Im 14 and everyone seems to like a guy but I don't like anyone?

[Ellaxxxx]

I try so hard to like someone, anyone but I just don't. Also all my friends are getting boyfriends but nobody seems to notice me.

[RavVid]

Look, some folk break up and have new boyfriend/girlfriend within a week. Others take quite a long time to find someone suitable.

I can see that you would feel out of it that your girlfriends have boyfriends and you don't. But you shouldn't just try to like anyone. Probably your gfs are going for any boy available and vice versa on the boys side. That is not a good approach. It is a bit hard to say love at 14 but you should not settle for other than genuine affection because it is fairly worthless without that.

There will be a boy coming a long that you do like without having to try to like :)

[TheSpaceGnome]

I didn't like anyone when I was 14 either, and tbh I still have not met anyone I like enough to date, but I do know what I want in a girlfriend.

As long as you know what you want, stick to that. Don't worry about how long it takes to find it.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

This is the only thing in life where you don’t want to try (finding someone), because it never works when forced. The ONLY exceptions to this are Blind Dates but now that you know that, it will be even more forced and he probably won’t even show up. But, the main reason why Blind Dates even work is because the girl is always left hanging, but then her guy friend conveniently shows up out of thin air and then Kadabra Ah, they’re together now. Unless the guys your friends are with are Filthy fu-in Casuals (which they most likely are because about 87.2% of humans now are) then you’re not missing out on anything. Don’t force yourself to like anyone either, that’s like, forcing it to relatively disgusting levels. You’ll start lying to yourself, and then when that happens it’s hard to see the truth and TAKE OFF YOUR BLINDFOLD. And then you’ll find yourself always dating pieces of Torosaurus sh*t and you’ll be like Nickocado Avocado when he says, “I’m getting fat and I don’t know why”. Just wait, or start off as friends with someone you ACTUALLY feel a connection with. DONT date, it sucks and it’s dumb and stupid and pointless. I have a saying: Noobs date, Giga Chads wait. Be a Giga Chad. That title isn’t exclusively for human males you know. Blessed Blade Belactus. A holy sword made by the Slends, representing the cross’s toughness.

[Sixgunsound]

Everybody matures at different rates. You shouldn’t let your level of attraction to other people defined you, because it does not. Also it’s important to note that the girls who are talking about doing all sorts of things with boys statistically aren’t. Doubly so for the boys who are talking about doing all sorts of things with girls. I would find something else to focus on, and let love happen when it does. I didn’t get into a relationship until my senior year in high school, and I have no regrets. If asked at the time, I had been getting around since my freshman year but that just isn’t realistic or true. Male culture almost forces us to make these stories up to fit in, does the same thing happened with the girls?

[Ellaxxxx]

Ye it kinda does happen with girls, you always have to like someone or. yoir judged and made fun of

[Sixgunsound]

Do they make you prove you like someone? Why not just make up a story like guys have to in order to move the conversation along then let the focus go to someone besides you?

[Ellaxxxx]

That would be a good idea but then they might acctually TELL that guy I "like" him

[Guy13]

Please don't let your Value be defined by whether you have a boyfriend or not.-That so not important as you will many in the future... we're not that great anyway ;-)

[OddBeMe]

But you see the pattern, though? you're hard to please and also not seeing any hits?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Yep sounds like life, don't worry you'll get numb to it lol

[laurieluvsit]

Why does your profile say you are 19?

[baserunner611]

Normal it normal