy. Thanks for making me feel a bit better.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me it's a subconscious thing. Don't take it to heart. It just means she's super conscious or worried about how you see her and what you think of her.

When girls have a crush especially on a guy with a strong personality we have a war inside our head: show him affection and interest vs play hard to get to untice him. This confusion leads to bitchiness at times.

[Opinion Owner]

Intice*

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Is it bad if sometimes I would play cold back just to let her know I'm not into games? Every time I do this she usually loosens up.

[Opinion Owner]

No it's not bad at all. Seriously take it from me were so used to players who love nothing more than to play games and mindfuck you that when a decent guy comes along we have our guard up.

Just be perfectly normal and don't be afraid to tease her every now and then. My crush does this to me and it drives me crazy. One minute he'll compliment me next minute he's teasing me. That kind of playfulness is good but bitchiness is fucked. When she's being like that walk away or don't engage in conversation. Kinda like training bad behaviour out of her 😂😂😂

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Thanks. You've been a great help!

[blackeagle007]

Women are shallow though

[Opinion Owner]

Oh don't get me wrong in all of this. Girls can be majorly fucked in the head haha. Like girls that flirt with everyone including their friends boyfriends. Girls that will lead a guy on even when they're clearly not interested.

But a club is not the right environment to meet the love of your life in my opinion hahaha

[Vesuvius87]

This was so long ago in my freshman year of HS but in my case I didn't turn mean for no reason. He was making me feel uncomfortable and trying humiliating me by insisting ''You like me don't you'' and how he heard it all. So off course I got upset and turn mean in return, then stop liking him immediately.

[xxItsChristina]

I've never been mad at my crush, but if I at least try to stay upset about something that happened recently (not necessarily pertaining to him), he always makes me smile and laugh anyway :) I think most girls are like that.

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Hey at least I know now that most girls are like that. Still pisses me off

[xxItsChristina]

Do you think a girl has a crush on you that's giving you the cold shoulder lately?

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Yeah. She's a friend of mine. All of a sudden she has been trying so hard to ignore me and all that. Little things like offering everyone a chip but me, and then as I start talking to her friend she starts butting in trying to get my attention. And then as soon as I act cold back, she starts coming back. I hate these games.

[xxItsChristina]

Then let her know! It sounds like she might be confused on her feelings for you and wants to make you jealous, or something similar. Just straight up approach her and demand (with obvious good intentions) that you talk to her. Be courteous and find out what's going on, she'lls appreciate it, so long as you don't be too aggressive.

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Sounds good. Thanks a lot for the help!

[xxItsChristina]

No problem! I hope my advice works for you :)

[Mikaychay95]

No but he acts that way towards me though

[MyNameIsNotWill]

Really? What does he do?

[Mikaychay95]

I posted this minutes ago and it basically sums it up

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1350767-why-would-a-guy-flat-out-avoid-a-girl-he-likes

[Account]

Yes, I do.