Have you ever acted cold towards someone you like?

[Anonymous]

If so, what made you act that way? And how did that person react?

[Anonymous]

Yeah but I didn’t realize I was being cold. I thought I was just respecting his space and didn’t wanna be annoying so I barely reached out to him unless he reached out first. When I do reach out I always make it quick and to the point. I also didn’t really open up to him until way later bcs I didn’t feel the need to share much about what I’m going through lol

[Naruse]

Yeah. Mental illness mostly. I think in the case where your feelings aren't reciprocated especially if you've overly romanticised the person in question. If you're open and extroverted you can communicate be rejected and move on, if not you might end up with feelings for someone in a professional context that are inappropriate and have festered making it extremely difficult to contend with. Sometimes just ending contact is better than becoming abusive. I've said some fucking horrific shit to girls in my teens and I would rather just end it than go back to treating people that way.

[johnnydeeeep]

Yeah and it was a defense mechanism, I began feeling as though she was losing interest so I sabotaged it to beat her to the punch. That was actually just recently with one of the last women that I dated. Im thinking of calling and fucking her best friend just to be cruel and after that work my way into her pants too just to fuck with heri'd be stoked if I could have them both in a threesome

[Asker]

Are you really 42?

[johnnydeeeep]

I am, why do you ask?

[Asker]

There’s no way you think like this.

[johnnydeeeep]

I understand that my reaction is entirely unreasonable and immature, further that it is her prerogative to like who she likes for however long she does, additionally that she does not owe me anything... But rejection stings and I have always wanted to sleep with her best friend and have a threesome with both, so if nows my opportunity why not?

[johnnydeeeep]

Lol, I just saw your second response :)

[johnnydeeeep]

However pathetic it is legitimately my authentic thoughts and aim, and given my track record, all goals I will succeed at accomplishing lol :)

[johnnydeeeep]

Why do you not ever allow yourself the space to take unreasonable and selfish, in full flight from reality, vengeance?

[Asker]

I don’t have the energy for this anymore. It draining to reason with a grown ass man who still acts like he’s in high school.

[johnnydeeeep]

Have you ever allowed yourself to experience the satisfaction of lashing back at someone that has caused you harm in one manner or another. Talk about cathartic... Fuck therapy... Watching them feel how you did makes everything better 🖤☠️🖤

[tzdc21]

The only time I have ever acted cold towards someone I liked was when I realized that I was being played or used. And thank God that person took the hint and never bothered me again.

[Anonymous]

There was this girl I used to like and talk all day, we used to talk and flirt for few weeks. Later on she lose interest in me, talking less and less day by day. I asked the reason she didn't tell. Later on I found out she's talking with someone else too and cheating. So I was broken, I moved on.

[Nirmroth]

In an act to grow and create distance to me and her. My ex did not like it and wanted to stay in contact but we were already broken up at this point and I wanted a clear cut.

[OfMiceandMen]

I have not, even though they may deserve it sometimes, I tend to not get bothered by those things.

[007kingifrit]

yea like if a girl i was into told me she was into someone else i would be cold.

How did it end? depends. sometimes we get closer after a fight if we're mature people, and sometimes we never talk again.

[Masterodd]

No, I have not... But I seem to attract that kind behavior.. would you not agree with me Sasha?

[Asker]

I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ What am I agreeing to?

[exitseven]

Yes, I was trying real hard to not like her. I did not want to be in a relationship.

[loveslongnails]

Maybe when I was a kid, but I can't recall doing that anytime in the past 15 years.

[Anonymous]

Yeah there was this guy or few guys
I noticed that they never initiated a convo with me like I do and they just contact me to get something done
So I blocked and stayed away from them

[LiamJHayden]

No. I rarely behave that way even towards those I am not fond of.

[BLP11520]

That’s not me I don’t know how to do that

[LavLavLuv]

No that’s so not me

[dudeinohio]

Never

[eagle1951]

yeah